question for gentlemen

Rose said:
Ok guys heres your chance to give some advice-how can a gal tell if a guy is going to be a good lover before they get to the bedroom.


It all depends on the thickness. The thickness of the envelope.
 
I think one of the early answers was on the money. Does he listen carefully? Is he attentive to your needs?

Really great sex is not going to be some command performance - but the most intimate and exciting of communications!
 
rick dickulous said:
Unless you like it rough. . . . No need to listen when you're rough, I guess. Girls who like it rough are a complete mystery to me.

I have a different opinion on that.

Listening is still the key, whether you're playing rough or soft or in between. Perhaps even more so during rough play, since there can be a fine line between rough enough and too rough. That is, if you're being rough because the girl wants it that way. (Otherwise, you're just a brute.) You're still trying to please her by giving her what she wants, and that takes careful listening, before, during and after.
 
Quick reply to my quick reply lol---thanks to all who have contributed--I havent been with many guys but the one thing Ive found out is if a man is a total braggert then stay clear----he usually cant produce what hes telling you he can.
 
KWI said:
if you like a straight in and out, up and down and no circles or swirls, don't for the guy who moves and shoots around everyone on the ice rink playing hockey or on the basketball court while shooting hoops.

There is swirls? Damn, I knew I should have bought "Sex For Dummies" 2nd edition.

I'm neither a hockey nor a basketball player, but I am quite good a tennis. Oh, oh, now the girls will think I'm a spanker.