Seeking arrangements
- Thread starter desert monk
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Well, it's like meeting an independent SP. Each SP has different rate and services. So, you get to pick your SB and the rate you are willing to commit.
From my interpretation, it means they just want your time, your attention and your money. However, they don't want to have sex with you. Just like being, "Friend-zone". You get all the work and responsibility in the relationship but none of the benefits.
i have had 3 arrangements on the site and they have always been $300 meeting. had one ok with 250 before but we never connected. From my experience, you get the SB who are cool with 300 and than the other extreme is 500-600 ppm. not a lot in between. Odd one wanted 1000 lol.
Does your age make a difference on the price? Most chicks I've talked to are surprised I'm using it at 24 so my inbox is sort of getting full lol
If they call you Hun or Babe or Luv right away, run.
If they are ready to meet at the drop of a hat, run.
Just to clarify, when I said run if they're ready to see you immediately, it means without asking you about yourself, your experience with being on the site, some chit chat etc. A civvy girl wants to know stuff about a potential SD and will always ask lots of questions. The pro just wants to know how much.
Story time:
This happened yesterday. Started talking to a chick who was 22 and ok looking and she was down to meet up whenever. Me being a dumb horny fuck, I suggested tonight and she was down. She lived downtown toronto and the weather yesterday was brutal for driving but i was already commited so no backing down. Get there and she comes to the lobby to get me and there was no attraction or connection whatsoever. Like she was walking 10 steps in front of me no hug or hello whatsoever and just followed her. We get to her appartment we talk and its going ok but once again there was no sexual chemistry whatsoever. We eventually got to the bedroom after i awkwardly brought it up and we went to her bedroom where she asked for the $200 and i gave it right there like an idiot. She gets undressed and there was no foreplay whatsoever. Having sex with her felt more awkward than the sex i had when i lost my virginity. 5 mins in shes complaining on how it hurts (I'm not hung, im average size) and then she says i should leave which i agreed. The rest of the getting dressed up part was just as brutally awkward as you can imagine and we didn't say a word to each other and i left. So it's always a good idea to at least have coffee first and ALWAYS pay at the end...
Sounds like you met a desperate Leo list pro
You could have saved all that trouble by using an agency such as HPL, Mirage or West End Ladies etc for 45 minutes with a hottie for $200 and have much more fun.
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I would like to add another red flag. There is a “gift box” in the profile section of the girls you may be interested in (for those who actually read the profile)
If your potential date has that section covered in desired gifts, just pass.
If your potential date has that section covered in desired gifts, just pass.
Too bad. You didn't give us much of a back story but pay close attention for the tell tale signs prior. I used to be more easy going but after getting burned a few times I became more selective.
The good news is that $200 is just a slight scalp.
also avoid girls that have been a member for more than 1 year. professional sugarbabies are the most expensive.
For those who have not tried SA before, here's a summary of my experiences for the last while.
In March, my SB of two years graduated from her program and decided to move on. Now that she was out of school and had a career, she no longer needed the financial help. We had an amazing time together - it was everything that I could want. Looks, intelligence, charm, amazing sex. I definitely would have continued if she was willing.
So I got back on SA. For the first period, there was the lockdown and I didn't meet anyone. In the summer the restrictions eased and I began asking women on the site to meet for coffee. Sometimes this was like pulling teeth. Of the 5 that I invited for coffee, only one would show up. And then it would be a bust - either she was not interested or I wasn't.
Then I met Sid. She was a hot 20-year-old student. Easy to talk to, intelligent and the sex was awesome. We only saw each other two times, however. While she stated that she had a great time, she decided that this wasn't for her, unfortunately. I still text her now and then but she doesn't respond.
Next I met Anne. She's a young professional getting started in her career. She was intelligent and ambitious. We got together about 8 or 10 times but the sex was just ok. She wasn't a fan of giving oral and that became something of a deal breaker. While we had a good time, it seemed that the arrangement had run its course.
Now I am juggling two girls, both attractive students, which is a bit of a strain financially. The sex with Robin is pretty good although I would say that I don't connect as well with her outside the bedroom. And Melinda is super hot but has restrictions on oral. So I will have to see if it works out with one of these two or if I will be back on the site to continue the search.
In March, my SB of two years graduated from her program and decided to move on. Now that she was out of school and had a career, she no longer needed the financial help. We had an amazing time together - it was everything that I could want. Looks, intelligence, charm, amazing sex. I definitely would have continued if she was willing.
So I got back on SA. For the first period, there was the lockdown and I didn't meet anyone. In the summer the restrictions eased and I began asking women on the site to meet for coffee. Sometimes this was like pulling teeth. Of the 5 that I invited for coffee, only one would show up. And then it would be a bust - either she was not interested or I wasn't.
Then I met Sid. She was a hot 20-year-old student. Easy to talk to, intelligent and the sex was awesome. We only saw each other two times, however. While she stated that she had a great time, she decided that this wasn't for her, unfortunately. I still text her now and then but she doesn't respond.
Next I met Anne. She's a young professional getting started in her career. She was intelligent and ambitious. We got together about 8 or 10 times but the sex was just ok. She wasn't a fan of giving oral and that became something of a deal breaker. While we had a good time, it seemed that the arrangement had run its course.
Now I am juggling two girls, both attractive students, which is a bit of a strain financially. The sex with Robin is pretty good although I would say that I don't connect as well with her outside the bedroom. And Melinda is super hot but has restrictions on oral. So I will have to see if it works out with one of these two or if I will be back on the site to continue the search.
