Actually,
enduser1 said:
You are welcome. Also, here is the arguement. I happen to think it is just a load of 1990's style self flagellation, but:
It is pretty apparent the kink lies in the reversal of what the white husband sees as a normal power structure. The eroticism lies in giving up one's wife (and one's power) to a black guy, which inherently shows the institutionalized racism of the act. You are fetishizing class structure. Otherwise, what would be so "kinky" or sexy about letting a BBC fuck your wife? Why is a BBC more sexually charged than a wellhung white man? The answers are apparent, I think.
I saw this posted on another board.
EU
...it is simpler than that.
It is a practice that does a few things...
1) Perpetuates a stereotype
2) Reduces a person to essentially a performing circus animal
3) Emasculates another person (though on occassion by choice).
It essentially says "This is all you / your kind are good for. You are sexually charged animals...barely human. I cannot compete with you in this arena, but this only confirms my superiority in other areas. You might be able to please my wife better than me (BTW...that does not say a lot for him OR the wife), but even in this situation, I am calling the shots. You are here because *I* want you here.
In other words, just another form of slavery, albeit for more pleasurable for the slave.
As a big Black man myself (who has in fact been told several times through the years that he has a big cock), I've been approached with such offers in the past by people who clearly thought "well, he's a Black guy...surely he both needs the money and is lacking in dignity" (Because how many of YOU are willing to perform naked in front of strangers??). Interestingly enough, this offer has never come from a couple whom the female half was some I'd have any interest in anyway...it really seems to be (primarily) a white trash sort of thing...though I can imagine it could also be a "sport" of the twisted elite as well.
Am I above and beyond leveraging a stereotype for my own benefit? Nope...my past includes several MWFs who clearly had no interest in me beyond the fact that I was big and Black. They got what they wanted, as did I, and yes, I took some perverse pleasure in knowing I had mowed some guys lawn who clearly didn't know quite how to do it right. Whatever...I like sex, and if we aren't talking about some semi-serious ongoing relationship, why the fuck would I care exactly your reasons for wanting to suck my cock then take it in the ass?
That is a far cry from taking money (or paying for the privilege...you gotta be kidding me) of having some sick fucking pervert watch...
And yet I am sure Alise Amary's inbox has received several hits on the topic already...