Thanks, in continuation with the questions, I saw threads recommended by everyone and no personal information seems to be one which is stressed by everyone. It makes sense, but what about name? Is it ok to share actual name or do I need an alias?
Noob needs help and tips
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best to get a burner phone. a lot of agencies/indies don't respond to app numbers.
That is up to you. Are you comfortable giving your real name to someone who won't give you theirs?
Does it really matter? The one thing to think about is being consistent if you choose a fake name. Especially if you want references.
I highly recommend you do the sniff test when you go to eat her out the do the drip test to see if any liquids happen to drip out.
Secondly, you might want to rub one or two out before seeing a provider to get the most bang for your buck. If you blow too early, the provider might end up paying you to leave if you're annoying.
Lastly, never forget to mention your good friends with law enforcement. The girls like to know they're safe with you if you mention that.
Secondly, you might want to rub one or two out before seeing a provider to get the most bang for your buck. If you blow too early, the provider might end up paying you to leave if you're annoying.
Lastly, never forget to mention your good friends with law enforcement. The girls like to know they're safe with you if you mention that.
So as it turns out this is not as simple as I thought. I shortlisted sft and wel and dropped them an email. I did not want to send them text from my number because I didn't want to share my number. I haven't recieved any response yet, it's been more than 24hrs. Do agencies usually take appointment on mail?
No. You have to text or call.
EDIT: Unlock your phone; go get a Prepaid SIM. Swap in the Prepaid SIM when you want to go hobby. Use a fake name if you want.
As far as I know, only Hush will screen you by obtaining your TERB Handle.
Agencies will not discuss services over text. Your communication should be limited to: "My name is "X". I want to see "Y" at "Z" time. Is she available?" Be straight and to the point.
Do not show up to the Incall more than 10 minutes early; and don't text for the room more than 5 minutes early.
Give the lady the donation immediately; taking a shower is mandatory.
Certain services which include COF, CIM(SW), and Greek, are considered "Premium" and ladies will charge extra for these. So, if you know you want these services, bring a little extra money with you.
I'll agree most agencies very slow on the email correspondence. Most I've reached out to via text (Hush, Minx, Sassy, SFT, TDL) been pretty quick on the reply. Take the advice about the burner or SIM or app. You'll have to communicate on the final connection w the lady.
Thanks, do you guys have any tips on what can be done to make a connection in the first 10 mins? Points to talk, is a kiss or a hug ok? Also after shower is there an etiquette to be maintained or is it ok if I come out in all my glory?
Here is the first thing to do.
Breath
Ok now realize this is a sure thing. You are going to get laid. Have good hygiene. Feel free to walk out naked. Look at her with lust. Be kind. Take the lead if you like. Don't force things but feel free to initiate.
You are paying a good sum of money to be taken care of. Just be yourself. Honesty is best. You seem like a decent sort. Just be that.
Now go fuck.
From your posts it seems you are inexperienced and rather young. How old are you?
If you are young and inexpienced my suggestion is improving your skills in the real world with real dating, prior to seeing SP's.
Not really have a decent real world experience. But when you are paying for it there are too many things to be fit in in an hour. I do feel I am overthinking it.
First, pace yourself. There are a lot of ladies and the size of your wallet is the limit. Walk through the door, say hello, shake the hand, introduce yourself and say- this is my first time hiring an escort and this is what I'd like to do. Smile, be decently dressed and don't forget to pay her. There's no reason to overthinking this.
You are overthinking. Relax. Treat her like a person, a woman, which she is. This is important. Don’t treat her like a live sex doll, a servant or a piece of meat. This will go a long way to ensuring a good experience. Other advice (most of it covered already).
1. Pay. As soon as you arrive. Then she can relax, and avoid the awkwardness of her having to ask, or her being nervous that you will try to scam her.
2. Be clean. Don’t need to come in suit and tie, but neatly dressed. Shower when offered, that way she knows you are freshly showered. Pay attention to the undercarriage. Having been here a while it’s shocking to hear how many dudes haven’t a clue how to wash their balls/ ass. As for body hair, I wouldn’t start manscaping just to see escorts if you aren’t already. They see guys groomed and not and everything in between. I’ve seen escorts with my pubes in their natural state as well as shaved balls, trimmed, and not really been able to perceive a difference. Most important is to be clean and fresh smelling rather than bare.
3. See someone well reviewed here. Be honest that it is your first time, and let them know what you’d like to get up to. I’d avoid an extensive shopping list. Focus on having a relaxing, low stress intimate time with an attractive girl. Make that your goal rather than checking off an alphabet soup of menu items that you’ve fantasizes about from watching porn.
4. Respect limits. Don’t push them or try to get around them.
5. Contact should usually be by text or call. I’ve not had a huge problem booking agencies with text apps, as long as it’s followed by a voice call to confirm booking, but every agency is different, and often changing. Agencies are rarely very good at booking by email.
6. Ok to come out of shower buck naked, I’ll often come out in towel, and like when she unwraps me. Regular small talk / chitchat, and feel free to lean in for a kiss, hug, or gentle caress of the leg/ arm to indicate you are ready to proceed.
If you choose well, act like a gentleman and manage your expectations, you have a very good chance of having a fun time. Enjoy.
bring the donation, your cellphone. Anything else leave in the car. It will ease your mind.
Upon arrival, hand the lady the donation. do not count money in front of her... have it already in an envelope. You can ask her to count it to make sure the full donation is there if you feel to.
chit chat for a bit...feel the vibe...then when convo gets dry, tell her you're going to hop in the shower.... she might already bring it up to you at this point...
don't tell her you just had one... she doesn't give a shit... she wants you to have another one lol
when you come out of the shower, the lady will take over. good luck and have fun. don't jack off before.
To everyone who posted on this thread, thank you for your help and tips. I had a nice time with a great lady at SFT and will post a review soon.
Ps : Am I a John now?
Ps : Am I a John now?
