So prostate massage is a thing...

[renuck]

Yeah I know there will be some immature giggling about this but it seems to be a thing. I see it's mentioned often(ish) in BP ads and a massage place (can't remember which one exactly) has it in their rates and claims all their ladies are "trained" on it so there must be some demand. Anyone done it? anything to it?

I'll back track a bit, a couple months ago I saw an MPA and she just went for it. I wouldn't call it a massage though, more like a "press the button" thing for the finish in 14 seconds. She did say a bunch of times prior that if I'm uncomfortable with what she's doing then just let her know. I maintained I'm comfortable, do what you want to do. I didn't realize this was the end plan but by that time I was pretty agreeable at that moment so it happened.

Can't say I hated it but it was also a deer in the headlights moment for me. I'm a bit of a sucker for new experiences so I was thinking on looking into it further, I may hate it but I may not. I'm thinking i might sign up for a massage... depending on feedback. Curious what your thoughts and experiences are.

 

[Johnny Utah]

I’ve had similar experiences but not with a mpa.

It just feels like pressure for me right now, and I wonder if it gets better? Certainly willing to try.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Unlike others I'm not going to take the time to write a novella explaining this to you. Google is your friend. Try reading these links https://thoughtcatalog.com/lorenzo-...ings-you-need-to-know-about-prostate-massage/, https://www.astroglide.com/blog/what-is-the-male-g-spot-/, http://www.rebelcircus.com/blog/stimulate-male-g-spot/, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwj7FiaUrQc, etc. I was a body rub attendant for a short period of time and found that many patrons enjoyed this kind of additional stimulation. You need to be relaxed to get the full benefit from this technique and springing it on someone is not the way to go!

 

[Mr Bret]

This has been discussed many times in the massage reviews section.

Here's what I think is the most important thing to keep in mind regarding a PM.
There is a huge difference between a well administered prostate massage and just having a finger stuck up your butt.
A good PM can lead to a very explosive ejaculation whereas a poorly done effort can actually be painful, a pain in the ass, if you will.

Do a search in the massage reviews.

 

[MissCroft]

You need to be relaxed to get the full benefit from this technique and springing it on someone is not the way to go!

Lol. Yes, you have to ask politely first before sticking your finger in someone's bum.

 

[sempel]

Lol. Yes, you have to ask politely first before sticking your finger in someone's bum.

I don't know. That one guy thought it was ok with an SP even though she said no to Greek. I guess that's not the case??

I'm only joking given the fury was unleashed on that guy. That said, isn't this MPA guilty of assault? I'm sure if the OP did the same to her she might not have reacted as politely as he did.

To the OP, there are a number of threads listing ladies who do this and know what they are doing. I don't know if this MPA is actually someone who does PM's but given you didn't enjoy it as some of these others do, it may be better to reserve judgement after you've gotten it done by someone who knows what she's doing. I can't recommend anyone as I've never gotten one and for now, prefer to keep that specific area untouched.

 

[brualex33]

Lol. Yes, you have to ask politely first before sticking your finger in someone's bum.

Yes please.....

 

[dickydoem]

Yeah I know there will be some immature giggling about this but it seems to be a thing. I see it's mentioned often(ish) in BP ads and a massage place (can't remember which one exactly) has it in their rates and claims all their ladies are "trained" on it so there must be some demand. Anyone done it? anything to it?

I'll back track a bit, a couple months ago I saw an MPA and she just went for it. I wouldn't call it a massage though, more like a "press the button" thing for the finish in 14 seconds. She did say a bunch of times prior that if I'm uncomfortable with what she's doing then just let her know. I maintained I'm comfortable, do what you want to do. I didn't realize this was the end plan but by that time I was pretty agreeable at that moment so it happened.

Can't say I hated it but it was also a deer in the headlights moment for me. I'm a bit of a sucker for new experiences so I was thinking on looking into it further, I may hate it but I may not. I'm thinking i might sign up for a massage... depending on feedback. Curious what your thoughts and experiences are.

Did she write you a good review?

 

[massman]

Not only is it a thing, it’s a very good thing if done well (and no jagged nails!). For me it generates a wicked orgasm. One civvy partner of mine would do this while giving head. The first time she did this I think I almost drowned her with how I came (no way she could swallow it all, no matter how hard she tried!). With an mp, managed to give myself a facial while lying flat on my back!


“Prostate massager” toys are also useful if playing solo. Feels good during but as you cum, because of the shape of the toy, the contraction of your pelvic muscles rubs it more intensely and instead of 10s long orgasm, orgasm lasts much longer and you can cum a lot more.

(Be careful tho. It has been known to turn hetero dudes instantly gay.)

 

[rhuarc29]

So, you've been living under a rock? I just assumed all men knew what a prostate massage was, even if they're never participated in one.

 

[renuck]

That said, isn't this MPA guilty of assault?

LOL don't even start on that, it doesn't take much to get some people here fired up! No she didn't explicitly ask but I had a short period of time where I knew what was going to happen so I had a chance to say no. I had a lot of decision making to do in ~90 seconds. First was am I comfortable with this? I've had a few colonoscopys and one I woke up half way through. I woke up to my ass being on a large monitor with 3 or 4 people intently watching. That was a major invasion of privacy feeling hahaha. My point is I'm not as defensive of my ass as what I used to be. Second, I've had some issues (hence the colonoscopys) which has thankfully been fading away but i had to consider if this would be an issue. I decided to just roll with it. I said I didn't hate it, I wouldn't say that is the same as saying I didn't enjoy it but what I experienced certainly wasn't a massage.

So, you've been living under a rock? I just assumed all men knew what a prostate massage was, even if they're never participated in one.

Who are you talking to? My OP stated I was surprised by the apparent popularity of it which I hadn't noticed until I started looking into it, then the question asked was who's done it what are their thoughts on the experience. I can't find anywhere where someone was asking what it was.

Thanks massman (and others) for the valuable input.

 

[Zaibetter]

I read this and I miss so much Lucy

 

[rhuarc29]

Who are you talking to? My OP stated I was surprised by the apparent popularity of it which I hadn't noticed until I started looking into it, then the question asked was who's done it what are their thoughts on the experience. I can't find anywhere where someone was asking what it was.

Guess I interpreted your post wrong. Apologies

 

[renuck]

Guess I interpreted your post wrong. Apologies

Oh. When I used the term "a thing" I meant as a trend or something popular, but I can see how it could be interpreted as me saying it's something new I've never heard of. Apparently poor choice of words on my part. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[luv2fress]

It can be a little difficult to search here because many use the term "PM" instead of prostate

 

[Kirby2006]

So that's what everyone means here when they say 'PM me'

Geez. I missed that paragraph when I read the terms and conditions when I signed up for Terb.