Fuji is not an SP, but is a client with strong and sometimes debatable opinions. His scenario sounds far fetched and I doubt that references would be used by the police to set up further stings.Really? lol Are you for real?
Care to share your personal experience as an SP and tell us how the use of references has never saved you, not even once, from a potential bad date? I'd love to hear all about it and how you managed to keep yourself save over the days/weeks/months/years.
Since it seems you're an experienced SP, I'm sure you know that asking for a reference is only part of the entire screening process, right? You must know that a lot more goes into screening a potential client, correct?
I'd also love to know where you got your information about the set up of future stings![]()
I have heard of only one example where LE has booked a call with a lady posing as a (fake) client. As the lady was smart enough to know that she had done nothing illegal under the current law, she turned the officers away - although they persisted in being a nuisance and talking at her in her doorway for several minutes, telling her that they were there to "protect" her. She ended up losing her evening of clients as she had to cancel because the cops were hanging around. It was the men who were in legal jeopardy, not the lady.
AFAIK, this is a one off incident and LE is not making a practice of this. So I am not convinced that screening assists a lady in any real way in weeding out cops or that this is a genuine problem.
Personally I find references a nuisance. Although I hobby frequently, I see agency girls and repeat multiple times with the same 2 or 3 current favourites. I am usually not in a position to supply references and regard being asked for them as annoying. I have been a member of TERB for 15 years.
I can see how they might be useful to weed out no-shows, smellies and oafs and I would guess that the first category is likely the biggest problem, especially for girls from Montreal who have limited time in TO and overhead to pay.
OTOH, I would not be comfortable asking 1 of my regulars to supply a reference for another woman. It seems insulting to her. After all, she probably regards me as "her" client. There is a difference between a guy who sees 40 different girls every year and is clearly shopping around as much as possible and guys who see a half-dozen or less and repeats a lot. In the latter case, I suspect most women would actively resent being asked to "recommend" that client to another woman. It means losing a regular source of income and giving it away to another woman who might keep it permanently. And that leaves aside the issues of female competition and insecurity.
It puts the client in a difficult situation being asked to do this.
As well, my perception is that clients are a mixed bag. Is a girl really going to tell another girl that Guy A is an okay guy, but has a foot fetish? Or that he has a weird looking dick? Or that he talks about his stamp collection until the girl dies from boredom? Or that he gets frustrated and grumpy if he can't get off easily?
Imagine if the second girl mentions the conversation to the client?! "Oh btw, Candyce says that you take a long time to get hard, but you seem fine today." Is the guy going to trust Candyce and go see her ever again? Probably not.