Sex with the Ex

Don

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I've had sex with the ex in several cases. It always led to us getting back together.... and more pain when we broke up again... and again

But every time, we were both single when we did it.
 

The Bandit

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No, not if you have a Significant Other. The idea is appealing if you can be assured that it will remain a secret but it won't.
If you need to cheat on her, go to a discreet escort. If your Ex wants to get laid she can go to a thousand other guys but she wants to stir shit.
Exactly, I couldn't have said it better....
 

hairyfucker

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just take a picture of your dick and say screw this. she is your ex for a reason.
 

capitalman

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Not an ex wife, but an ex girlfriend....the sex was amazing mostly because we didn't have that commitment factor and the stress of knowing we had to do shit with each other afterward. But then it got to be so often that we just ended up together again then it sucked.
 

tomtom2

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I was approached last night (we were at a 'mutual' event) by my Ex. I was there without my SO.

A bit of an awkward conversation, but then she started asking about us spending more time together. She knows (through the kids) my SO is going away for a week for a conference for her work in a weeks time and my Ex asked if she could come over and spend time with me and the kids (dinner etc).

Then she outright said that once the kids were asleep we could do the 'Sex with the Ex thing' - her exact words!!

I know my answer is a complete and utter NO WAY IN HELL as I would never trust her to keep it quiet and she could use it against me etc.

But it got me wondering " Have any terbites done this and was it as good as I have heard it is (some sort or elicit type thrill etc).?
If you have a current gf, DON'T DO IT! If u have nothing to lose and your up for her hassling after "sex wit the ex" then go ahead ;)
 

james t kirk

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Done it many times with many ex GF's.

One I lived with for 5 years and we fought like cats and dogs, and the break up was a nightmare, but every 2 weeks for more than a year, she'd slink over to my bed. (We never had any problems in bed.)

I've pretty much had sex with EVERY serious EX GF (except 2 that I can think of.)

It's way more common than you might think.

In my case, I had nothing to lose though.
 

The Options Menu

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One I lived with for 5 years and we fought like cats and dogs, and the break up was a nightmare, but every 2 weeks for more than a year, she'd slink over to my bed. (We never had any problems in bed.)
This actually hits the nail on the head perfectly for one of my long term ex's. Just change the two weeks to two months (if mutually single) and span that over years. Really it's a good arrangement for everybody-- We know each other well, it's a sure bet, and we're still friends. We should just never be together in a romantic context.
 

tboy

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No, not if you have a Significant Other. The idea is appealing if you can be assured that it will remain a secret but it won't.
If you need to cheat on her, go to a discreet escort. If your Ex wants to get laid she can go to a thousand other guys but she wants to stir shit.
I actually agree with you on this one!

I've had "sex with the ex" many times but never if either of us were involved.
 

The Options Menu

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One of my best friends divorced because his wife cheated. She starts dating some guy and cheats on the new boyfriend with my friend, her EX!! That always seemed weird to me.
Never underestimate the power of familiarity and a 'sure bet'. In your friend's case it sounds like a recipe for a fair bit of fucked up hurt.
 

red

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don't sleep with your ex
don't bounce any cheques
don't rubber neck at car wrecks
don't steal a horse from a guy named tex
 
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