Premature ejaculation

[Leimonis]

It always make me sad that guy poor so much thought into how long they last or how big they are. In my personal and working life the best sex was always the "quickies". It's how invested and passionate you are into the action that matters and how excited you can get imo. Not how big you are and how long you last. Don't put too much pressure on you guys, enjoy the moment!

So all these “don’t stop don’t stop” were lies?

 

[avocat]

Simple solution: Find a SP who allows MSOG during the session. Enjoy!

I think a lot of it is mental. With a new lover, I tend to not cum very quickly. If the women is tight, or just gave me a great bj, I can't last much longer once I'm pumping away. I also think Viagra makes me cum a little slower too. But if I need to slow things down, just start looking at her tattoos or something, a little distraction for 5 seconds may be all you need to return to fucking away. Also, who cares, if you cum and it feels good for you, the women won't complain. Then spend time making out, massage, etc., then do it again!

 

[Tinmachine]

I think a lot of it is mental. With a new lover, I tend to not cum very quickly. If the women is tight, or just gave me a great bj, I can't last much longer once I'm pumping away. I also think Viagra makes me cum a little slower too. But if I need to slow things down, just start looking at her tattoos or something, a little distraction for 5 seconds may be all you need to return to fucking away. Also, who cares, if you cum and it feels good for you, the women won't complain. Then spend time making out, massage, etc., then do it again!

If you under 50 and in reasonably good physical health it's all mental. I'm in my early 50s and now seem to have trouble finishing. (Opposite of PE) . I guess in some eyes not a bad problem to have but it does get frustrating when yu can't climax, then it starts to play games on you that yu won't ever be able to finish and feeds on itself- kind of the same way PE is. In my early 40s there were a few occasions were I did PE. Totally didn't expect it (nor did the provider) but I really didn't let it get it to me. I guess that's the key. Try not to let it get to you're head (the head upstairs )

 

[csmitting]

My 2 cents: Tylenol Cold and Flu

Hear me out!

The active ingredient suppresses the cough reflex in the body but it also suppresses the perception of sensation during sex as well. As a result you're super turned on but it can be difficult to cum. I often take 2 (of the daytime one) before going to see an SP and it works wonders. I don't have PE but I also want to make sure I get my money's worth.

Pseudoephedrine is the active ingredient in cold med. you can get extra strength (without Tylenol) ask the pharmacist it’s sold over the counter

 

[Tinmachine]

My 2 cents: Tylenol Cold and Flu

Hear me out!

The active ingredient suppresses the cough reflex in the body but it also suppresses the perception of sensation during sex as well. As a result you're super turned on but it can be difficult to cum. I often take 2 (of the daytime one) before going to see an SP and it works wonders. I don't have PE but I also want to make sure I get my money's worth.

I guess if I'm at the opposite side of the spectrum and I already have trouble climaxing I definitely don't want to be coming off the tail end of a cold then

 

[lomotil]

Pseudoephedrine is the active ingredient in cold med. you can get extra strength (without Tylenol) ask the pharmacist it’s sold over the counter
Pseudoephedrine is a stimulant which might make you ejaculate faster, it is dextromethorphan that is antitussive which suppresses the cough.

 

[ThrobxZombie]

Try picturing Whoopi Goldburg when you think your close, it always worked for me as a teen and has never failed me. get a Sister Act Poster and hang over bed

 

[Mr.lover]

I was once given this Japanese spray called Gigolo, cannot find it in canada. Its on the japanese Amazon site.
But it didn't just delay ejaculate but I lost my hardness after 20 mins lol. Maybe cuz I mixed it with the stud numbing spray. Took alot of effort to get me off after that even with help from the blue pill.

 

[massman]

If you under 50 and in reasonably good physical health it's all mental. I'm in my early 50s and now seem to have trouble finishing. (Opposite of PE) . I guess in some eyes not a bad problem to have but it does get frustrating when yu can't climax, then it starts to play games on you that yu won't ever be able to finish and feeds on itself- kind of the same way PE is. In my early 40s there were a few occasions were I did PE. Totally didn't expect it (nor did the provider) but I really didn't let it get it to me. I guess that's the key. Try not to let it get to you're head (the head upstairs )

On a rare occasion I have this issue (it was MUCH worse when I was on a ssri for depression). It does fuck with your mind, the longer you go, the harder it is to cum and that pressure then makes things worse, sometimes even to the point of going soft. I’ve found (if time and partner allow) that slowing down, going back to caressing , making out, DATY etc and starting over so to speak, can help me get
Past the finish line.

 

[SchlongConery]

Or you can waste more time trying Bolivian Tree Bark, Emulsified Monkey Balls Lotion,

Post of the Day!

 

[Robert Mugabe]

In my personal and working life the best sex was always the "quickies".

 

[SchlongConery]

I joined a local PE (Premature Ejaculators) support group. Meets every Thursday. Typical me, for the first meeting I went on Wednesday...

 

[Josephine]

Ahah not so much. You pay for an hour, you get an hour. The emotional labor is still there. So 1 long shot or 3....

 

[massman]

It always make me sad that guy poor so much thought into how long they last or how big they are. In my personal and working life the best sex was always the "quickies". It's how invested and passionate you are into the action that matters and how excited you can get imo. Not how big you are and how long you last. Don't put too much pressure on you guys, enjoy the moment!

Ya, raw, animalistic passionate fucking that is hard and fast is great. But sometimes you want to savour the experience. Sometimes when I’m really hungry, I’ll wolf down a great steak, but it’s also nice to enjoy the same meal slowly, with a good glass of wine and good company.

 

[3wire]

What do you mean "premature"? I've been thinking about it all week!

 

[Westender]

The drug companies are working on a cure for premature ejaculation......

It's cumming soon.....

 

[Mencken]

Paxil, one of the SSRI antidepressants is sometimes prescribed for PE. In the past I did use it to slow myself down but it is tricky. That was 10 years ago. Now I slow down after I have had regular sex for a week or so.

 

[StephenHKing]

With caution that if overused you can not cum at all or not cum a second time if that’s what you want:

- lidocaine cream or spray
- Dextromethorphan (Robitussin DM)
- opioids
- antidepressants (haven’t tried)
- alcohol
- weed

Obviously everything has pros and cons and some have long term issues.

Lidocaine makes it a lot harder to cum and you also can’t really enjoy BBBJs as much but if you want to just bang away and enjoy the view it can be great and it’s the least damaging to the rest of your body.

Alcohol and weed can make it all more fun but make for a long day if your session isn’t in the evening.

Opioids are hard to get and can kill you. So there’s that. They can also make you stop caring about the pretty girl attached to your cock, which can defeat the purpose.

Dextromethorphan is pretty simple, but if it comes with other ingredients it can make you sleepy.

I definitely used to cum way too early and don’t have any self control, so I’ve tried nearly everything. These days I go pretty gently on any of these aides and just book less time expecting to go once, and I never did really cum during blowjobs. My challenge is not cumming during a good hard fuck - having a gorgeous woman bouncing around enjoying herself on my dick pretty much ends the session early if I let it continue too long!

 

[Tinmachine]

On a rare occasion I have this issue (it was MUCH worse when I was on a ssri for depression). It does fuck with your mind, the longer you go, the harder it is to cum and that pressure then makes things worse, sometimes even to the point of going soft. I’ve found (if time and partner allow) that slowing down, going back to caressing , making out, DATY etc and starting over so to speak, can help me get
Past the finish line.

100 pct. Feel exactly the same when it happens. Feeds on itself and yu get more anxious you're not going to make it past the finish line.
Agree on the remedy too. Slow it down. Start over.
All in the mind. The equipment works but the mind holds u back