Providers that ghost clients...often

Chris80

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There's always a reason why girls discontinue seeing the regulars because they step out online. When we say, no, it means no. And when you don't listen, we don't talk to you. I'm so sorry that you don't understand boundaries with girls.Not my problem.Have a good day.
Sara not my fault you have a crazy stalker, he is the one that liked your comment too lol 😂
 

Chris80

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There's always a reason why girls discontinue seeing the regulars because they step out online. When we say, no, it means no. And when you don't listen, we don't talk to you. I'm so sorry that you don't understand boundaries with girls.Not my problem.Have a good day.
And this chat is about being ghosted and you know your famous for that lol
 

SweetCandi_DR

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Someone had reached out to me and the convo ended with me sending my ad for them and then the day took me away and like 7pm I’m like what happened to that dude. So I asked him what was up and he was cheesed. Said nothing ever came through. Guess that could have happened. But then he says “I thought you ghosted me or fell asleep.”

Obvs there was a slight mishap with my text not going through. But if someone msgs me and asks me questions my ad has already answered, the likelihood of me seeing them is slim anyway. So he wasn’t anyone promising to me and I ended up chillin the day away replied to some people but forgot about him bc ya I thought I sent my ad. He just never got back to ME.

Yeah so I lost it when he said he thought I ghosted him. I didn’t text him for 8hrs and that meant I ghosted him? I dunno I just thought with women when they’d say it about a boyfriend he’d be all, “dumb crazy insecure bitch.”

So I felt like telling this little sissy pants to beat it. I have no obligation to anyone who doesn’t have the respect to take 2 minutes after seeing my photos to read the ad I wrote for theeemmmm. I go an enjoy my day and this young thing is mad that I ghosted him for the day.

I thought it was the dumbest shit I ever heard. Like when a women says “my job”” or “my work” you hear some men laugh like dumb wh*re thinks sex for money is a job. But when it comes to replying to dudes instantly or not we’re defined as having bad customer service and not good at our jobs. So when yall want us it’s a job but when we confidently say “our job” it’s some sexist joke. (My daily rant. Lalalala)
Girl don't sweat it ;) I can assure you most these "guys" are not worth seeing anyways. I too will not respond to them asking me questions already stated in my ad. 90% of the time they're bs and/or just wanna waste your time. So kudos to you for sticking with your Spidey sense. Have a great day!
 
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Jenesis

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I haven’t given a guy my rates or services since I was touring. So 2023. I don’t even give them the ad. If I even reply, I will just say reread the ad. No link.

if you are not going to invest time into your own appointment making, neither am I. Just sayin’
 
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HolaMiAmor

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Someone had reached out to me and the convo ended with me sending my ad for them and then the day took me away and like 7pm I’m like what happened to that dude. So I asked him what was up and he was cheesed. Said nothing ever came through. Guess that could have happened. But then he says “I thought you ghosted me or fell asleep.”

Obvs there was a slight mishap with my text not going through. But if someone msgs me and asks me questions my ad has already answered, the likelihood of me seeing them is slim anyway. So he wasn’t anyone promising to me and I ended up chillin the day away replied to some people but forgot about him bc ya I thought I sent my ad. He just never got back to ME.

Yeah so I lost it when he said he thought I ghosted him. I didn’t text him for 8hrs and that meant I ghosted him? I dunno I just thought with women when they’d say it about a boyfriend he’d be all, “dumb crazy insecure bitch.”

So I felt like telling this little sissy pants to beat it. I have no obligation to anyone who doesn’t have the respect to take 2 minutes after seeing my photos to read the ad I wrote for theeemmmm. I go an enjoy my day and this young thing is mad that I ghosted him for the day.

I thought it was the dumbest shit I ever heard. Like when a women says “my job”” or “my work” you hear some men laugh like dumb wh*re thinks sex for money is a job. But when it comes to replying to dudes instantly or not we’re defined as having bad customer service and not good at our jobs. So when yall want us it’s a job but when we confidently say “our job” it’s some sexist joke. (My daily rant. Lalalala)
This guy already has an established relationship with these providers, different situation compared to your anecdote; I doubt men you've already seen are asking for ads.
 

tastingyou

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Dorothea had me come to her apartment and ghosted me

Sexy Sara has flaked a bunch of times

Snowbunny Skyla has also flopped a bunch of times
It never ceases to AMAZE ME how many guys give these WELL KNOWN GHOSTERS so many repeat chances You must enjoy this very aggravating behaviour . You deserve to be punished for continually booking them. NO SYMPATHY - you deserve it . These girls actually deserve never to be booked and hopefully they get out of the business.
 
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Mikediamond

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It never ceases to AMAZE ME how many guys give these WELL KNOWN GHOSTERS so many repeat chances You must enjoy this very aggravating behaviour . You deserve to be punished for continually booking them. NO SYMPATHY - you deserve it . These girls actually deserve never to be booked and hopefully they get out of the business.
It’s a mystery to me as well. If they can’t mange to be professional enough to not ghost like that then one has to wonder what else they’re unprofessional about…..there are too many reliable, fun options that value professionalism and reputation to be wasting time getting blue balls waiting on something that ain’t happening.
 

tastingyou

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It’s a mystery to me as well. If they can’t mange to be professional enough to not ghost like that then one has to wonder what else they’re unprofessional about…..there are too many reliable, fun options that value professionalism and reputation to be wasting time getting blue balls waiting on something that ain’t happening.
BINGO!!
 

HolaMiAmor

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I might need more sleep but I’m not following entirely. He was new to me and he didn’t answer my questions therefor I sent the ad lol. I give guys like once chance to try and answer the questions from my ad to see if I would consider seeing them.

Do you know this guy or you’re speaking figuratively?
Figuratively. I speak for his point not for him.
 
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Nighthawkk1

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Thank youuuu❤ I have never done this to anyone that has booked an appointment with me, I might not be able to answer all messages at all waking hours of the day seven days a week…. I do have a day job. But if my ad is posted, my lines are active. Any other messages I receive threw out the week will be answered at a later date.
I’ve seen Tanya a few times and never been ghosted.

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Mikediamond

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There's always a reason why girls discontinue seeing the regulars because they step out online. When we say, no, it means no. And when you don't listen, we don't talk to you. I'm so sorry that you don't understand boundaries with girls.Not my problem.Have a good day.
The sky is a different colour in his world. With replies like his I can only imagine what he’s like in real life.
 
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69_Goliath

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Book appointment? I haven't even gotten a response from these 3
I do get replies occasionally. I wish they would change their excuses tho. I often get sorry fell asleep, or sorry was in shower or sorry last appointment went over time, hours or even days later.
 
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HotDot

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I haven’t given a guy my rates or services since I was touring. So 2023. I don’t even give them the ad. If I even reply, I will just say reread the ad. No link.

if you are not going to invest time into your own appointment making, neither am I. Just sayin’
To be fair, isn’t it a good idea to confirm menu and rates via text, as a matter of record, before booking so that there’s no confusion or miscommunication?

Of course, your services and reputation are well known. But other SPs, can’t always trust what their ads say. Don’t want to get into a situation where SP says she changed her rates but didn’t update ad, BS, etc.

It’s not a matter of wasting a SP’s time, but communication, which is often preached about.
 

Jenesis

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To be fair, isn’t it a good idea to confirm menu and rates via text, as a matter of record, before booking so that there’s no confusion or miscommunication?

Of course, your services and reputation are well known. But other SPs, can’t always trust what their ads say. Don’t want to get into a situation where SP says she changed her rates but didn’t update ad, BS, etc.

It’s not a matter of wasting a SP’s time, but communication, which is often preached about.
Ok so to be really fair, if a guy steps to me in text and say "my ideal session is ......." and I will confirm those.

but if a guy texts "hey, HRU? Rates, menu?" I ignore. Or sometimes if there is a little intro with it, I will say " reread the ad". I don't provide a link.

And I get for me it is different. When I was touring, I would answer the questions and guys should be confirming services but I would confirm with reviews as well. Because an SO can lie to get you in the door. We all see that. So gotta read those reviews too.

As for rates, "Just want to confirm rate is ...." and listing the rate for the time period you are requesting, no problem as well. But I won't list all my rates for someone.
 
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