i often wonder what kind of clients these leolist ads attract.
my only experience with feedback is on this site.
the members here surely do not represent the majority of the men who contact these providers.
this would mean that the opinions expressed here are actually the vocal minority.
as a result, the feedback from providers, about how terrible ottawa is - may be a reflection of the men who are (not) the members on this board ?
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the biggest challenge with this industry is misrepresentation.
the ads lie about age, pictures, descriptions, and services provided.
if there was transparency in the ads - to start with - then the customers would more easily be able to find (what they are looking for).
that would eliminate all the endless searching, and risk in finding a non-scamming provider that will fulfill your specific needs.
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what we actually have, unfortunately are scammers who simply want your money, without providing the promised services.
they use fake promises, fake pictures, etc to lure you in - only to disappoint you when you actually meet them.
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it is ok to be fat. it is ok to have a scar. it is ok to be whatever you are.
nobody is shaming a provider for being (what) they are.
believe it or not - men like all kinds of different things.
there is a market for every body type that exists.
if the provider would actually be truthful, then the clients that "do" choose them, (even knowing everything they are getting) - will be satisfied.
everybody wins.
but nope.
deception rules in this game, and as long as that continues, so does the challenge to find the amazing experience we are searching for.
this also means that we must also continue our own diligence, to protect each other from being scammed, which involves calling-out the offenders with necessary details.