Not Getting Caught

[Kaelyn]

Some may criticize what you do ,single or not.

I don't think it's the purpose of this board to judge his lifestyle or yours.

I am not judging anyone. Merely stating my opinion as does most others posting on this board. I find it interesting to hear responses from all sides.

...btw, I have been married and a victim of deception, hence the "have been". Maybe this clouds my judgement, maybe not.

I was just contributing to the conversation, whether you agree or not. In fact, I prefer you don't ~ makes things more interesting!!

 

[booboobear]

I was just contributing to the conversation, whether you agree or not. In fact, I prefer you don't ~ makes things more interesting!!

I agree ,all opinions are welcome. I can't promise however that I won't agree with you in the future.

 

[Bush League]

Two words

Wasn't Me.

 

[banshie]

My exact thoughts, djk. Why not pour all that "thought and energy" into making your relationship/sex life what you want it to be.

What ever happened to honesty and working out the kinks (no pun intended!!) in a relationship.

Here we go with the judgements again. You have no idea what is/is not working in this couple's relationship. Your solution is at best simplistic, and at worst counterproductive.

I often wonder why the moralists bother posting here. We are not asking for your opinion on our behaviour.

 

[Esco!]

Two words

Wasn't Me.

Thats 3 words

 

[stang]

A funeral service is being held for a woman who has just passed away.
At the end of the service, the pall bearers are carrying the casket out when they accidentally bump into a wall, jarring the casket.
They hear a faint moan! They open the casket and find that the woman is actually alive!
She lives for ten more years, and then dies.
Once again, a ceremony is held, and at the end of it, the pall bearers are again carrying out the casket.
As they carry the casket towards the door, the husband cries out: "Watch that wall!"

 

[papasmerf]

Tell your buddie not to worry. If he were content he might not have gotten into this problem. We choose our paths and yet never are willing to accept the tolls along they way.
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[VincenzoTurismo]

I would never use a credit card to pay for an SP regardless how reputable she is or not.

The only time plastic and SP's go together is in the form of breast implants.

Ciao,

VT

 

[xix]

Repuation is insignificant

I would never use a credit card to pay for an SP regardless how reputable she is or not.

The only time plastic and SP's go together is in the form of breast implants.

Ciao,

VT

I will agree with the above comment that no matter how many times she may say it or you are told by others that reputable ladies can be trusted is lying. Eight months ago I had this discussions with a few people. WE all agreed that SP's do have a black book. Hence we only see a lady 3 - 5 times no matter how great she is.

 

[Sabryna Taylor]

Ditto - the last thing I want is an angry wife call

From my standpoint I don't keep records - I'm not sure what the law is so I err on the side of caution. I've also heard horror stories about SPs calling out of the blue or emailing - which in some situation turned out um...badly. It's also about a certain amount of understanding and discretion - the bulk of my clients are married so even if they give me permission to call them whenever....I don't because you just never know.

 

[Ryan]

The reason to see an SP even when you are in a relationship is quite simple.

We're men. When men want sex they are willing to do stupid things, things they will regret, things that are beneath them. When you are in a relationship with a woman and she is not your only outlet for sex you are much more likely to see her for what she is as a person and potential long-term mate.

If, taking sex out of the equation, you still want to spend time with a woman, do things for here, sacrifice for her then that is a relationship that is worth something.

Ryan

 

[kimmy]

Is that how it goes. Cool!!

 

[danmand]

I believe there are theories in criminalogy, that postulates that many criminals subconciously want to be caught, therefore leaving subtle clues.

That would be even more plausible in a emotionally charged area like "cheating" on your SO with an SP.

Better make sure you have a handle on your subconcious part of the brain. Your SO has!

 

[Fatume]

The reason to see an SP even when you are in a relationship is quite simple.

We're men. When men want sex they are willing to do stupid things, things they will regret, things that are beneath them. When you are in a relationship with a woman and she is not your only outlet for sex you are much more likely to see her for what she is as a person and potential long-term mate.

If, taking sex out of the equation, you still want to spend time with a woman, do things for here, sacrifice for her then that is a relationship that is worth something.

Ryan

I'm sure this line of reasoning will go over really big with wives everywhere. Didn't Eddie Murphy perform a whole comedy routine around this premise.

 

[oldjones]

Edit…What a lame way to lose half your net worth.…edit
Stay safe,
Ryan

Now that the other jumpers-on have you softened up, allow me to point out that you don't lose half your net worth; she walks with half the matrimonial property. Been that way for decades, time to get used to it and do a pre-nup if you think different. Denying reality's never wise even if we do it all the time.

 

[borderx1]

Never use your home phone. Your wife may have it "tapped" its very easy to do .We did it when our kids were young and getting in trouble all the time. We were always one step ahead of them. Now I never know if my wife might have the recorder running just to see if I'm up to anything. I cann't find it in the basement.

 

[wooly110]

...Denying reality's never wise....

I take it you're not a Scientologist then.

 

[papasmerf]

I take it you're not a Scientologist then.

Since reality is biased by perception and perception is subject to experience. Is there wisdom in reality?????


Now what if you were to book with a girl, get to the hotel, answer the door and the girl is your wife????

Who caught who?

 

[wooly110]

Since reality is biased by perception and perception is subject to experience. Is there wisdom in reality???

I'll let you know after I do a few more mushrooms.

Now what if you were to book with a girl, get to the hotel, answer the door and the girl is your wife????

Who caught who?

A Scientologist would deny this was all happening.


Reminds me of a joke:

A Christian Scientologist was j-walking across the street. Not looking, he didn't notice the city bus coming at him until the last second. It was too late to be able to act, so instead, he practiced his belief, saying "I am not getting run over by this bus. My arm is not coming out of my head, my legs aren't across the road, and they are not sweeping me into this sack.

He gets to Heaven and God says "Well son, what have you got to say?"

The Scientologist says "Man, I'm not even here!"

 

[Jamaica-luvr]

Thats 3 words

Wasn't me


is a contraction of a verb and an adverb, and a noun...

sorry...couldn't help myself...