Scary Moments for Hobbyists

[gharamlifter]

Damn there’s some crazy stories in here. great thread btw, OP!

myself:
came in a girl and kept fukking her, then the condom got stuck inside, she got fukking pissed. started screaming at me, was about to kick me out naked. told me she was going to call her "nigga" on me (she's white). i was scared af, threw my clothes on, ran down the stairs, sped out the parking lot.
she was a bait and switch btw. leolist was verified pics of a beautiful girl, but this chick looked like a crackhead. and she went from friendly af to bitchy after the money was handed over.

 

[Demonoid007]

How about less fighting and more stories. It's way more interesting. My closest to a scary story was that I thought I saw somebody I know walking towards the apartment building as I was leaving.... very tame, I know, but my heart did skip a beat.

 

[kitaro]

my scary story is that Police knocked the door while i just finished with an escort in a hotel. i was sacred to death. after checked my ID and asked me some question, they let me go and kept escort in room. I did not know what happened for her finally. But i had not visited any escort for months since then.

 

[whiskeysour]

Was going to come in here and share some stories ... then I saw the thread ... and ... wow.

Kind of disappointed, I must say. Was hoping for a useful thread with tips/advice, but just stepped into a flame war. Let's all cool this down and relax. Let's keep this forum fun, interesting, and informative.

In any case, I've had several very bad experiences. I've been hobbying for a long, long time and have seen 1000+ providers, so the bad experiences represents a small portion of the total but have nonetheless had an outsized impact on my rules and my outlook.

When I started, the streets were still very popular, though online was just starting to be a thing. I can not emphasize how extremely dangerous and stupid this activity was, both for johns as well as sps. Prowling streets in seedy neighbourhoods at 3am with a wallet full of cash makes you a target for stick up artists. My worst two experiences there: an sp pulling a weapon on me to (rob?) me and me running for my safety, and second, running from the cops after propositioning an undercover agent and getting seriously injured jumping a fence.

I haven't done anything street related in a decade. And, I don't visit any provider who does "car calls". I would urge the same rules for anyone here.

I have had a handful of bad experiences since, and in general, I have become very cautious over the years. I hope it is not beyond anyone's notice on this forum that purchasing sexual services is still very much illegal. Even if police aren't actively pursuing johns like they were a decade ago, very many places of employment would have cause to terminate you for said behaviour should it ever leak out. For that reason, and the fact that I work in a very sensitive industry, I don't go for real ID checks. That is my personal boundary. Sps are within their personal right to ask for it ... and I am within my personal right to not visit with sps who require it. Whether you feel confortable providing id or not is up to each person to decide according to their individual circumstances, but for me it's a hard no.

As for deposits, that's a bit more of a tossup. I've never given a deposit personally - there are simply too many scams out there. As one person mentioned, if you give a deposit, prepare to lose it. The only instances where I would consider giving one was if the sp was extremely well established, and I had confirmed as much after careful scrutiny of this board. As of yet, I haven't taken the plunge. However, one thing to consider with deposits is whether or not your bank account (or paypal or whatever) is shared with another person, or if another person in your household can access it. Whether this is your wife, your parents, your sibling, or whatever, having mysterious money transfers to sps is not something that is easy to explain away. Most of us here most likely do not lead completely transparent lives, so that is something to consider unless you are single and live alone, or else have completely private money accounts. I've seen lives ruined this way, so beware.

I will keep the rest of my tales for another day. Rest assured, the good experiences have outweighed the bad. Hobbying is still an engaging pursuit for me, and we are all richer for having a board where we can share useful information.

Peace!

 

[TerminatorX]

SP deal with bigger problems such as physical abuse, rude dirty nasty clients, fakebooking, and on and on

However clients deal with problems way more often such as copycats, services not delivered, ghost, bad attitude, and on and on

I never had a bad experience beyond these little things, I've been lucky.

 

[TerminatorX]

I should have mentioned above that I've seen several SP with a guy roaming around. However they've never made a move on me. Not sure if it's because I'm lucky, I project a don't fuck with me vibe, my imposing physique. Probably none of them had a gun or knife or wasn't willing to use it.

Once there was a guy in the adjacent room, I open the door thinking it was the bathroom, we both said hi and I closed the door. Nothing further happened.

Smh!

 

[JohnnyFever]

Do you really think a verified provider will use that information against you? If they did, that info would get out in the open so whoever would go to them again? They'd be done and finished.

Probably not, but anything tracked and/or kept online is vulnerable to being lost. All it'd take is a lost phone or a bad password and your information is out in the wild, and established agencies or spas could get hacked. Billion dollar corporations can't keep our information safe, you shouldn't assume that anyone can.

 

[TerminatorX]

Probably not, but anything tracked and/or kept online is vulnerable to being lost. All it'd take is a lost phone or a bad password and your information is out in the wild, and established agencies or spas could get hacked. Billion dollar corporations can't keep our information safe, you shouldn't assume that anyone can.

Concur. Hobbying isn't legal for clients and that's a fact.

 

[hoffa68]

So keeping this on point about what we clients have been through, I've been lucky enough not to have any major scares.

I've always had an issue with seeing anyone that I think is pimped up as I believe I am supporting human trafficking. Earlier in my hobbyling career I was probably a little more nieve but as I learned how to navigate this world, I think I got to the point where that never happened. Anytime I saw a SP, if I discovered that she may have had a pimp, it made me feel ill.

I had one booking that was of a SP that I had seen advertising for months so I felt comfortable to at least believe that it was safe. When I walked to the hotel door to knock, I heard her talking to a guy. I ran so fast.

Another booking, after I thought I got my shit together. Really beautiful, porn star like. Had a good time but after I left, walking to the elevator I heard a door close. Really big muscle guy headed to the door I just came out of and put in a key and walked in. It didn't scare me but made me feel that I let myself down.

Didn't see another SP for a long time. Stuck with MAs and now I only see SWs active on Twitter including MAs

 

[billie69]

Fortunately I haven’t had any of these scary issues, but there is always that “moment” between the time you knock on the door and the time the SP opens it that always gets the adrenaline flowing.

Even though I only go to a well reviewed SPs, those few seconds of nervous anticipation are always there.

Oh well.

 

[Mandalorian]

These stories are a reminder of why clients need to be vigilant and not cave in to every whim that comes our way.

 

[Riverrunner28]

I've been trying to think of the name of one of the other really bad ones. I saw her at the methadone clinic (I wasn't getting a dose, she was, I was just driving by). It explains a lot. I remember her name, It is as follows. I used to be on another board, so the reviews were all positive, as they have to be, or they are deleted.

Mirella

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/mirella.560209/#post-5517448

My experience was just like many of the others in that thread. I went to her place. Her bedroom was in the basement. I got undressed and she started giving me a massage. About 2 minutes into the massage, she said she has to do something. I see she takes the money from the dresser, and leaves. She is gone about 15 ,minutes, so I am obviously dressed again. I heard her upstairs, and it is kind of like a split level 2 apartment house. So I go and wait on the stairs. I guess she probably pulls this, and people just leave, but I waited seated on the stairs. She returns and tells me to leave, and I request my money back. It was 140 for hh. She gets aggressive and starts yelling at me, but I just stay on the stairs. I told her she can keep 40, but I want the rest back. Eventually I did get the money back, less 40 bucks for the good story.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Interesting thread

When I first started seeing SWs, every time the doorbell rang after a recent session I thought the LE came for me

Sorry don't have any scary incident to share probably because :
A. Don't book if my gut tells me somethings off.
B. Don't visit motels or houses unless well reviewed.
C. Mostly visit Spas, agencies or well reviewed ladies.

Not much of risk taker when it comes to the "hobby" but I'm thankful to the trailblazers who find new gems and also warn us about scammers to avoid.

 

[OttawaDude6969]

Was going to come in here and share some stories ... then I saw the thread ... and ... wow.

Kind of disappointed, I must say. Was hoping for a useful thread with tips/advice, but just stepped into a flame war. Let's all cool this down and relax. Let's keep this forum fun, interesting, and informative.

In any case, I've had several very bad experiences. I've been hobbying for a long, long time and have seen 1000+ providers, so the bad experiences represents a small portion of the total but have nonetheless had an outsized impact on my rules and my outlook.

When I started, the streets were still very popular, though online was just starting to be a thing. I can not emphasize how extremely dangerous and stupid this activity was, both for johns as well as sps. Prowling streets in seedy neighbourhoods at 3am with a wallet full of cash makes you a target for stick up artists. My worst two experiences there: an sp pulling a weapon on me to (rob?) me and me running for my safety, and second, running from the cops after propositioning an undercover agent and getting seriously injured jumping a fence.

I haven't done anything street related in a decade. And, I don't visit any provider who does "car calls". I would urge the same rules for anyone here.

I have had a handful of bad experiences since, and in general, I have become very cautious over the years. I hope it is not beyond anyone's notice on this forum that purchasing sexual services is still very much illegal. Even if police aren't actively pursuing johns like they were a decade ago, very many places of employment would have cause to terminate you for said behaviour should it ever leak out. For that reason, and the fact that I work in a very sensitive industry, I don't go for real ID checks. That is my personal boundary. Sps are within their personal right to ask for it ... and I am within my personal right to not visit with sps who require it. Whether you feel confortable providing id or not is up to each person to decide according to their individual circumstances, but for me it's a hard no.

As for deposits, that's a bit more of a tossup. I've never given a deposit personally - there are simply too many scams out there. As one person mentioned, if you give a deposit, prepare to lose it. The only instances where I would consider giving one was if the sp was extremely well established, and I had confirmed as much after careful scrutiny of this board. As of yet, I haven't taken the plunge. However, one thing to consider with deposits is whether or not your bank account (or paypal or whatever) is shared with another person, or if another person in your household can access it. Whether this is your wife, your parents, your sibling, or whatever, having mysterious money transfers to sps is not something that is easy to explain away. Most of us here most likely do not lead completely transparent lives, so that is something to consider unless you are single and live alone, or else have completely private money accounts. I've seen lives ruined this way, so beware.

I will keep the rest of my tales for another day. Rest assured, the good experiences have outweighed the bad. Hobbying is still an engaging pursuit for me, and we are all richer for having a board where we can share useful information.

Peace!

Well said whiskeysour. Thank you.

 

[fall]

We commonly discuss the safety of the SPs here, and rightly so, but I have had some issues in the past. Some scary, some just not very comfortable. For information purposes, and maybe more for some good reading material, maybe we could share some past experiences, and it may help to avoid some in the future.

I can start with a relatively benign one. I used to visit 1 SP somewhat regularly, she felt comfortable to ask for some little gifts, which I enjoyed bringing to her. She also asked me, and probably all other hobbyists to park in an exact parking spot, I was thinking so that she would know I was there. Well, The last time I went, and this was at least a couple of years ago, the item that she always requested, was in the hands of a large AA man, who just slowly walked by my car, immediately after I parked. He gave me a pretty good look over, as he walked by, and then continued along the outside of the Motel, and turned around the corner. So, obviously, I am close to 100% sure that was more than a mere coincidence. I went in and finished quickly and left, never to contact her again. I should have also known before, because she would also sometimes get me to pick up some food for her, and I am pretty sure that she could not have eaten the amount of food that I brought her, weighing in at only about 110 pounds. I hope he enjoyed my gifts lol.

I'll share the machete one later

Parking in a designated spot = she knows your licence plate = she can easily find out your name and address = never do it

 

[Riverrunner28]

Parking in a designated spot = she knows your licence plate = she can easily find out your name and address = never do it

Thanks "tips" ..... you are supposed to add to the content, not point out what people already know. If you think that you are being educational by your statement, then you should not comment, because we already understand parking in a fixed spot indicates that we are being watched, and that means they know our license.plate. How do you think that you are telling us something that we already don't know? Add something to the thread please, have you never had a negative situation meeting an SP?

 

[fall]

Thanks "tips" ..... you are supposed to add to the content, not point out what people already know. If you think that you are being educational by your statement, then you should not comment, because we already understand parking in a fixed spot indicates that we are being watched, and that means they know our license.plate. How do you think that you are telling us something that we already don't know? Add something to the thread please, have you never had a negative situation meeting an SP?

Add to what? The guy learns that the girl in MOTEL (first warning sign) has a pimp? The pimp looks at the guys who see this SP (at least he is doing his job, good for SP to having a caring pimp). The girl asks him to park on designated spot to "be able to see he is here" What, text messages do not work anymore? I am not sure what meaningful can be added to this thread beyond looking at the first post, shaking the head, and thinking "another idiot". No, I never had a negative situation with SP (other than bad service, unhygienic, and all other unpleasant stuff) because I do not care about $250 and the most SP can know about me is a video/photo they can secretly took of me entering their apartment.

 

[Nesbot]

Ooh I have another.

Went to an incall. She had huge sores on her face. Like, not meth scabs it was craters. She apologized and spoke about an injury.

I appreciated the honesty so followed upstairs. Got a closer look and this thing was in rough shape. I mean ooozing!

She asked if we should start and I honestly answered that I couldn’t possibly see how she wouldn’t be in pain. So I told her I’d try again another time.

She got upset. Saying I should not have entered the place at all if I wasn’t sure. Then I heard rustling in one of the rooms and noticed oversized shoes in the house. At least size 14. I’m not exaggerating.

So when I left I did a little half sprint to the car just in case.

No terrifying, and she did nothing wrong but I was still a bit shook up.

 

[Shutty]

I only have strange situation. There was a mature bbw in with massive breasts who posted on liscrawler around 2 years ago. All the pics seemed legit as they were mainly selfies. While texting she said she was at the Adams airport inn on Bank St. Since I live in the south end, it would only be a 5 minute drive for me so decided to go for it. Texing was fast and set up for an appointment in half hour or so from the time we were messsaging. Instead parking at the Inn parking lot, I parked at the Dunns restaurant right beside and walked over. I texted as I was walking over to say I arrived. She texted back and said she was not able to get a room because she didn't have a credit card and they only take credit card for room bookings. So I said now what? She said she is sitting in her ar in the parking lot and told me to come over. It wasn't late, only around 7pm, but it was January and that day happened to be minus 20 degrees. Was she just sitting in her car the whole time getting frozen or running her car to have heat and just hoping I actually showed up? Or was she not there at all and whole thing was just a scam. There weren't too many cars in the parking lot at that time, I did quick glances around but didn't see any cars with anyone inside. If she was actually there, I wasn't going to do any car services, or the possibility of getting jumped since it was dark and not really any people around. I just texted back and said not confortable with that and said sorry I'm leaving. She texted back and said ok. That was the end of it. My opinion was she was never there to begin with. Either way, I was safe.

 

[Riverrunner28]

I only have strange situation. There was a mature bbw in with massive breasts who posted on liscrawler around 2 years ago. All the pics seemed legit as they were mainly selfies. While texting she said she was at the Adams airport inn on Bank St. Since I live in the south end, it would only be a 5 minute drive for me so decided to go for it. Texing was fast and set up for an appointment in half hour or so from the time we were messsaging. Instead parking at the Inn parking lot, I parked at the Dunns restaurant right beside and walked over. I texted as I was walking over to say I arrived. She texted back and said she was not able to get a room because she didn't have a credit card and they only take credit card for room bookings. So I said now what? She said she is sitting in her ar in the parking lot and told me to come over. It wasn't late, only around 7pm, but it was January and that day happened to be minus 20 degrees. Was she just sitting in her car the whole time getting frozen or running her car to have heat and just hoping I actually showed up? Or was she not there at all and whole thing was just a scam. There weren't too many cars in the parking lot at that time, I did quick glances around but didn't see any cars with anyone inside. If she was actually there, I wasn't going to do any car services, or the possibility of getting jumped since it was dark and not really any people around. I just texted back and said not confortable with that and said sorry I'm leaving. She texted back and said ok. That was the end of it. My opinion was she was never there to begin with. Either way, I was safe.

You made a great call, you don't know what the possibilities might have been if you go to the parking lot, she asks what car are you in? Next chapter of the story is only left to the imagination, now and best to have not known what that might have been. I have had to remind myself in the past, "if my gut is telling me that something is not right, then abort".