Not at all. So, keep in mind, I'm one guy and only speak for myself. It's only my opinion.
Let's start off with another meme. Something we all get...
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HOWEVER, it's not all TOFTT. It's more,
show-me-that-you're-not-leach-and-you're-ACTUALLY-going-to-contribute-back. Is that so bad? It's "dead" here (should have seen a few years go...) because because 99% lurk and only 1% post and out of that 1%, only 10% of that actually provide reviews & information. Where are you going to fit in? Why get all butt-hurt about not getting something without giving something back?
Everyone wants something for nothing. What I'm really suggesting is (1) figure out a way you can contribute around here.
Also, and this is important,
I'm not going to send some asswipe-wackjob-waste-of-good-skin-fucktard (it's a technical hockey term)
to a woman I like. That's really bad for her and she's going to think less of me. That doesn't help me in anyway.
So (2), provide some sort of evidence with post history that you're not a asswipe-wackjob-waste-of-good-skin-fucktard and hey, here are my suggestions to see that may not easily find on LL or Tryst. Everyone has their gems that they want to help out by directing business their way.
It's only common sense right?
Be like
@produce25. He lurked here for awhile, read the reviews, found out who's good, bad, what-ever, noticed that Nena at Sakura sounds great, easy to go to, lots of positive reviews. He decided hey! I'm going to go, and provide the forum a positive review of her. Good times. A good approach.
Merely my own opinion and suggestion.
Now, let's have a discussion about how I convince the women I see that they charge far, FAR too little and should charge more for what they do. $400 and closer to $500 per hour is WAY more reasonable right?