Second Visit Disappointments

[Sonic Temple]

Anyone else have the issue I’m having when I see somebody for a second or third time they never look as good as the first time I saw them? The service usually gets better with more appointments, but they never seem to look quite as good as a first time I see them.

It’s happened to me numerous times with numerous different women and again today.

Mate, you are seeing the wrong ladies , one of the main reasons I will see a SP multiple times and continue to see them is because the only memory that sticks is the last one . You find a woman that does that, you make sure you share it with us. For an example....
@GeorgiaTDL
@SultrySofia
@StarryeyedA
@Rosalia Rose
@Mayadarosa
@elladavidsonxox
@xomilaamore

 

[CallMeAImp]

Seems like a whoopsie but what great sense of humour. Now whether Mando is able to secure another date slot, should he want too, remains to be seen

I agree
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[abbyDD]

Seems like a whoopsie but what great sense of humour. Now whether Mando is able to secure another date slot, should he want too, remains to be seen

I agree

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And here I thought my only redeeming quality WAS my face hahaha I’d never be upset. He’s honest and I’m cool with it. But my god what a shot to the face the jokes write themselves

 

[Mandalorian]

@abbyDD, we are talking about a different Abby, but I liked your sense of humour!

 

[abbyDD]

@abbyDD, we are talking about a different Abby, but I liked your sense of humour!

Omg I’m so sorry, ima go delete those replies now and maybe hang my head in shame lol

 

[Mandalorian]

Omg I’m so sorry, ima go delete those replies now and maybe hang my head in shame lol

I thought you knew! This is an ottawa forum. However, now that you’re on my radar, I’m planning to see you in November when I’m in town for my conference. Do you do outcalls?

 

[abbyDD]

I thought you knew! This is an ottawa forum. However, now that you’re on my radar, I’m planning to see you in November when I’m in town for my conference. Do you do outcalls?

I clearly can’t read lol I guess when I see “Abby” I shouldn’t always assume it’s me lol I’d be happy too dm me and I’ll send you the dd info xox

 

[WillingtoSpend]

Many good responses here. Depending on visit #, you should also strive to figure out how to make it fresh so the experience doesn't become stale. Perhaps it's the order you do things, perhaps it's outfit, perhaps the session is more social in nature etc. There's different ways you can mix a session up.

All that being said, I will say I have had providers who begin feeling so comfortable that they put in less on how they "show-up" for our time. Maybe it's how they do their hair, or less presentation overall. The service goes up, their guard is falling. It's a bit of a paradox because they are more themselves and are in something true and genuine to them but at the same time, many of us use this as escapism so that sometimes undermines the quality of the overall show. In some of these cases it's been great because you feel more connected - in other times the shine is no longer as illustrious.

 

[PointyP]

All good discussion here, but its basically the so-called "ice cream effect" I.e law of diminishing marginal utility, to be fancy and economically professorial

As many of you may know, 1st ice cream, mind blowing, 2nd still good, but you notice the cornet is cracked and the bottom tasty nib is missing, 3rd one, well its not warm today, so not exactly chilling, by the 5th-10th you are outright sick of it and need a different brand...

So pace yourself miss the sp, perhaps, and willingly fool yourself.

For me, I go in order of service, personality, looks, though all 3 matter... but nothing beats establishing true good rapor and friendliness, I luckily have that with few sps, and then the rest dont matter as much, and it makes you forgiving a bit...

2 cents... or 1 or 0.5 or 0.25... haha

 

[Sonic Temple]

I thought you knew! This is an ottawa forum. However, now that you’re on my radar, I’m planning to see you in November when I’m in town for my conference. Do you do outcalls?

Good luck mate - she is a star and I have been trying for months....years.....

 

[itd131]

All good discussion here, but its basically the so-called "ice cream effect" I.e law of diminishing marginal utility, to be fancy and economically professorial

As many of you may know, 1st ice cream, mind blowing, 2nd still good, but you notice the cornet is cracked and the bottom tasty nib is missing, 3rd one, well its not warm today, so not exactly chilling, by the 5th-10th you are outright sick of it and need a different brand...

So pace yourself miss the sp, perhaps, and willingly fool yourself.

Once per week rule - Never see a lady more than once per week max.

A little less is ideal.

 

[asuran]

@abbyDD, we are talking about a different Abby, but I liked your sense of humour!

Omg I’m so sorry, ima go delete those replies now and maybe hang my head in shame lol

LOL!! Queue the different Abby meme!!

 

[abbyDD]

LOL!! Queue the different Abby meme!!

I’m absolutely rolling on this right now lmaob