Ok guys heres your chance to give some advice-how can a gal tell if a guy is going to be a good lover before they get to the bedroom.
question for gentlemen
- Thread starter Rose
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Is he a good communicator..... one who can express themselves and listen will probably be good at sex.
Is he openminded about things..... he'll probably be the same way about sex and therefore more fun and intereting.
Does he take care of himself.....a nice bod doesn't hurt
Is he genrous/kind..... less likely to be all about me me me in the bedroom.
Is he openminded about things..... he'll probably be the same way about sex and therefore more fun and intereting.
Does he take care of himself.....a nice bod doesn't hurt
Is he genrous/kind..... less likely to be all about me me me in the bedroom.
Back Burner
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This depends on what kind of sex you enjoy, Rose. 
I don't think you can be sure, same as with a woman. Someone who is considerate would be more likely to try to please you in bed, but it depends on his past lovers and who taught him his experiences. See if he's playful or demonstrative.
I don't think you can be sure, same as with a woman. Someone who is considerate would be more likely to try to please you in bed, but it depends on his past lovers and who taught him his experiences. See if he's playful or demonstrative.
I'd sure don't know how to tell if a guy will be a good lover but the best indicator I've found for women is if they are a good dancer. Good dancer = Good in bed.
A young woman walks with her date towards his apartment door, as he stops to open the door she says..
"You know.. I can tell exactly what kind of lover someone is going to be by the way he opens a door.. if he is slow when inserting the key and careful when twisting the knob, then he'll be patient and meticulous in bed.. and I'll enjoy myself very much..
if he just rams the key into the keyhole and goes just short of kicking down the door.. then he'll be too rough and in a hurry.. and that's just not for me..."
The guy looks down at they keyhole.. back up to her.. down to the keyhole.. smirks and says..
"well.. first.. I like to lick the keyhole..."
"You know.. I can tell exactly what kind of lover someone is going to be by the way he opens a door.. if he is slow when inserting the key and careful when twisting the knob, then he'll be patient and meticulous in bed.. and I'll enjoy myself very much..
if he just rams the key into the keyhole and goes just short of kicking down the door.. then he'll be too rough and in a hurry.. and that's just not for me..."
The guy looks down at they keyhole.. back up to her.. down to the keyhole.. smirks and says..
"well.. first.. I like to lick the keyhole..."
Jade4u
It's been good to know ya
Best experience
1. offered me drink
2. ordered in
3. offered another drink
4. was slow on the move
5 showed me his whole place
6 we went to the shower
7 whispered in my ear I am going to take all of you.
8 had me there
9 dried me off himself
10 offered me another drink
11 massaged me
12 took me by the hand led me to his bedroom
btw this went on all night. He even made me breakfast and coffee himself.
1. offered me drink
2. ordered in
3. offered another drink
4. was slow on the move
5 showed me his whole place
6 we went to the shower
7 whispered in my ear I am going to take all of you.
8 had me there
9 dried me off himself
10 offered me another drink
11 massaged me
12 took me by the hand led me to his bedroom
btw this went on all night. He even made me breakfast and coffee himself.
you mean you showered and whispered, dried and then did it all over again? hehestacey4u2luv said:
stacey4u2luv said:Best experience
1. offered me drink
2. ordered in
3. offered another drink
4. was slow on the move
5 showed me his whole place
6 we went to the shower
7 whispered in my ear I am going to take all of you.
8 had me there
9 dried me off himself
10 offered me another drink
11 massaged me
12 took me by the hand led me to his bedroom
btw this went on all night. He even made me breakfast and coffee himself.
Please Stacey, you're making me blush.
Jade4u
It's been good to know ya
smiley27 said:
You mean smooth talking, persuasive, sex maniacs?
As long as they are honest about it.
The eyes. When you're speaking to him does he look you in the eye and you know he's really listening? Listening is the number one king of sexual technique.
Unless you like it rough. I don't do rough and I know nothing about it. No need to listen when you're rough, I guess. Girls who like it rough are a complete mystery to me.
I think choice of music is a good indicator too. Does he like music with very little changes? Just a constant boring rythmn? That's a lousy lay. Does he like music with lots of changes? Does he produce or appreciate art? Those are indicative of a good lay.
Unless you like it rough. I don't do rough and I know nothing about it. No need to listen when you're rough, I guess. Girls who like it rough are a complete mystery to me.
I think choice of music is a good indicator too. Does he like music with very little changes? Just a constant boring rythmn? That's a lousy lay. Does he like music with lots of changes? Does he produce or appreciate art? Those are indicative of a good lay.
Make spaghetti for him, watch if he twirls his fork using a spoon or does without. Does he slurp it up and needs a bib? That's positive, even better if he licks the plate.
If he cuts it up with a knife making no effort to handle long strands, that's a bad sign.
If he cuts it up with a knife making no effort to handle long strands, that's a bad sign.
Is he a good kisser? That's usually very telling for women. Cold dispassionate kissers are usually selfish in bed. Clumsy kissers are inept. Good kissers will try hard but theyare only as good as their experience teaches them to be.
