Exactly, I couldn't have said it better....No, not if you have a Significant Other. The idea is appealing if you can be assured that it will remain a secret but it won't.
If you need to cheat on her, go to a discreet escort. If your Ex wants to get laid she can go to a thousand other guys but she wants to stir shit.
If you have a current gf, DON'T DO IT! If u have nothing to lose and your up for her hassling after "sex wit the ex" then go aheadI was approached last night (we were at a 'mutual' event) by my Ex. I was there without my SO.
A bit of an awkward conversation, but then she started asking about us spending more time together. She knows (through the kids) my SO is going away for a week for a conference for her work in a weeks time and my Ex asked if she could come over and spend time with me and the kids (dinner etc).
Then she outright said that once the kids were asleep we could do the 'Sex with the Ex thing' - her exact words!!
I know my answer is a complete and utter NO WAY IN HELL as I would never trust her to keep it quiet and she could use it against me etc.
But it got me wondering " Have any terbites done this and was it as good as I have heard it is (some sort or elicit type thrill etc).?
This actually hits the nail on the head perfectly for one of my long term ex's. Just change the two weeks to two months (if mutually single) and span that over years. Really it's a good arrangement for everybody-- We know each other well, it's a sure bet, and we're still friends. We should just never be together in a romantic context.One I lived with for 5 years and we fought like cats and dogs, and the break up was a nightmare, but every 2 weeks for more than a year, she'd slink over to my bed. (We never had any problems in bed.)
I actually agree with you on this one!No, not if you have a Significant Other. The idea is appealing if you can be assured that it will remain a secret but it won't.
If you need to cheat on her, go to a discreet escort. If your Ex wants to get laid she can go to a thousand other guys but she wants to stir shit.
Don't worry Ben... it was kind of a rhetorical statement. Thanks for your concern though....Stoo
Please don't do that.
Never underestimate the power of familiarity and a 'sure bet'. In your friend's case it sounds like a recipe for a fair bit of fucked up hurt.One of my best friends divorced because his wife cheated. She starts dating some guy and cheats on the new boyfriend with my friend, her EX!! That always seemed weird to me.
no way in hell. she was a vicious biatch until the last minute.But it got me wondering " Have any terbites done this and was it as good as I have heard it is (some sort or elicit type thrill etc).?
.... and don't pull a moon in Wabigoondon't sleep with your ex
don't bounce any cheques
don't rubber neck at car wrecks
don't steal a horse from a guy named tex