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Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...
I'd rather have a SO sharing the hobby with me than having
to worry about getting caught. Just hire a gigolo to seduce
your SO to the dark side so you can continue hobbying
on a good conscience.
Not quite the same, but I can honestly say that I tried to persuade my wife into seeing other guys just to try and get her sex drive back. Girls too, as she is/was bisexual. Hopefully, she's not been a lesbian all along... When you're at zero, you don't have much to lose.

Tip? I'd recommend that you watch a lot of porn and make sure you're wife knows... That'll help explain why you're still able to have sex, do moves and not cum fast.
 

G.D. Gentleman

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for those of you who use second burner phone with separate phone sim card, what is the best one to use in term of value? I don't want to pay monthly fee for phone plan just to use it to book sp once or twice a month.
When I have helped friends setup a low cost pre-paid phone for various reasons (burner phone for hobbying, phone for their children, etc) I always found Koodo to be a solid value/service offering. They run on the Bell network so coverage is great in the GTA and elsewhere in Ontario if you travel, across Canada if you take it with you.


Current lowest plan is only $15/month for unlimited messaging and 100 minutes of calling. Calling is needed for first time setting up with an agency (most will want you to call in just once to establish the number) and more importantly - you're standing outside an incall appointment, texting is not working and agency needs to call you/you want to call the agency - been there myself before a few times with different agencies. It's nice to have talk minutes even though you will mostly be just texting.

You can buy the top of vouchers at the Koodo store in the mall (where you go to get the sim) and at some gas stations (quick google search will help). Once you know which gas station near you sells the top up voucher (for any provider you work with) you can buy them with cash - again, no paper trail.

Setup a different gmail email account for when you register the Koodo Sim (to activate it) and use a fake name for the gmail account and the Koodo registration (it will work). Same goes for other carriers I'm guessing.

Hope this helps.
Cheers
 

lessjamie7

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NEVER schedule an outcall in your ACTUAL HOME.

The brand of shower gel and deodorant I use is the generic one found in many incalls (Dove Men+Care).

Used my Terb handle as verification for Indy SP's.

I like to go for long walks Downtown to browse in stores etc. and use this as my cover story. Usually I'm early for incall appointments so I actually have been killing time in stores.
Fragrances are definitely a red flag be careful of what you wash up with after an incall, don't just grab any bottle you could be scrubbing your face with Vagisil or using Nair for shampoo, strong perfumes are a nono and not Ideal for the ladies to wear sure they smell nice but it definitely causes issues, I always have a pack of wet wipes in my vehicle and as well I always have a small bottle of cologne in my travel pouch between showering and those two items I am good to go , also I once got home with my fucking shirt on inside out try not to make that bonehead mistake.

LJ
 
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Fragrances are definitely a red flag be careful of what you wash up with after an incall, don't just grab any bottle you could be scrubbing your face with Vagisil or using Nair for shampoo, strong perfumes are a nono and not Ideal for the ladies to wear sure they smell nice but it definitely causes issues, I always have a pack of wet wipes in my vehicle and as well I always have a small bottle of cologne in my travel pouch between showering and those two items I am good to go , also I once got home with my fucking shirt on inside out try not to make that bonehead mistake.

LJ
How did you get over or away with the inside out shirt?
 

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1. I saw an sp a couple of years ago and the dfk was quite intense, to the extent that just before I left I saw in the bathroom mirror that I was bruised under my lower lip. I immediately went to Shopper's, into the fancy cosmetics department, and had a makeup specialist help me all that was needed to hide the bruise so it would not be noticed by my wife. It took 2 or 3 products to be convincing!

2. I heard a story about a guy who saw an mpa, and had a great session, but noticed that her perfume was so strong that even the after-shower did not erase the scent. As he was going home to his wife immediately he panicked, but then had a brilliant idea. He went to a gas station, filled up his car, and, oopsy-daisy, splashed gasoline all over his hands. When he got home that's all his wife could smell, and he laughingly told her about his silly accident at the gas station. Of course she bought it!
The perfume story happened to me with a stripper and the VIP room. She used heavy perfume which my cologne on sweater could not overpower. Had to borrow a friend's shitty loud cologne to erase it.
 

richaceg

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Hobby moderately and spend more time with wife and kids...
 

lessjamie7

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How did you get over or away with the inside out shirt?
OK so we are talking about a T shirt not a dress shirt.

Well, I just did an OMG I am such an idiot I can't believe I left the house like this.

To be clear I have put my shirt on inside out at home on rare occasions and had my SO point it out to me so not completely unreasonable, lesson for yourself put your shirt on inside out now and then so your SO doest have her radar tripped when you fuck up.

LJ
 
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Butler1000

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Take care of your shit at home. Chores, sex, kids, all of it.

Don't be stupid, getting laid is nice but it should be recreation not goal oriented.

If doing it puts you jeopardy don't. Better to have a pissed provider than a pissed wife.

Hobby phone. In the trunk of the car. With the other emergency stuff in the kit you set up. Including a change of clothes.
 

coolmanfever

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Fragrances are definitely a red flag be careful of what you wash up with after an incall, don't just grab any bottle you could be scrubbing your face with Vagisil or using Nair for shampoo, strong perfumes are a nono and not Ideal for the ladies to wear sure they smell nice but it definitely causes issues, I always have a pack of wet wipes in my vehicle and as well I always have a small bottle of cologne in my travel pouch between showering and those two items I am good to go , also I once got home with my fucking shirt on inside out try not to make that bonehead mistake.

LJ
When I go for incall, I only use their shampoo to wash my crotch and and ass crack. Other body area only water
 
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coolmanfever

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When I have helped friends setup a low cost pre-paid phone for various reasons (burner phone for hobbying, phone for their children, etc) I always found Koodo to be a solid value/service offering. They run on the Bell network so coverage is great in the GTA and elsewhere in Ontario if you travel, across Canada if you take it with you.


Current lowest plan is only $15/month for unlimited messaging and 100 minutes of calling. Calling is needed for first time setting up with an agency (most will want you to call in just once to establish the number) and more importantly - you're standing outside an incall appointment, texting is not working and agency needs to call you/you want to call the agency - been there myself before a few times with different agencies. It's nice to have talk minutes even though you will mostly be just texting.

You can buy the top of vouchers at the Koodo store in the mall (where you go to get the sim) and at some gas stations (quick google search will help). Once you know which gas station near you sells the top up voucher (for any provider you work with) you can buy them with cash - again, no paper trail.

Setup a different gmail email account for when you register the Koodo Sim (to activate it) and use a fake name for the gmail account and the Koodo registration (it will work). Same goes for other carriers I'm guessing.

Hope this helps.
Cheers


Thanks for the koodo recommendation. I actually looked into further. I like the idea that you can buy voucher and use it to pay the monthly fee. But problem with koodo is that if I don't continue paying $15 per month, I will actually lose the number. Some months I just don't want to pay monthly fee because I don't use it. Then I have repurchase and get new sim card again. do you know any way to get around that?
 
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Thanks for the koodo recommendation. I actually looked into further. I like the idea that you can buy voucher and use it to pay the monthly fee. But problem with koodo is that if I don't continue paying $15 per month, I will actually lose the number. Some months I just don't want to pay monthly fee because I don't use it. Then I have repurchase and get new sim card again. do you know any way to get around that?
$15/ mth occasionally when you don’t hobby for the month should really not be a headache given hobby cost
 
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G.D. Gentleman

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Thanks for the koodo recommendation. I actually looked into further. I like the idea that you can buy voucher and use it to pay the monthly fee. But problem with koodo is that if I don't continue paying $15 per month, I will actually lose the number. Some months I just don't want to pay monthly fee because I don't use it. Then I have repurchase and get new sim card again. do you know any way to get around that?
If I recall correctly if you let your account 'lapse' it will suspend but not give up the number you have established for some time...90 days maybe? Something you can look into.

I understand wanting to get the value out of the money you spend each month. I suppose to put it in perspective this $15/month is part of you spending...hundreds? many hundreds? a month possibly on having fun with the ladies...lol. More importantly, simply ask yourself the value of having the same number when you do come off a hiatus and wish to book with an agency again...versus having to establish a new number with them once again - assuming you don't get to keep your number while your account is suspended and then re-activated as I mentioned above.

Food for thought.
 
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G.D. Gentleman

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Two more quick notes about Koodo Pre-Paid:

Found this link to know where to get Vouchers you can pay for with cash to have no paper trail:

If I recall correctly, you can purchase a $100 voucher that is good for 365 days...if correct, you can purchase this and then have 6 months of the selected $15 plan on your account and not have to go in and purchase a voucher every month or so - assuming you want to keep the phone active month after month and this suggestion is purely for convenience. This came from friends of mine with 12 year old kids they wanted to give their previous cell phone to and put them on a no-data (wifi only) locked in/low cost plan they wouldn't have to worry about.
 

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Perhaps you should make it a point to ask your SO to have sex with you, every now and then. When she refuses you (as per usual), at least she will think that you are still interested in having sex with her, and not likely with another woman.

Oh, and always check the skin on your back for finger nail scratch marks before getting undressed to go to bed!

Check out Petro Canada Mobility pre-paid as an option. Mine was set up totally cash-only.
 
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coolmanfever

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If I recall correctly if you let your account 'lapse' it will suspend but not give up the number you have established for some time...90 days maybe? Something you can look into.

I understand wanting to get the value out of the money you spend each month. I suppose to put it in perspective this $15/month is part of you spending...hundreds? many hundreds? a month possibly on having fun with the ladies...lol. More importantly, simply ask yourself the value of having the same number when you do come off a hiatus and wish to book with an agency again...versus having to establish a new number with them once again - assuming you don't get to keep your number while your account is suspended and then re-activated as I mentioned above.

Food for thought.
yeah. Money is not big issue. Bigger issue is that I will lose the number if I do not continue paying and use it. When I want to use, I will have to get a new number and go thur screening process again with agency.
 

G.D. Gentleman

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yeah. Money is not big issue. Bigger issue is that I will lose the number if I do not continue paying and use it. When I want to use, I will have to get a new number and go thur screening process again with agency.
$100 voucher twice a year and the phone is always ready to go even if you turn it off for months at a time. You can check on your account from your computer anytime you want.

The easier option is a voip app like Fongo on your phone but for some the risk of such an app on their main phone is too much and hence a dedicated second burner phone works best for them.
 

coolmanfever

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okay... I am more convince to get a burner phone now. But still need to come up with strategy to use it discreetly and not find out by wife.

My currently strategy is hiding my textnow App and firefox App on my main cell phone. Firefox browser does not save any browsing history. Textnow app require login. These apps don't show up on App home page since I hide them. This allow me to browse for Sp and text to schedule sp on the go anytime I want. But problem with text app is that some agency don't take it. Hence considering getting a burner phone. But it will be hard to use burner phone on the go anytime esp. when I need to text agency to confirm my appointment before 9 am or 10 am. With App phone installed on my personal phone , I can just text and confirm appt in washroom while wife is sleeping in the morning. Just not sure how I can do that with burner phone.


For those of you owns a burner phone to book sp's, how do you keep it discreet away from SO or wife?

When do you use and how do you use burner phone to book sp and keep it discreet away from SO or wif?

how do you browse and keep track easily which sp's you want to see if you have separate burner phone you don't want wife or SO to find out?
 
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