Saying “I love you.” during a session with an SP.

[james t kirk]

I mean there are dudes who would call the SP "dirty cum slut whore" they've heard way worse.

Actually, I have found that calling a woman (and I'm talking civilians btw) that during sex really turns them on. Like REALLY turns em on.

 

[JaimeWolf]

Veena banned David because David told Veena he loves her? I have read his reviews. He falls in love with all the SP he fuck, how is Veena any different to him than the others? Veena is not listed on hpl anymore. What did this sex crazed psycho do to her?

Lol Virushan why are you referring to yourself in third person?

 

[kherg007]

I feel like saying I love you makes things awkward. You may love what I do for you and to you. You may love how I make you feel but I don’t think it’s real love unless you’ve known the SP for a long time and have developed genuine strong feelings

I love you Melissa.
LOL..
I've said that in a jokey way to her, making it clear to her that i know the boundary. I love her as a person, as i know a bit about her, but no way confuse this as some love affair. As I say on here all the time, the operative metaphor is pro wrestling. Don't ask if it real. Simply ask if you're entertained. Enjoy the sensations and her wit. And walk away with a great memory, and barrack for the success of her and other great ladies who put smiles on our faces.

 

[sempel]

Haha!! Well thank-you for the love!! As you said, it's not really possible to develop actual love in 1 hour. But people can confuse infatuation with love(you see it in the beginning of relationships often)and it is totally possible to become infatuated with someone in a very short time. Most people don't want to be on the receiving end of someone's infatuation that has turned to obsession. SPs especially don't want that, so I see why any uttering of "I love you" would lead them to drop a client. In my personal life, I've had guys that were infatuated with me. Something that was consistent with that infatuation was that they really didn't know me. They had this love and want for me but it was based off an idea of me. They created a version of me in their head and latched onto it. I find that infatuation stops you from actually getting to know the person. You just really like how this person you've created in your head makes you feel. That's why relationships can just crumble after the honeymoon stage. They've been infatuated and in lust, and didn't get to really know the person. That infatuation wears off and you can realize that you're with someone that you don't even like.

You have some of the most down-to-earth answers that demonstrates a good head on your shoulders. If only you could give lessons to some of the others...I think there's a few ladies on here who are over-the-top with their "I love you" means dude's a stalker and never see him again. It's not a simple black and white issue. IMO, "I love you" is only bad if it's then coupled with bad behavior (constant texting, requesting extra time or staying late, etc.). Guy says I love you, shrug it off. Guy says I love you followed by a marriage proposal, block his number.

 

[shakenbake]

Love is the most misunderstood word and emotion.

Northrop Frye once wrote, “Love is the only virtue there is.”

Love is multidimensional. Where we need to fear the word, love, is when it is used carelessly.

 

[JaimeWolf]

neither David or Virushill buddy.

I thought only women suffer from multiple personalities, particularly around their menstration cycles?

This girl has a hot beautiful gorgeous model iranian face. Her tits saggy but she has a big aerola which looks like it has been sucked a billion times. Bottom line She is NOT candy from mirage or Zara Farrah as the review titled Persian princess turns to night mare claims. Overall I agree with what the reviewer said except she wasn't cold.will only visit her for full service because she is super hot and beautiful. Like bri the Indian Guyanese girl. -virusboy

My lovely Veena from hpl resembles bollywood/tollywood actress Asin Thottumkal !! David V. Josh <3 <3 <3

 

[Parker@TDL]

You have some of the most down-to-earth answers that demonstrates a good head on your shoulders. If only you could give lessons to some of the others...I think there's a few ladies on here who are over-the-top with their "I love you" means dude's a stalker and never see him again. It's not a simple black and white issue. IMO, "I love you" is only bad if it's then coupled with bad behavior (constant texting, requesting extra time or staying late, etc.). Guy says I love you, shrug it off. Guy says I love you followed by a marriage proposal, block his number.

It's easy for me to not take the phrase "I love you" to heart. The phrase itself doesn't mean anything to me. They're just words and the use of them isn't black and white, as you said. The purpose behind the words is what matters. But it seems that for many, the phrase itself holds weight no matter the circumstance. I personally think there's a lot of grey area around those words and that they can often be used lightly. No need to take it seriously if it's meaning is light and playful or just expressing affection.

 

[midknight_luver]

I actually had an SP tell me that she loved me at the end of our session. We got really excited, hot and heavy which she experienced multiple orgasms. She's young only 21yrs old and no longer in the "business" but she will continue to see me on occasion.

The reason that I go to an SP. They will do things and accept my "deviant" sex fantasies that a regular girlfriend would not do in bed. I have actually had dates with some SP's and strippers. I have consider the idea of possibly having a some sort of long term relationship but in the end. It generally comes down to $$$ money and I get bored with seeing the same person over time. I don't think that there's anything wrong saying "I love you" til feelings get mixed up and hurt. I generally don't say it anymore unless I have known the girl for some time and we have a mutual understanding of our particular relationship.

Do what makes each other comfortable and understand what expectations that you have for each other.