Sad cry for attention

[Oil Please]

check yourself... thats so right.... you all have way more spare time than i do......
lmao and i have alot of spare time


--- if you are unhappy with something in your life only you can change it

--- if you have to pay for it its a service ( like an oil change )


--- to much of a good thing often becomes unhealthy ( like fast food )


--- a fantasy is not a valid substitution for reality ( wow is not real pple ..lmao )


and thats just my 2 cents

That is amazing advice .

 

[frankcastle]

In my own defense I want to clarify a certain point.

At no time have I gone to mps looking for dates.

At no time had I stopped dating civilian girls.

 

[james t kirk]

In my own defense I want to clarify a certain point.

At no time have I gone to mps looking for dates.

At no time had I stopped dating civilian girls.

Then don't analyze it so much.

Just stick to a diet of once every 2 weeks, or better yet, once a month, and you'll be fine. Mark it on a calander even so you don't "bunch up" those weeks, and you have something to look forward too.

After the first time you part take in the hobby, the second time is easier, the third time, a cynch, the forth time - hell, by then, you don't even give it a second thought.

As long as you aren't going broke by it, or losing touch with reality, then you are fine.

 

[Manji]

JTK is right.....

You don't have to cut yourself off from MPs......You're a man, FC....you have needs and a trip to the MPs is a great way to relieve the stresses of life.....Just do it in moderation.....


You sound like a level headed guy.....If you really think it is time to quit, then quit....
But if you can step back and relax and enjoy the scene without losing yourself in it then keep doing what you're doing.....


By the way, what's with all the weirdness in this section lately?
Mutlitple handles, members calling other members out, senior members losing their cool by ranting and raving in their posts......
What's that all about?

 

[AnimalMagnetism]

everyone needs to get laid, thats what its all about.

Shouldnt that comment be in the incall section?

 

[noguy]

Good luck Frank, I always enjoyed your reveiws. I would like to wish you the best of luck in whatever you do. You are not the only one who wastes too much time on this board.

 

[MILUPA]

JTK is right.....


By the way, what's with all the weirdness in this section lately?
Mutlitple handles, members calling other members out, senior members losing their cool by ranting and raving in their posts......
What's that all about?:

Let's see why is it happening maybe it is the Full moon or the cracking of the Ozone layer or global warming or the old witch's curse or who knows if we are part of another major conspiracy theory.

Joking aside, you are absolutely right about the current events here.In my 2 yrs with Terb i have never seen that much of the weird action.

 

[chodge]

If we all decided to take a bit more time off from this hobby Maybe we would see prices come down ?

 

[Meister]

This is not just directed to you Frank but to anyone and everyone.

CHECK YOURSELF!!!

Do you know why you're on TERB? Well I'm here because I want a hot girl to touch my pee pee. Simply that. Not anything emotional, not a girlfriend, not even "a" friend. Simple a hot girl to satisfy my needs for about 30 minutes because at that time I’m feeling too lazy to convince a non-industry girl to. Not to make friends even though I've made a couple, male and female, but just to get my pee pee touched by a hot woman. If it becomes anymore complicated then that...

CHECK YOURSELF!!

TERB or any internet board is a community of people with similar interest. And like in any community you're going to find people you get along with. When shit starts to get too personal, and all of a sudden you want harm to come to a person because of a few words on the internet.

CHECK YOURSELF!!

If you think that an industry woman is falling for you because you spend 1 hour (plus or minus) a week (plus or minus) with her out of 168 hours she has in the rest of the week!!! And you're fucking paying for that hour...


CHECK YOURSELF!!

We all have good conversations with the ladies and get to be buddy buddy with them and think we're special. Well you're not, and neither are you or you and yes I'm talking to you to. And neither am I. There's nothing wrong with making new friends, but again if you're looking to make friends and you start to get consumed by this whole thing...


CHECK YOURSELF!!

If you start to fall into this trap, re-read this thread again. Turn off your computer. Go out with your "real" friends. If you don't have any, get some. Date a non-industry girl. Join a gym, read a book, get another hobby. I think stamp collection is getting a bad rap. Stop taking this "paying to get your pee pee touched" so seriously!! But most of all CHECK YOUR FUCKING SELF!!

This post talking about MPAs is almost as entertaining as going to an MPA. Well, almost as good.

 

[Meister]

Come again

Oooh, aaahhh, oooohhh, aeeeehieehh

Ok, were did I leave the Kleenex.

 

[Manji]

Oooh, aaahhh, oooohhh, aeeeehieehh

Ok, were did I leave the Kleenex.

"aeeeeehieeehh"?!??!?!?

Meister did you have an orgaam or did you dick get caught in a moustrap?

 

[Meister]

no, it's called Kung Fu Wanking. I can have multiple orgasms that way.

 

[frankcastle]

Terb threads are like the concept of entropy...... enventually it all falls apart.

I have to say that all the encouragement, advice and food for thought has been really helpful so thanks again.

I think a lot of people read my original post as saying that I was planning on quitting.

But to be more accurate what I think I really need to do was reevaulate the role of terb and hobbying in my life.

My conclusion was that I want to set a goal of limiting posts and try to stick to the massage section reading reviews and writing the odd review or comment. In other words quick drop ins and outs. You have no idea how many posts I hit the delete button for just to avoid going crazy with posts again.

As for hobbying I find that for me the most attractive part is the "rapport" that you build with certain MPAs. I put that in quotes because I want to acknowledge the fantasy aspect of the transaction.

I never did fully go off the deep end but I think recent events made me realize that there are guys in really rough shape on terb and hobbying out there and that I needed to really look at things carefully to make sure that I don't let things go too far.

Well it's been 16 days and going strong..... mind you my left arm is now registered as a WMP..... wicked mad pipe.

So when do I get back into the game? I don't know but I'm not rushing back thankfully things are somewhat quiet on the MP scene for me (i.e. short list of MPAs that I would want to repeat with and a non existant TDL list...... some girls have been on there a long time and if I haven't made it out to see them by now it's fair to say that I probably won't see them for no real reason other than I don't feel the need to slide with every popular girl on terb).

I'm feeling like I'm in a much more relaxed state of mind.

 

[lay-mann]

If we all decided to take a bit more time off from this hobby Maybe we would see prices come down ?

Won't hold my breath.

 

[frankcastle]

Well 1 session in 31 days and in a way it was a bit different since it was a matter of curiosity rather than lust/addiction that drove me to go.

Since then I still think about sessions but I feel good that I don't "find myself accidentally driving past spas."

I stay clear of Steeles because my only reason to be out east is to hobby.

I only go near yorkdale to shop at the mall..... cause lord knows it's close to my second home (B&S).

The best part is that my urge to see my ATFs are fading. I can't believe that I actually cancelled a session.... there were health and other prior engagements that contributed to the cancellation but there was also a sense of relief that I had an excuse not to go.

So yes I still log on to terb mainly because I don't see myself as out of the game but on a sabbatical (spelling?).

Things are good..... lost 10 lbs, starting to read for fun again, coaching sports, got a date with a girl outside of the biz, been out to clubs, and art events, spent quality time with friends.

Yeah at first it was a struggle to not go. But now it feels okay. The best test is definitely reading terb and links and not feeling tempted. I mean it is Friday night..... took a nap, got paid, bills are clear for the month, new house is set up but no urges to get a slide or invite someone over to break in the new high end mattress.

How's the crush going? Well that's a tough one it just needs sometime to fade. In the past I've had a few crushes where I fell hard for some girls (outside of the biz) and in the long run we are still good friends even years after the inital friendship then crush......... so I'm confident that this too shall pass. I do want to say to her that I appreciate the fact that she helped me to deal with my crush rather than avoid the topic. There are still some sore spots but I hope to clear those up. Could I see her again as a client? I really don't know..... lately the feeling has been no, that it's not a good idea.

The truth is that I enjoyed her friendship more than her sessions but I had some difficulties dealing with rejection but more so I had difficulties letting go of my feelings for her with regards to her seeing other guys.

 

[AZN_LOVER]

Things are good..... lost 10 lbs, starting to read for fun again, coaching sports, got a date with a girl outside of the biz, been out to clubs, and art events, spent quality time with friends.

Sounds great FC! Good for you

There are still some sore spots but I hope to clear those up. Could I see her again as a client? I really don't know..... lately the feeling has been no, that it's not a good idea.

The answer is NO. You can be on one side of the fence or the other, but not BOTH. Once you start an "emotional" relationship you've sidestepped the reason you went to an MP in the first place.

IE> guilt free fun with a hot babe.

It's best not to confuse the relationship by giving mixed signals.

Even being friends with an MPA can be difficult at times. Although you may not care for her romantically, knowing she's being groped by 5-10 different anonymous guys per shift is difficult. You see the turmoil she goes through emotionally and that's hard to deal with as a friend. I told one MPA in particular I'd be THRILLED when she leaves the biz.

 

[frankcastle]

Yeah IL I really know that what you say makes sense and it's tough to say no forever. I don't want to get into details but I do consider her a friend and you're right even as a friend it's tough.

 

[AZN_LOVER]

Yeah IL I really know that what you say makes sense and it's tough to say no forever. I don't want to get into details but I do consider her a friend and you're right even as a friend it's tough.

Yep, it certainly is.

One other point:

Sometimes you'll remember the fun you had as a client and know THAT part of the relationship has passed, most like forever. You've sacrificed something physical for a much more meaningful relationship. It can be hard thinking back to some fantastic sessions knowing that won't happen again.

 

[igotpho]

wow , this thread is deep. you must of been doing mushrooms

 

[frankcastle]

E, coke and weed.