Seeking a normal job - Please Help!

LS1

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For years I have worked as an escort and then I went into massage. I am highly qualified in any thing from Secretary/Personal Assistant, computers to a general labourer. I have several College Diplomas. I am finding it difficult to break back into a normal job without any track record of it on my resume for years.

Does any one have a job for me? Please PM me if you have any thing at all.

I am truly serious about this!
 

fullmetal

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you should of kept a p/t job during the times you were escorting . you can lie to the interviewer that your were recently widowed and divorced and didnt work while you were married , good luck finding a job , any job during this high unemployment rate of 7 % . my daughter has a university degree and still havent been able to find work in her field , she is over qualified for menial jobs .
 

korean

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well instead of asking a job, how about give some qualification
such as: language you speaks
computer skill?
software you know how to use?
$$/hr you are asking
all that good stuff
 
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One solution . . .

. . . to re-building your resume might be to register with a temp help agency. I know some of the staff we've hired at my work stayed on extended contracts, eventually leading to full-time employment.

There are agencies for both secretarial (Addeco, possibly different spelling) and constuction/plant jobs (Labour Ready).

If you've got the skills (and I think Addeco tests your abilities to match their clients' needs) something positive should result.

Most importantly, try not to get discouraged.

Gord's Bro
 

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Gord's Bro said:
. . . to re-building your resume might be to register with a temp help agency. I know some of the staff we've hired at my work stayed on extended contracts, eventually leading to full-time employment.

There are agencies for both secretarial (Addeco, possibly different spelling) and constuction/plant jobs (Labour Ready).

If you've got the skills (and I think Addeco tests your abilities to match their clients' needs) something positive should result.

Most importantly, try not to get discouraged.

Gord's Bro
If you apply to a temp agency for a secretarial position you will likely be subjected to more rigorous testing than you would if you applied directly to an employer. If you apply for a general labour position you will avoid the testing and possibly find an opportunity to talk to your temporary employer about a permanent position utilizing more of your skills.
 

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LS1 said:
For years I have worked as an escort and then I went into massage. I am highly qualified in any thing from Secretary/Personal Assistant, computers to a general labourer. I have several College Diplomas. I am finding it difficult to break back into a normal job without any track record of it on my resume for years.QUOTE]

Hey LS1;

You should do a Functional Resume that outlines your talents, skills and important accomplishments. This is not as difficult as it sounds, and can down-play chronological gaps in your work history. And, it is NOT lying about your abilities. I was unemployed for about 2 1/2 years due to economic and hostile former employer situations, and this worked for me. If you need a sample, please PM me and Iwill see what I can do to send you a typical format of this kind of resume.

Above all, DON'T give up hope! Always keep a positive attitude!

shakenabke
 

TheNiteHwk

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I happen to know two local print media publications that are hiring advertsing sales reps. They are both open-minded enough to consider anyone from all types fo backgrounds. PM me for more details.

Others who might be interested may also PM me.
 

Keebler Elf

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You're better off saying you were a house wife for a couple years rather than trying to cover up chronological gaps. Better yet, get one of your customers to give you a reference.
 

Svend

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Emphasize your skills.
If you were an independent escort, then you can simply say you were self employed and used a wide range of communication and hands on service skills.
You dealt with scheduling problems, handling packages, possibly needed to discipline people under you? :rolleyes:
With this background you could also set up a small agency, but I have a feeling you want out of the business completely.
 

Hard Idle

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* For many low-end jobs like retail, customer service, mail room, ect, agencies will higher first-come-first serve, the requirements, interview & testing is just for show. Often their clients will accept the agencies applicant on blind faith. If you just want to make a change this is the easiest way.

*If you have career ambitions, dont' do the any of the above. Once you take a low end job, it greatly limits your opportunities. You are better off saying you were out of the workforce for whatever reason. Survival or revolving door jobs taint you worse than welfare, trust me I know. If you have to do them, don't include it on your resume!

I had a long stretch of not working after my last break-up, then shortly after I helped with the care of a dying relative. I explained the down time as being due to health reasons.
 

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Offstage, instrument tuned.
Try the temp agencies WHILE you are searching independently. Of the last 50 people I hired, at least 45 of them came as a result of them working as temps for me (mostly general labour). Many employers that I talk to do not hire direct any more at all...a temp to perm type of arrangement allows both parties to have a look at one another before commiting to a full employment arrangement...it's too costly to hire the wrong person these days!

Emphasize what you can do, schooling etc, and find friends to give you references...a special client may not be able to hire you but he might be able to give you a solid credible reference. One 'trick' I have seen used (yeah, I hired him after he'd been in jail for 2 years, but he actually did a good job, and I only found out years later) is to put down a reference from a bankrupt company in an unrelated industry...virtually impossible to check the reference, and you wouldn't be missing skills/experience in the new employers field. Technically, you have been employed, in sort of a customer service & relations type of field, so you could build on that angle and the resume would only be a slight distortion of the truth.

Employers aren't stupid enough to believe no one lies on their application...it is almost expected. The trick to a good resume that I'm going to actually look at is a level of modesty...don't give me colored paper, I don't want more than 1 piece of paper for the resume itself, and don't give me a pile of information I shouldn't legally ask. I'm looking for someone who is going to make money for the company, not a date. Sometimes what a prospect might think is a whole lot experience I interpret as being unable to hold a steady job.

And no, sorry, I just hired a personal assistant for myself in December and I don't need a second right now.
 
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eyeofthedragon

Yes I did spend one glorious summer as a pool boy to a hot lady. My qualifications include extensive poetry, latin dance moves, hung, and great lungs.

I only have one reference https://terb.cc/vbulletin/member.php?u=23782

(Please tell me hawk you are not inquiring for yourself)
 

phelan

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Svend said:
Emphasize your skills.
If you were an independent escort, then you can simply say you were self employed and used a wide range of communication and hands on service skills.
You dealt with scheduling problems, handling packages, possibly needed to discipline people under you? :rolleyes:
With this background you could also set up a small agency, but I have a feeling you want out of the business completely.
hahah
 

great bear

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eyeofthedragon said:
Yes I did spend one glorious summer as a pool boy to a hot lady. My qualifications include extensive poetry, latin dance moves, hung, and great lungs.

I only have one reference https://terb.cc/vbulletin/member.php?u=23782

(Please tell me hawk you are not inquiring for yourself)
Eye, is that the summer you acted as the pool`s filter?
 

great bear

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Eye, I happened to notice your name is in blue on the list of terb users. I thought a blue highlighted name denoted an "advertiser". So, how much are you charging for a good BBBJ these days? :D
 

Kurt

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Just be carefull not to get a reference in trouble.
We use infocheck for all hires. They do a full background check even verify the person Education. They caught a lady for using a fake reference and when the references employer found out he was terminated.
It caused a real huge problem for this poor guy who was just trying to help someone out.

Be careful with temporary agency that charge fees they guarantee work but the work is usually crap and if you refuse they keep the fee. Stick with the reputable services like Staffing Stratedgies, Adecco, Kelly's, Keith Bagg Group.'
I would avoid some of the small ma and pa shops not as many opportunities.

Working temp. helps to get more experience and to network.
Never know who will be able to help you in the long run.

What kinda of background do you have?
What area of the city are you interested in?
What $$?

Good Luck

Kurt
 
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eyeofthedragon

great bear said:
Eye, I happened to notice your name is in blue on the list of terb users. I thought a blue highlighted name denoted an "advertiser". So, how much are you charging for a good BBBJ these days? :D

some things are price less , for everything else there is bastard card
 
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