Not always.
Vibe and cmj: almost always
P/at: sometimes. Quite often, you have to ask.
Alo and other spas: no to my knowledge.
I enjoy sf2 before and after, especially before as it is a good way to break the ice when it is the first time meeting. You can tell a lot how the session would go..
Jenni at vibe is quite good at shower play. All within the ma norms.