Guys,
Whats up? I'm in a serious depression mode or at least feel uncared for by my gf and I would like to know how I can possible make my relationship better or atleast get her to show the same affection/love.
Ive been with my gf for about 5 years and its been a really up and down ride. Fights, love, arugments, hickies (I got) etc, and the last bit, hickies has really dampered our relationship or at least her love for me. That aside, I have done more for her than her own family, and more for her than anyone in my life and I have grown really attached to her. Her behaviour to not really want to kiss or hug is really eating me inside. ALso, she recently went out to see this guy, and I was told by her they kissed. Her goal was to show me how hurt she was and to get me jealous and I was not jealous. Now I can honestly say I love this girl and deep inside she knows of all the good things Ive done and what I mean to her. But shes turned her heart into stone and just seems to disinterested etc and thats rraelly hurting me inside; I cant sleep, eat anything.
I really want to win her love back and get her to love me the same way she did before. I keep having nightmares about the guy she saw and cant get it out of my head everytime I see her and keep bringing it up, which I think is making her think about the guy more than she is. Its a psychological game where I want her really bad now because she isnt showing much interests. Shes told me, she loves me, but her feelings are not there right now, and she might like the other guy :S Im hurt bc I didnt expect this from her. Now I really really want to win her back, her affection her love her care her everything. Shes asked for a break to think things through but Im really scared to loser her and Im really attached to her and shes knows that and takes advantage of it (takes it for granted).
Please guys, what do I do? I need some serious advise, and she means alot to me and to lose her like that really kills me inside as Ive been there through the thick and thin and now some jackass who doesnt deserve it comes in and she wants to get revenge on me, might get with her. Thats killing me and the way shes acting. How do I turn things around? Please help guy! Im very desperate to have her back to her old self, as you can tell.
Cheers,
Ive never had this feeling before and its burning me inside. I love her! Ive tried alot of things, so please help!!
Whats up? I'm in a serious depression mode or at least feel uncared for by my gf and I would like to know how I can possible make my relationship better or atleast get her to show the same affection/love.
Ive been with my gf for about 5 years and its been a really up and down ride. Fights, love, arugments, hickies (I got) etc, and the last bit, hickies has really dampered our relationship or at least her love for me. That aside, I have done more for her than her own family, and more for her than anyone in my life and I have grown really attached to her. Her behaviour to not really want to kiss or hug is really eating me inside. ALso, she recently went out to see this guy, and I was told by her they kissed. Her goal was to show me how hurt she was and to get me jealous and I was not jealous. Now I can honestly say I love this girl and deep inside she knows of all the good things Ive done and what I mean to her. But shes turned her heart into stone and just seems to disinterested etc and thats rraelly hurting me inside; I cant sleep, eat anything.
I really want to win her love back and get her to love me the same way she did before. I keep having nightmares about the guy she saw and cant get it out of my head everytime I see her and keep bringing it up, which I think is making her think about the guy more than she is. Its a psychological game where I want her really bad now because she isnt showing much interests. Shes told me, she loves me, but her feelings are not there right now, and she might like the other guy :S Im hurt bc I didnt expect this from her. Now I really really want to win her back, her affection her love her care her everything. Shes asked for a break to think things through but Im really scared to loser her and Im really attached to her and shes knows that and takes advantage of it (takes it for granted).
Please guys, what do I do? I need some serious advise, and she means alot to me and to lose her like that really kills me inside as Ive been there through the thick and thin and now some jackass who doesnt deserve it comes in and she wants to get revenge on me, might get with her. Thats killing me and the way shes acting. How do I turn things around? Please help guy! Im very desperate to have her back to her old self, as you can tell.
Cheers,
Ive never had this feeling before and its burning me inside. I love her! Ive tried alot of things, so please help!!
