Safe to have SP visit home?
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Probably not a good idea if your wife happens to be home at the time ... unless she's looking for a threesome.
Never had a problem. Book with a reputable agency.
Treat her like you would any lovely female guest visiting your home.
Treat her like you would any lovely female guest visiting your home.
Keep in mind that the client is a stranger and he could be a cannibal or in need of a young female body in order to consummate his occult ceremony ritual.
I think the trouble will be finding a good SP that's willing to go to your home for a first date.
Most upstanding SPs won't visit your home for a first date because they want to be in a neutral place. They want it to be some place there will be other people nearby (next room over). That way, if something goes wrong, they can scream and likely be heard and rescued.
Any SP that is willing to visit your home is taking a risk. So there's a good chance that the reason they're willing to take that risk is because they have a high payout in mind, and it's more than the $250 you'll be paying to shag them.
Most upstanding SPs won't visit your home for a first date because they want to be in a neutral place. They want it to be some place there will be other people nearby (next room over). That way, if something goes wrong, they can scream and likely be heard and rescued.
Any SP that is willing to visit your home is taking a risk. So there's a good chance that the reason they're willing to take that risk is because they have a high payout in mind, and it's more than the $250 you'll be paying to shag them.
Hotels, incalls or outcalls all have their pros and cons. Your situation will differ from someone else's, so there's no right or wrong answer. Both you and the lady need to be comfortable to get the most out of the experience. If you want the convenience of the outcall you have to consider the risks of inviting a strange woman into your house.
I think the best way to minimize this risk is to do your homework and find a well reviewed lady with an established reputation. TERB has many reviews of indie and agency ladies in this regard.
Speak with the lady on the phone, but be brief and don't waste her time. I always use a phone call to get a gut feeling about a person. Trust your gut.
If you're looking at finding a regular girl to see, then testing the waters in neutral territory, like a hotel, could be helpful.
Besides trying to figure out the trustworthiness of the girl, you should also consider what you have to lose. If you put away valuables, letters, IDs, jewelery, etc. then you lower your risk of something negative occurring. Have the money counted out and in an envelope before she arrives so she doesn't know where your piggy bank is. Nothing worth stealing or blackmailing. In other words, don't tempt fate.
Whatever you decide, stay safe and have fun!
I think the best way to minimize this risk is to do your homework and find a well reviewed lady with an established reputation. TERB has many reviews of indie and agency ladies in this regard.
Speak with the lady on the phone, but be brief and don't waste her time. I always use a phone call to get a gut feeling about a person. Trust your gut.
If you're looking at finding a regular girl to see, then testing the waters in neutral territory, like a hotel, could be helpful.
Besides trying to figure out the trustworthiness of the girl, you should also consider what you have to lose. If you put away valuables, letters, IDs, jewelery, etc. then you lower your risk of something negative occurring. Have the money counted out and in an envelope before she arrives so she doesn't know where your piggy bank is. Nothing worth stealing or blackmailing. In other words, don't tempt fate.
Whatever you decide, stay safe and have fun!
Ironic humour is not your strong point, I see.
(My reply - including his quote - was just as silly as his original statement.)
As already mentioned there are lot of different issues at play:
Are you married or unattached,
are you going to have problems with nosey neighbours,
have you met before - are you comfortable with each other (in the she's not setting me up, he's not going to murder me, sense),
Are you comfortable with an escort knowing exactly who you really are.
Kelli in particular seems to have good advice .
Are you married or unattached,
are you going to have problems with nosey neighbours,
have you met before - are you comfortable with each other (in the she's not setting me up, he's not going to murder me, sense),
Are you comfortable with an escort knowing exactly who you really are.
Kelli in particular seems to have good advice .
Ever since living on my own, I only have them come to my apartment. I don't see why I'd want to spend an extra $200 for a hotel that I'd be in for just an hour or two.
I've always used reputable agencies, am nice and freshly showered when they arrive, open up any drink in front of my guest, and don't have any valuable little trinkets that could be taken. All girls have shown up dressed normally, so never arouse any suspicion, plus I work from home so it's common for me people/clients over.. Oh and I supply the protection.
Cover your ass, and you should have no problems.
I've always used reputable agencies, am nice and freshly showered when they arrive, open up any drink in front of my guest, and don't have any valuable little trinkets that could be taken. All girls have shown up dressed normally, so never arouse any suspicion, plus I work from home so it's common for me people/clients over.. Oh and I supply the protection.
Cover your ass, and you should have no problems.
Totally depends on your situation. You are probably ok if a)single b) no nosy neighbours and c) are dealing with a well reviewed indy or reputable agency. However if any one of these is not the case, you may be in for problems.
In my experience, calls to my home ended after on shitty experience with an agecncy girls that not only provided poor service, but unbeknownst to me until after the date, she left her driver in the car, engine idling out front of my place and when i woke up in the am, there was a strip of 6 condoms lying on my front walk in front of my house, just in case the neighbours had any doubt as to the purpose of the late night visitor.
So i prefer to either do incall or have them to my hotel when travelling for work etc. I usually wont rent a room solely for the purpose of the meeting, as it adds significantly to cost.
In my experience, calls to my home ended after on shitty experience with an agecncy girls that not only provided poor service, but unbeknownst to me until after the date, she left her driver in the car, engine idling out front of my place and when i woke up in the am, there was a strip of 6 condoms lying on my front walk in front of my house, just in case the neighbours had any doubt as to the purpose of the late night visitor.
So i prefer to either do incall or have them to my hotel when travelling for work etc. I usually wont rent a room solely for the purpose of the meeting, as it adds significantly to cost.
Some SP's will not go to private residences. One reason is the 3 guys hiding in the closet. Another reason is ............................
I personally wouldn't do it - you should never shit in your own backyard - as they say. You have then trusted a stranger to your private sanctuary. Motel rooms are cheap enough IMHO.
Yes. Short and sweet. But be sure its a reputable agency like cupids, Dm, TP and tons other here.
I have done it. I found the girls were cool and absolutely professional and didn't give any chance for the neighbours to talk.
But it has to be timed perfectly!
I have done it. I found the girls were cool and absolutely professional and didn't give any chance for the neighbours to talk.
But it has to be timed perfectly!
I've taken an SP to my parents place (while they were away of course) once when I had just moved into my new place but couldn't entertain. It was fun doing it in certain rooms with childhood memories. I normally would not recommend it, but I think I'm a good a judge of character and have known her since to be a sweet, kind and young gal.
I would at my own place with someone or an agency that you know well with a good reputation, but it would be the exception as opposed to the rule.
I would at my own place with someone or an agency that you know well with a good reputation, but it would be the exception as opposed to the rule.
This.
I doubt any SP would come to your home on a first date. Though I am not too experienced, the safest bet for both would be to make the first connection in a hotel.
