Hae nauh, you miss the point.
Hae nauh, WTF is your problem?!? Why do you insist in defending yourself with unrelated topics. You talk about "barely legal websites", "phones being tapped all the time", "personal diaries" and "what goes through the mind of the average male". Fine, lets say most men are like you and me, and the idea of videotaping themselves having sex with their girlfriend/wife/escort has crossed their minds. That has nothing to do with the fact that this warning thread is for those SPs that DO NOT want to be videotaped. Regardless if it's legal or not, or used for personal use ONLY, or it's better than downloading kiddie porn, the point is that these SPs DO NOT want to be in some dude's homevideos. Why do you argue the fact that these women DO NOT want to be videotaped? Clearly they DO NOT want to be videotaped. Why insist in telling them they're wrong in their feelings? These women DO NOT want to be videotaped when they're working regardless of the intent of their clients, end of story.
Oh yeah, did I mention "THESE WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO BE VIDEOTAPED"?