Sad times in Ottawa

[Mable]

Your reference has to be a well-known or well-reviewed lady, someone who is established and has a good reputation.

A girl that changes names and numbers all the time does not count, no matter how many times you've seen her.

Maybe you should think about getting an account on Preferred411.com... You can accumulate Okays from different girls.

When I ask for references, I use them as pointers, not as the almighty truth. Same for reviews, some are true, some are false. The same way a guy can give a bad review because he's disappointed at a lady for whatever reason, a lady can give a bad reference for whatever reason too.

I have no problem seeing gentlemen without any references. There are many other ways for me to screen and be safe.

You've been around since 2004 and have over 1000 posts here... I'm sure ladies can read your posting history and make up their mind about your personality. Though it might not be enough for some...

Thank you for the response Mocha. I do appreciate it. For the life of me I have not been able to figure this out over the years. It is good to know you might accept me without references. You are smoken hot,

 

[asuran]

I have no problems with references.
I do have a twitter presence and has rapport with some of the ladies, both SP and MA on it that don't mind vouching for me.

The ones that ask for references just want to know if I'm a cool guy, respect boundaries and a gentleman that treat ladies with respect or not.

I don't know why it's so hard for some to get references.
Unless you don't act gentlemanly and treats ladies with disrespect, you should have zero problems getting one if you are a regular hobbyist.

 

[asuran]

FWIW Mable and Asuran are both solid guys on terb and should have zero issues with working girls. If anything they both deserve VIP cards

And so are you, brother! You're one of the only guys a follow on Twitter. Lol

 

[hoffa68]

Can someone explain this reference thing . I have been hobbying for 20 some years and I could not provide a single reference that would be meaningful. Perhaps Charlotte or Mocha could say something.

I too have been hobbying for a few years and would have a hard time providing references. I think mostly because the ones I have seen more than once have been sporadic or not well known. You just need to find one who does not ask for references but will provide them after you see her. Hopefully I can do that soon.

 

[justfor]

I am pretty fortunate in that, I have never had a problem obtaining a reference that's because I often see only regulars or those whom I have seen once before. In the rare occasion when seeing a completely new lady, I find it usually is sufficient telling her my handles in this and other review boards.

 

[Garden of Eden Ladies]

I am trying to send ladies to Ottawa, but the lack of interest is extremely discouraging. I am really not sure why there hasn't been more interest. Here is a photo of the lady, Alessandra.

 

[that.dude]

I am trying to send ladies to Ottawa, but the lack of interest is extremely discouraging. I am really not sure why there hasn't been more interest.

I would speculate that due to a long absence of any agencies in the region, some have either quit the hobby or just stick to their regulars from BP. Or maybe they don't check TERB regularly, knowing that not much is happening anyway, and they missed your announcement. Personally, I have a somewhat strict hobbying schedule (otherwise I would be broke, lol) and already booked with another agency in the near future, but I would definitely be interested to check out your ladies as well at some point.