So I had surgery (actually 2 of them) in the recent past, and have a long scar running vertically down my midsection. Have wanted to book some girls to have fun, but am self-conscious about this, as I feel they may be weirded out or want me to leave. Does anyone else have experience with scars? Do SPs care? Should I explain I have scars before seeing one?
Scars
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Jade4u
It's been good to know ya
It is very few people that can live thier whole lives without getting scars of some fashion, accidents, surgery, fights etc... Don't be too worried about it and if it is brought up just be honest about it. It is nothing to be ashamed of. I do not think any sp would want you to leave because of a scar from surgery, it is not like it is an open wound or a suspicious looking disease.
As Stacey said, don't worry about it.....it just makes you a little more unique. BTW, you probably aren't the first or the last an sp will see with some sort of abdominal scar......
Not to make them sound totally shallow, most sp's are only interested in one thing, your wallet. Many I've met enjoy meeting and relating with new people all the time but the bottom line is: if you got the cash, you get the ass lol
The only criteria that I've heard sp's have is age and in one case, race (they don't want to run the risk of running into someone they know)......
Not to make them sound totally shallow, most sp's are only interested in one thing, your wallet. Many I've met enjoy meeting and relating with new people all the time but the bottom line is: if you got the cash, you get the ass lol
The only criteria that I've heard sp's have is age and in one case, race (they don't want to run the risk of running into someone they know)......
I had just come home from double hernia surgery (one week prior) feeling poorly both physically (from the surgery) and emotionally (I had some other shit going on in my life). I was a mess down there, bruised, swollen and the recent incisions were still juicy. Although there was no way I could perform I was in need of some female company. I called up an SP I had been getting to know and she came over. We lay next to eachother in bed naked which was very comforting to me and in spite of my gruesome appearance down there she still gave me a BJ.
It still took a couple of weeks for my physical pain to subside but I'll always be thankful to her for easing my emotional pain that night.
It still took a couple of weeks for my physical pain to subside but I'll always be thankful to her for easing my emotional pain that night.
You can always leave your shirt on.
Nothing important is up there, unless you're into women doing stuff to your chest.
Nothing important is up there, unless you're into women doing stuff to your chest.
I have several horrible looking scars on my chest and back that I got in Vietnam in 1970. They are so bad that I don't go to public pools and I always wear a shirt on the beach. I have never had any problems with SP's or MPA's and they always make good icebreakers for conversation.
Yes, I can guarantee that it will affect some sps, but some will not really care. It really depends. Bottome line is that physical attraction is important, so having scars which are very unattractive can turn off some sps.
I've got a doozy from the base of the sternum to the crotch. The severety will fade over time, use vit e. One advantage of the body hair is that it helps hide the scar.
No SP's or MPA's or civilian ladies have ever complained. Some look at it with fascination as it looks like a relief map of a highway thru a forest.
Count yourself lucky that you survived whatever it was you had and get out there and enjoy yourself.
No SP's or MPA's or civilian ladies have ever complained. Some look at it with fascination as it looks like a relief map of a highway thru a forest.
Count yourself lucky that you survived whatever it was you had and get out there and enjoy yourself.
Well in theory it's not supposed to matter, and perhaps it doesn't to the most hardened professionals with ice in their veins. A few SP's might find it interesting.
But I'm sure some would be distracted, perhaps a little reluctant or outright turned off, in which case you get shortchanged in the YMMV department.
Also if the scar is fresh enough that it looks like it might weep a little, that could raise her concern about making contact for her safety, as welll as for fear of injuring the scar area.
Better to just wear a long shirt until the healing is farther along. You can also pull up some big, baggy boxers liek JoeBoxer or Hilfiger and just pull the equipment out the front slit. Many women actually prefer to have sex this way unless the guy is built & waxed like a KalvinKlein model.
But I'm sure some would be distracted, perhaps a little reluctant or outright turned off, in which case you get shortchanged in the YMMV department.
Also if the scar is fresh enough that it looks like it might weep a little, that could raise her concern about making contact for her safety, as welll as for fear of injuring the scar area.
Better to just wear a long shirt until the healing is farther along. You can also pull up some big, baggy boxers liek JoeBoxer or Hilfiger and just pull the equipment out the front slit. Many women actually prefer to have sex this way unless the guy is built & waxed like a KalvinKlein model.
Jade4u
It's been good to know ya
If the scar is still fresh or appears that it may ooze etc... I say in that case for his safety and the concerns of the sp that he should take time away from the sp's till he is in a better condition. If an sp is not up to par the same, she should take some time off and resume when she is feeling better.
Personally if a man looked to me like he was hiding something I would be more inclined to take more of his clothes off to see what he is hiding.
Personally if a man looked to me like he was hiding something I would be more inclined to take more of his clothes off to see what he is hiding.
Scars are like tattoos, but with better stories.
Most people aren't judgemental about scars -they're a fact of life. A conclusion to what could be an interesting tale.
Most people aren't judgemental about scars -they're a fact of life. A conclusion to what could be an interesting tale.
LancsLad said:
Lancs: How much did it hurt when they removed your winkie and replaced it with a vagina?
great bear said:
It hurt a bit but I look at the bright side, before i only had one penis, now that I have a vagina I can have as many penises as I want.
great bear said:
I have a strict NRP but after a few drinks PHNINE just might loosen up enough to tell you some.
Scars make for interesting conversations; you both can compare if the SP has scars also, e.g. Cesarean section. If you are self-conscious of the scars, there are ointments that lessen visibility over time.SimsVic said:
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