Anya,
I don't see anything strange or difficult to understand here. The real problem is that when these threads start talking about issues of racism that invariably somebody introduces discrimination and subsequently confuses the discussion. I think the problem is you fail to understand your role as a provider of sexual services. Please don't go overboard with the analogies here. Restaurants and most real life interactions have little parallel with paid liasions in the sex business. Your analogies using the examples of the restaurants are rather weak as examples of racism..which afterall is the topic of this thread. Restaurants have a right to discriminate against clientele based on their dress presentation. That right is actually granted them by law. In fact there are many local bylaws that require that patrons of restaurants be suitably attired. Restaurants have no right to discriminate based on race. If I walked into that establishment properly dressed and they refused my business, I guarantee you that by the time the smoke cleared, I'd own the place.
Of course as a provider you have a right to refuse my business. The nature of your business invites males to contact you for sexual liasion. That is in its purest form a business transaction and something which believe it or not you offer to the general male public. You may discriminate against guys who are too short, too fat or bald. That is discrimination. If you refuse my business based solely on issues of your racial preference, that is textbook racism. As a procurer of a fantasy sexual experience, I have an absolute right to choose whomever I wish to consumate a liason. In doing so, I may choose any nationality of lady, size, weight, height, etc. Whereas in making such a choice, I am discriminating, I by no means am being racist. I personally don't like fat women. I discriminate against them in my personal choice for the physical features of an escort that I'd choose to engage. Inasmuch as this is a service that I purchase, I reserve that right. If you wish to specify your clientele in terms of physical or sexual orientation..that is discrimination. You may also refuse them based on race...that is RACISM. The two are entirely different concepts. Racism in the choice of an escort in this business simply doesn't apply on the client side of the equation. You either are racist or you aren't. Afterall, there are many members of the Klan that had liasions with black women. One of our former Presidents, a slave owner himself, had liasion with his black slave resulting in offspring. Was Jefferson a racist, most certainly. But that certainly had no bearing on where he chose to "get busy".
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