Pet Peeve-Sponges

[squeezer]

On numerous occasions I've noticed the provider using a sponge. Last year I had booked a well known indy and found she had inserted a sponge although this is across the board be it Mpas or escorts.

Why work during a cycle? I think using a sponge is a real turn off, at least for me. I would appreciate it if the booking person would at least give us the option at point of booking.

 

[GameBoy27]

A cervical sponge is used to prevent contraception, not menstruation. Cases of Toxic Shock Syndrome have been reported in women using the sponge during their period so this is not advised.

Perhaps you mean a diaphragm? Anyway, assuming it's a diaphragm, and there's no leakage, what's the difference? Since they can be inserted hours before sex, you've probably had sex with many ladies on their period and not even known it.

 

[TFZL1]

Would you like to take 3-4 days a month off with NO pay?

 

[peepingtom]

A cervical sponge is used to prevent contraception, not menstruation. Cases of Toxic Shock Syndrome have been reported in women using the sponge during their period so this is not advised.

Perhaps you mean a diaphragm? Anyway, assuming it's a diaphragm, and there's no leakage, what's the difference? Since they can be inserted hours before sex, you've probably had sex with many ladies on their period and not even known it.

Don't think OP is referring to a diaphragm. Some SPs who work on there periods use make-up sponges. Total turn off. But you're right about having sex with many ladies on their period and not even know it cuz this practice is common with escorts. Sometimes they feel so normal that they openly discuss it. As a coincidence I saw this on twitter the other day from Charlotte Edwards and Malika Fantasy (well known indies) talking about this. Off my TDL

Would you like to take 3-4 days a month off with NO pay?

That's nature. Deal with it. It's just not hygienic or fair to a client to be working while on the period. Would you like to be eating pussy then realize there's menstrual blood on your tongue? If they want to work during those days, just fully disclose to client so he can make a choice.

 

[squeezer]

Don't think OP is referring to a diaphragm. Some SPs who work on there periods use make-up sponges. Total turn off..

I wasn't referring to a diaphragm and have nothing against one being used but I'd prefer not to be engaging with a provider who is working during her menstrual cycle.

Would you like to take 3-4 days a month off with NO pay?

I can appreciate this but at the same time I'm paying $250 or more, I'm expected to shower prior and rightfully so and expect the same of the provider, I would never go in if I had a cold or open sore and would expect the same in return, no?

 

[TFZL1]

Some girls take that time off. Others are good at using sponges and you would never know.
Most Lady's who work during thier period aren't going to let you know, maybe desperation, whatever. I've seen some with the Bad acting, trying to look surprised; 'Oh I didn't expect it yet'. Yeah right!
Reputable, reliable, well reviewed.
If/when you have a bad experience, report it, write a review about the bad experience, naming the girl, to warn the rest of us, and maybe she'll get the hint.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

My opinion - which goes against the grain of my fellow workers and often gets me on the bitch list - INFORMED CONSENT!

It is not informed consent when you have sex with a woman and she is hiding that she is on her period. PERIOD. No pun intended

Having said that, and to poster who quoted the Twitter, - you have no idea if their clients where ok with them using this form to engage in play when they where on their period. There are men who know, and don't care. Point is, they know first.

 

[GameBoy27]

Some girls take that time off. Others are good at using sponges and you would never know.
Most Lady's who work during thier period aren't going to let you know, maybe desperation, whatever. I've seen some with the Bad acting, trying to look surprised; 'Oh I didn't expect it yet'. Yeah right!
Reputable, reliable, well reviewed.
If/when you have a bad experience, report it, write a review about the bad experience, naming the girl, to warn the rest of us, and maybe she'll get the hint.

From my experience, a woman's period isn't an on/off switch that starts and ends on the exact same day, each month. I can think of numerous times where I've had sex with a woman after her period has ended, only to encounter some blood the following day or two later. Likewise, I've had sex days before a woman's period was "supposed to start" and again, encountered blood.

 

[massman]

From my experience, a woman's period isn't an on/off switch that starts and ends on the exact same day, each month. I can think of numerous times where I've had sex with a woman after her period has ended, only to encounter some blood the following day or two later. Likewise, I've had sex days before a woman's period was "supposed to start" and again, encountered blood.

Yup.

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

I agree that any “ick” factor surprises can be off putting; it’s like finding a hair in your food at a restaurant. I also agree with informed consent but it's a privilege to be able to offer it consistently; there are times when a provider can’t financially risk a rejection. What many hobbyists don’t take into account is that women’s bodies are not identical and this business is fickle. If a provider has had a slow month then taking time off often isn’t doable. When I first started as an agency girl, I had weeks where I barely made log on and drivers fees so staying home for another week meant the bills weren’t going to get paid. And what if periods are longer, mine were sometimes 10-14 days long, that hits an income hard. I’m in a position today where it’s no longer an issue but I had years where it was hugely problematic. Trust me, we don't want to work while we're bleeding; it opens up transmission risk factors, leads to yeast infections and uti's and generally makes every aspect of work more challenging. Working with a sponge isn't easy either, it can cause a host of issues but if one can't afford to take the time off, one sucks it up, puts on a game face and soldiers thru.

Most providers today don’t have the traffic that clients think they do, this is no longer an easy cash flow industry and hasn’t been for over a decade. When I was in the US where the rates were considerably higher, I could choose to take time off but it’s a very different experience here in Canada. As much as clients want to give advice on when a provider should or shouldn’t work, the mid range pricing structure here in Canada doesn’t allow most providers the luxury of staying home during their periods and that’s just life. Perhaps asking before booking would alleviate this challenge for hobbyists or simply waiting to engage in daty until they know their provider a little better so she feels comfortable disclosing is the answer. Human beings are delightfully complex, messy, wondrous creatures and accepting that goes a long way to making the sun shine a little bit brighter.

smiles, cat

 

[iwilllickyoufohours]

Yeah just leave the sponge out or at least don't leave it in a long time

Nothing wrong with . Sex - it's natural but definitely not for everyone and I understand the ick factor for some

It's actually fun depending

Informed consent & maybe specials / discounts to get clients if the help. I think a lot of girls do b & g specials at that time

P.S. Pm any great specials ��