OT: your real name...

jigga

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do you give a girl your real first name when you go see her?

just wondering what you guys do.
 

wumpscut

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yup, sure do.
 

Dodger

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Sure. I find it hard to remember another name to answer too.

They get no further info though and I feel pretty safe with a name like John Smith
 

S.C. Joe

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Now- yes, long time ago- no. But now I see a "higher class" of ladies. Before I used another name because if they ever seen me later on and said "my name" I would know where I met them.

Still might be a good idea but then I like doing outcalls and if they are going to or from my room and a hotel worker ask them a question at least they know my name and room #
 

ig-88

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With her I'd had the most honest
relationship I'd ever had with a woman.

The only thing I'd lied about was my
name. I'd told her I was Teddy Novak...

...so she couldn't track me down
if I got her pregnant.
-- Steve Martin, Dead Men Don't Wear Plaid
 

Dodger

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KWI said:
Liar, you told me your name was Clark Kent!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Shhh that is my alias.

Now where are my glasses and bad suit
 

ackack

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Yes I tell them my real name. I didn't before, if they had to write down a name at a massage parlour, but now I don't care.

It feels wrong when a nice woman, whom I just met, calls me by a different name. I like a little truth in those sessions. I don't like lying.
 

fuji

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Never. I give a made up name, and if I'm asked details about my life, I make those up too. The less information people have about me the better, why do they need to know?? I don't know anything about their real name or real life (and don't want to either).
 

LancsLad

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fuji said:
Never. I give a made up name, and if I'm asked details about my life, I make those up too. The less information people have about me the better, why do they need to know?? I don't know anything about their real name or real life (and don't want to either).

Some of these gals must wonder why they happen to see 30 guys named Sheik each day. :D
 

RTRD

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Lol...

Jasmine Jazz said:
dont laugh, ive had 5 different clients tell me they were the owner of terb since i started as a escort lol.....

...pathetic and lame now have a new standard.

Geezus people...she's gonna fuck you...that is why you showed up with your dick in one hand and $400 in the other. She doesn't REALLY care who you are and what you do...why lie to impress???
 

canucklehead

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the way i look at it.... 4.5 million people in the GTA... u meet up again fine.... atleast if you are with your SO or kids and they do say hi and she says "Hi Lance" ..... why did she call you Lance.
If u r going to lie about what you do.... atleast make it something impressive....geeze..
 

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Jasmine Jazz said:
i think you worry too much about this. if u tell a lady your name is bob for example how would that be too much info?
So when I'm somewhere with my wife and some SP or stripper or whatever comes up to me and says "Hi Bob", I can say, "Sorry, I'm Joe, I think you have mistaken me for someone else", "But you're an engineer, right?", "No, sorry, I'm not, you've mixed me up with someone else". That way I don't get a divorce. I realize 99% are smart enough not to do that. I am safe from the other 1%.
 

Questor

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Jasmine Jazz said:
Like if you said "hi im bob, im an engineer, I work in markham, i grew up in Vancouver." that's not quite same as giving a lady your full name and address is it?
Well, actually, when I book incall or outcall, I am doing it from my home phone. I assume for security reasons that agencies and indies have caller ID and so they know not only my first name but my full name. And certainly when I book outcall and the lady arrives at my apartment with the entry code, they have my full name and address. I don't have a cell phone and can't say I understand how easy it is to link a cell number to a name, so I am not sure the same applies to those who book with a cell phone.
 

Questor

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fuji said:
Never. I give a made up name, and if I'm asked details about my life, I make those up too. The less information people have about me the better, why do they need to know?? I don't know anything about their real name or real life (and don't want to either).
Okay, you've probably seen my post above about caller ID, and I see you mostly post in the incall section. Please enlighten me. What makes you think you are visiting an incall anonymously? The other thing I am wondering is what you fear about giving a lady your first name? Persumably you are married, but even so. I agree, there is a lot at risk in terms of personal and professional reputation, marriage, relationship with kids, financial implications, etc. But one of the benefits of using the services of SP boards is that indies and agencies are operating in a somewhat transparent environment. So while I agree that one should be careful, I am not sure I understand how giving an SP a false first name constitutes being careful.
 
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jigga said:
do you give a girl your real first name when you go see her?

just wondering what you guys do.
Sure,

My name is Rod O' Steele. I prove it too.

EU
 

BallzDeep

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Most of the women forget your name the minute you tell them, secondly, if they ever see you in public, most will bury their head and duck into the closest store or change room.

You hear the odd story how clients and sp's have kept in touch and become good friends, I bet this rarely happens and is more wishful thinking by the client.
 

einar

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I am surprised by all this cloak and dagger stuff. I certainly use my real name, and am always delighted to learn an escort's real name, too -- though I would not ask for it.
 
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