Agree, its harder to find girls who can host, but you can ask. I notice on SDM some do put they can drive to you or host. Not a lot though, you have ask them or look for hotel. Some hotels have day rates you can ask about or use apps. AirBnB used to be a good option, but seems like the prices have gone up and cities seem to be trying to drive them out.
These might be helpful for day rates:
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