Hey guys, a noob here and have never had this experience before. I have a prospect lined up next week and I have too many questions on do's and don'ts. What do I carry with me, how do I exchange donations, who carries the helmet. Is there any thread/running list on the forum which helps newbies with a smooth onboarding?
Noob needs help and tips
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depending on where you are from. read reviews from the area you are from or use this link & search first timer, lots of reviews to look at.
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?217-•-Toronto-Independent-Escort-Reviews
have fun
Well first before you see your first date make sure you set a budget in advance that works for you and be strict about it this hobby can be quite expensive.
Picking a girl do you want Incall or outcall? Do you prefer agency or independent ? What’s your budget ? Are you comfortable with screening ? Once you have an answer to all those then go find girls that meet those criteria and peak your interest . Beauty of Toronto is that there are so many options you don’t have to compromise. Don’t use leolist in my opinion. Stick with reputable agencies or Indys and Check reviews when they exist.
Booking wise depends on agency or Indy but it’s pretty straight forward. For some Indys you need references or other things like screening or deposits all of which are controversial around here but again there are options lol
For the actual day it may be awkward or nerve racking since it’s your first time but remember it’s totally normal for the girl so only way to make the experience awkward is if you are lol. Leave the donation in an envelope or without somewhere very visible. The girl should notice it you don’t need to hand it to them. You should be well showered and groomed. If your in an Incall you should shower again even if you just did. Not sure how long your appointment is. But just act normal lol. I find it’s best to make a connection start talking about something anything and find a connection somewhere. The time investment to do that will go along way I find. It may be awkward at first to initiate physical intimacy for some people but remember your paying for it and the girl is expecting it lol so if there is no natural transition to it you can literally just say shall we or something lol. If you want something specific service wise tell the girl in advance they can’t read your mind and again your paying for the time and should do what you want.
The appointment should be done at the end. So leave enough time to dress etc.
Good luck and let us know if you have questions. Also keep in mind some girls better than others for beginners so pick a reputable girl or agency.
Picking a girl do you want Incall or outcall? Do you prefer agency or independent ? What’s your budget ? Are you comfortable with screening ? Once you have an answer to all those then go find girls that meet those criteria and peak your interest . Beauty of Toronto is that there are so many options you don’t have to compromise. Don’t use leolist in my opinion. Stick with reputable agencies or Indys and Check reviews when they exist.
Booking wise depends on agency or Indy but it’s pretty straight forward. For some Indys you need references or other things like screening or deposits all of which are controversial around here but again there are options lol
For the actual day it may be awkward or nerve racking since it’s your first time but remember it’s totally normal for the girl so only way to make the experience awkward is if you are lol. Leave the donation in an envelope or without somewhere very visible. The girl should notice it you don’t need to hand it to them. You should be well showered and groomed. If your in an Incall you should shower again even if you just did. Not sure how long your appointment is. But just act normal lol. I find it’s best to make a connection start talking about something anything and find a connection somewhere. The time investment to do that will go along way I find. It may be awkward at first to initiate physical intimacy for some people but remember your paying for it and the girl is expecting it lol so if there is no natural transition to it you can literally just say shall we or something lol. If you want something specific service wise tell the girl in advance they can’t read your mind and again your paying for the time and should do what you want.
The appointment should be done at the end. So leave enough time to dress etc.
Good luck and let us know if you have questions. Also keep in mind some girls better than others for beginners so pick a reputable girl or agency.
Thank you this is very helpful. Is there any need to carry extra pair of clothes? And also are girls specific about hair at specific places or is a basic hygiene enough? Since it's my first time I am planning to go through an agency. Lastly a very naive question, who gets the safety things?
No you just need one pair of clothes, they should have towels in the shower. Well use common sense with body hair its generally best practice to be groomed. Safety wise its best not to shave the same day you see a girl since that exposes you to some STI risks. I dont get what you mean by safety things? Everyone should get safety things lol The girls have a limit on what services they are willing to provide and you should also have one. There are somethings of course no one should be offering or doing.
Why would you need an extra pair of clothes? Honestly not sure where your thinking is leading.
Removing hair where you want her mouth is advised.
They will always have condoms, there is very little trust in clients bringing their own due to potential tampering, and if they don't maybe you chose poorly.
Girl has the condom and lube. There are no "rules" about grooming, but present your best self. Shower before leaving the house and take a quick shower or splash bath again at her place. It counts as part of the hour, but most girls require it. REmember she's going to up close and personal with parts of you that can get pretty smelly during the day. So wash with lots of soap and that includes your ass.
Have the exact amount of $. Give it up front to put her at her ease.
The standard escort services are intercourse - ALWAYS WITH A CONDOM. Don't get offended or pissed if she uses lube. Kissing with tongue is up to her. Go with the flow. Normally you can go down on her and she will suck your winkie with no condom unless there is some sort of hygiene problem or you are really not getting off on a good footing with her.
Be nice to her. She's a girl like anyone you meet in any other situation. Don't immediately jump her. It's normal for her to want 5 minutes of conversation to feel at home with you.
Remembers you don't have to take the entire City Tour the first time. There's no reason that this will be your only time doing this. So don't "check off" the entire list of stuff you always wanted to do, including all 500 sex positions in the Kama Sutra. Go with what feels nice and go with the flow.
Don't feel guilty about the money in the middle of fucking her or even afterwards. And have fun! That's the most important thing.
Don't be pissed off if you're nervous and can't stay hard. Happens to the best of us, especially doing something for the first time.
Thanks guys, anxious and excited at the same time! I will keep these things in mind. What is the consensus on going down on her. Is it safe especially when the girl is from an agency?
There is no consensus. Everyone has their own comfort level when it comes to that. Of course there are risks associated with that. Personally I engage in it on a case by case basis but thats just me as I feel the risk of getting something is very low and the risk of getting a blood born pathogen is almost non existent. Make sure you have no open sores in your mouth. Also not all girls will offer it so make sure you ask, also dont assume you can use your fingers. Doing the latter significantly increases the risk profile for the girls so some are okay with oral but not fingers. Also they might just not like it.
What do I carry with me?
Other than the donation nothing else is expected.
How do I exchange donations?
Cash, in an unsealed envelope. I always place it on the night stand and politely mention it before jumpin in the shower.
Who carries the helmet?
She does, I always have one on me regardless of an SP appointment or not.
Is there a thread/running list on the forum which helps newbies with a smooth onboarding?
Here is a thread I put together to help new hobbyists on guidelines to follow to have great experiences. It hasn't let me down in the time I've been hobbying. Haven't been scammed or B & S'd on and for the very high majority I have great experiences.
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?672710-Guidelines-To-Follow-To-Have-Positive-Experiences
I suggest booking SP's on what you are physically attracted to, never settle for less. I also highly suggest staying away from classifieds like Leolist, as you have to search hundreds if not thousands just to find a handfull of good providers. Find the SP you are looking for here whether from an agency or an indy, and check the reviews before booking.
Always remember that there is no direct correlation between a higher rate an SP charges and the quality of service or the quality in looks.
If you’re new, I think it’s best to see someone established & reputable who will lead the encounter professionally & take care of all these concerns. You’ll end the session with some tips, possibly an excellent reference & recommendations on who else you might enjoy. Best of luck on your first walk in the secret garden 
For the very high majority I see agency girls (very few indies over the last 10 years) and have never had an issue. Private message me what you are looking for physically, your preferrence and I might be able to give you a couple of recommendations.
You should definitely learn the difference betwen GFE and Safe GFE.
GFE includes FS as well as BBBJ, DATY, DIGITS, LFK, DFK although those could by YMMV (your mileage may vary) if you're not hygienic
Safe GFE includes FS, CBJ, Fondling but no DIGITS and no exchange of body fluids of any kind.
There will be some SP's who will try to pretend they are giving you GFE services meanwhile they are giving you Safe GFE, as long as you learn the difference and do research those SP's can be avoided.
In my experience the very high majority of SP's are fine with DIGITS and DFK as long as the client is hygienic. There are very few who don't like it and they should state that they offer safe GFE.
The only SP in recent memorey I've seen that comes to mind off the top of my head, that didn't allow DIGITS was an agency SP who is now an indy, I wouldn't have repeated with her at the agency she was at and made it very known, now she's an indy and at 3Xthe rate, which hobbyists like you are raving about her.
BTW I see you are back to your old posts again trying to coyly promote screening, throwing shade at those who oppose your views, and as well promoting and raving about lack of services SP's provide as the norm.
Thank you this helps. Do you guys know any agencies having in call around sq 1 Mississauga? I am currently looking at sft,plxto and hpl but none of them have the kind of girls I am looking for - thick latina or ebony.
Sft has one there at Sq1and Erika would meet your criteria, although... how thick is thick?....she's curvy and wonderful fun. Very pretty too imho.
She isn't listed in the schedule now. Not sure why. And to give you a parallel, someone like luscious lopez or jynx maze
You can try using TextNow, but you'll probably find more than likely they won't book using a text app. Maybe if you give an agency a call its a different story.
