I'm curious what other people's views are about paying for the woman you're going out on a date with, whether it be her meal, drinks, movie ticket etc.
I'll state the obvious... if you're on a date with a woman and it's going well, she's hot, and you both seem to be into each other, you obviously pay for her meal, drinks etc., that's if you want a second date and want a chance to get into bed with her. My question is, if you're on a date and say you met her from an online dating site, and you're either not attracted to her in person, or you're just not that into her, or you feel that she's just not that into you, do you still pay for her?
I used to always pay for my dates even when I wasn't into them and knew that there wouldn't be a second date, because that's the gentlemanly thing to do, and that's how I was raised, but I go on a lot of dates, and just adding up all the costs it was getting to be too expensive, so now if I'm on a date and I'm not into her, I just offer to split the bill. I'd never let the woman pay for me, ever. Most of the time when I say we should split the bill, she's shocked, but I don't feel bad because the setting up of the date is mutual in all cases i.e. I didn't ask her out, and if I'm never going to see her again, why should I be footing the bill? I'd rather spend my money on a woman that I like.
What are your thoughts, and what do you do in those situations?
I'll state the obvious... if you're on a date with a woman and it's going well, she's hot, and you both seem to be into each other, you obviously pay for her meal, drinks etc., that's if you want a second date and want a chance to get into bed with her. My question is, if you're on a date and say you met her from an online dating site, and you're either not attracted to her in person, or you're just not that into her, or you feel that she's just not that into you, do you still pay for her?
I used to always pay for my dates even when I wasn't into them and knew that there wouldn't be a second date, because that's the gentlemanly thing to do, and that's how I was raised, but I go on a lot of dates, and just adding up all the costs it was getting to be too expensive, so now if I'm on a date and I'm not into her, I just offer to split the bill. I'd never let the woman pay for me, ever. Most of the time when I say we should split the bill, she's shocked, but I don't feel bad because the setting up of the date is mutual in all cases i.e. I didn't ask her out, and if I'm never going to see her again, why should I be footing the bill? I'd rather spend my money on a woman that I like.
What are your thoughts, and what do you do in those situations?