If there was one quality guys are looking for in an SP,what would it be.Maybe 2 or 3 would be better.Would looks be on the top of the list with body/ what do you say?
Qualities of an SP
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Attitude!!! It’s all in the attitude … marginal looks can be overcome by great service/attitude … but a perfect 10 who is a cold fish leaves you feeling ripped off … my votes for attitude …
Attitude!!! It’s all in the attitude … marginal looks can be overcome by great service/attitude … but a perfect 10 who is a cold fish leaves you feeling ripped off … my votes for attitude …
The three qualities that I look for in any women are:
Character, Attitude and Intelligence ...
Man, I have been "researching", looking for these qualities for a whole month for my first SP experience ... and now, I've found her ...
Character, Attitude and Intelligence ...
Man, I have been "researching", looking for these qualities for a whole month for my first SP experience ... and now, I've found her ...
with a capital 'A'
Have to agree with traveler23b
Attitude, attitude, and attitude.
Of all the very uneventful sexual encounters I had , most of them were with sp's with a 9 on looks. While some of the best laid I ever had were with ladies doing very average to not so good in the looks dept. but with a great attitude.
A perfect 10 cold fish and a regular cold fish are the same:
They suck.
Have to agree with traveler23b
Attitude, attitude, and attitude.
Of all the very uneventful sexual encounters I had , most of them were with sp's with a 9 on looks. While some of the best laid I ever had were with ladies doing very average to not so good in the looks dept. but with a great attitude.
A perfect 10 cold fish and a regular cold fish are the same:
They suck.
An interesting thread, this. Of course, attitude is always more important than sheer looks. The difficulty is that OUR attitudes are important in the checmisty too. Sometimes, hey, we just want an over-the-top erotic exciting time, with the SP leading, and going that extra mile to make it all come together - the porn star experience, if you will.
Damn, where was I before I pressed the wrong key? As I was saying, there are times when the PSE is all you need, and there are times when you need MUCH more; laughter, smiles, cuddles, etc.
A lot depends on your relationship with the SP, too. I like to be friends with smart attractive bright women - Miranda and I, for instance, are good friends (and those three days in Ottawa back whenever cemented that friendship!)
That doesn't mean, when the time is right and the signals are given, that Miranda can't turn me on without a second's wait...Similarly, I'm close to other SPs, and last time I visited my regular, we didn't have much of a sexual time, but the hour passed so quickly, and was so lovely, that I thought my fee was WELL spent indeed.
The really good SPs now how to read their clients; they know when to rock your world, and when to ease back the throttle and hold your heart in their hands.
Muddy
"Bear in mind that depression is anger without enthusiasm, and good health merely the slowest way to die."
A lot depends on your relationship with the SP, too. I like to be friends with smart attractive bright women - Miranda and I, for instance, are good friends (and those three days in Ottawa back whenever cemented that friendship!)
That doesn't mean, when the time is right and the signals are given, that Miranda can't turn me on without a second's wait...Similarly, I'm close to other SPs, and last time I visited my regular, we didn't have much of a sexual time, but the hour passed so quickly, and was so lovely, that I thought my fee was WELL spent indeed.
The really good SPs now how to read their clients; they know when to rock your world, and when to ease back the throttle and hold your heart in their hands.
Muddy
"Bear in mind that depression is anger without enthusiasm, and good health merely the slowest way to die."
Mystery
A perceptive girl will bring me back time and time again.
Anyone that goes that extra mile to make herself interesting and alluring. Always leaving a little mystery about herself, so that you have something more to uncover during the next encounter.
I want to leave a session and say "Wow" outloud.
A perceptive girl will bring me back time and time again.
Anyone that goes that extra mile to make herself interesting and alluring. Always leaving a little mystery about herself, so that you have something more to uncover during the next encounter.
I want to leave a session and say "Wow" outloud.
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Fully realizing that it,s a business transaction, I like a lady with a sense of playfullness and who wants to have fun, with a good sense of humour.After prior visits with a particular SP, on the last occasion i saw her she kept on covering her nipples with her hands each time i went for a mouthful, when she finally "let" me have a little taste , we both broke out giggling.. a nice little tease , that made our session that much more fun. I just want to have fun!!
I want to be turned on by her. Good looks are always the first thing I look for, but like many have already said, I have had too many lukewarm sessions with lookers, and have had plenty of red hot sessions with ladies who were attractive, but not model perfect. Attitude, personality, and style all count, and I can be turned on by things like an sp's laugh or smile, the way she carries herself, or the way she dresses.
Another aspect which will always get me to repeat with an sp is if she has the ability to make me believe she really enjoyed herself and that she wants me too. I know it is all very illusory, but for me, the best sp's can convey that feeling.
Another aspect which will always get me to repeat with an sp is if she has the ability to make me believe she really enjoyed herself and that she wants me too. I know it is all very illusory, but for me, the best sp's can convey that feeling.
Ripper77, this thread was a very welcome one! Enjoyed reading it, very much!
“Intelligence, humour, sensuality” – Meesh
“Attitude!!! It’s all in the attitude” - traveler23b
“Sensuality, looks, charm” – shack
“Character, Attitude and Intelligence” – submissivedave
“presence, looks, charm, and moxy!” - breaker7
“Attitude, specifically a customer service attitude.” – joebob
“Attitude, attitude, and attitude” – Berlin
“attitude is a very sexy quality” - badboy
“attitude is always more important than sheer looks” - Muddy
“little mystery about herself” - Quirt
“when she finally "let" me have a little taste” - twobigo
“Attitude, personality, and style all count” - homonger
“integrity or honesty” - nearlynormal
“I have had the good fortune of meeting several SP's that have all these qualities” – comeoniwanttogo
“Tits, ass, vagina” - Goober Mcfly – enjoyed you too ‘Goober’
“Intelligence, humour, sensuality” – Meesh
“Attitude!!! It’s all in the attitude” - traveler23b
“Sensuality, looks, charm” – shack
“Character, Attitude and Intelligence” – submissivedave
“presence, looks, charm, and moxy!” - breaker7
“Attitude, specifically a customer service attitude.” – joebob
“Attitude, attitude, and attitude” – Berlin
“attitude is a very sexy quality” - badboy
“attitude is always more important than sheer looks” - Muddy
“little mystery about herself” - Quirt
“when she finally "let" me have a little taste” - twobigo
“Attitude, personality, and style all count” - homonger
“integrity or honesty” - nearlynormal
“I have had the good fortune of meeting several SP's that have all these qualities” – comeoniwanttogo
“Tits, ass, vagina” - Goober Mcfly – enjoyed you too ‘Goober’
My three qualities could be all the above but if I had to I would have to narrow it down to:
Blonde, Irish Canadian, Blue Eyes!
Oh yeah, pink nails are a must....
Blonde, Irish Canadian, Blue Eyes!
Oh yeah, pink nails are a must....
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nearlynormal: Sounds like you were in true lust with this girl if she caused you so much anguish over her repacing yourself.
I like to establish a fantacy relationship with some of the girls...it lends to a nice rush of anticipation before the next meeting!
nearlynormal: Sounds like you were in true lust with this girl if she caused you so much anguish over her repacing yourself.
I like to establish a fantacy relationship with some of the girls...it lends to a nice rush of anticipation before the next meeting!
I may be new at this hobby, but I can tell you that I am looking for what I missed in my past. Call me weird, but high school, although not that long ago, left some pretty big scars in the way of interaction with women. The SPs I seek out have to remind me of a women or experience that I missed out on in high school that I would like to live out so I can go forward with future interactions with women.
