Friend, I searched both terms "self-made" and "homemade" dividends, as well as the entire cockamamie "theory of dividend irrelevence" in several of my actual university level and CFA textbooks - nuthin' there. I'm sure those terms are probably all over the internet, but I don't really rely on the internet for something as important as my finances.I wrote the LATTER term is used in textbooks. Search again--you'll find it. Or just type it in google.
Your analogy of animals or statement of, "While there is nothing wrong with capital gains, and capital losses can serve a purpose, neither are dividends."
You get a dividend, or you sell shares--what do you end up with? Money. They're treated differently for tax purposes, but, point remains, ultimately you end up with money. Thinking dividends are "special" or "free money" just illustrates the mental accounting bias I mentioned.
As mentioned...
"You don't wanna sell shares to create your own dividends , BUT when a company pays a dividend, its share price falls by the dividend (this is mathematically indisputable). Getting a dividend in a down market is EXACTLY the same thing as selling off an equivalent dollar amount of stock in the same down market (this is mathematically indisputable)."
Or as Prof Samuel M. Hartzmark put it, getting a dividend is like "taking out money out of your left pocket [from the share price] then putting it into your right pocket [the dividend]." He wrote papers on dividends, but nobody here is gonna read them--he was interviewed and talks about dividends starting around the 38 min mark [1].
"If you have to sell an asset to generate cash flow, you've probably fucked bigtime." Uh, yeah, sure. Tell that to the wealthiest people on the planet.
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Ex-dividend and cum dividend are well known, unlike this Prof Hartzman. If you could point me to his published academic papers, as befitting a Professor, I'd gladly read them, as well as any actual university finance textbook that discusses "homemade dividends".
Here's an interesting fact - you can google my ex-wife, and you'll find that shes a bestselling author, and one of her books was glowingly reviewed by a top official at the US Treasury Dept. Thats all on Google........except that she's not a bestselling author, or a successful entrepeneur. Its bullshit, like alot of stuff on the internet.
Anyhow, you follow whatever strategy you wish, & I wish you the best of luck in whatever you're doing.