Giving them your attention with a look is all the compliment they require. I must be awful for a non-retarded pretty women to not get attention when she dresses provocatively. Any women over the age of 18 knows exactly what it means to dress provocatively. And yes, there is a difference between dressing vulgar and dressing provocatively.
No Bra, tight shirt. Ladies do you expect men to stare
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Do they get off on being looked at ? Absolutely ! But thats as far as it goes. Probably best not to approach.
Unless, you’re at at the grocery store and you’re holding a cucumber, hahaha!
Unless, you’re at at the grocery store and you’re holding a cucumber, hahaha!
What's the harm in approaching if you look presentable, have fresh breath, and don't have any drool dripping from your mouth??
Well you have to be 6', white, abs, and have a car that is more than 69k.
One of my sisters was a natural large C cup as a teenager, and she never wore a bra. On Thursday afternoons, she'd vacuum the downstairs rugs wearing just panties and a sheer nightgown. My friends from school often invited themselves over after school on Thursdays.
Show a little class. Have a quick glance, or two, save the image in your memory banks and don’t stare or gawk.Hey,
First time poster. Curiosity got the better of me
I been seeing alot of women downtown walking around with no bra and tight shirts where you can visibly see the nipple.
Question for the women are you creeped out by this or do you welcome the glances and stares to your chest.
I welcome it and like seeing the differing nipples (poking out, pierced), but I also don't want to creep so what is proper etiquette for this?
Yours truly
Romeo
Tho I know it can be very difficult. A few years ago a young perky woman at a store I was shopping at wore a very thin tight white tube top, and dark nipples were proudly on full display. It was quite difficult to play it cool. Lol.
(The other thing to keep in mind that I have learned over the years is that often, even most of the time, women dress to impress other women, rather than to impress, lure, or entice men).
In Ontario, it is legal for women to be topless out in public, would you steal a quick glance or ogle for a while.
I would ogle!
Thank you Gwen Jacobs. Shortly after she won her court case, 1996, An attractive young women walked down Yonge st, sans top, I ogled , come on ladies exercise your rights, especially during this heat wave!!!!!
I would ogle!
Thank you Gwen Jacobs. Shortly after she won her court case, 1996, An attractive young women walked down Yonge st, sans top, I ogled , come on ladies exercise your rights, especially during this heat wave!!!!!
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Women in Canada are free to wear whatever attire they want and men are free to stare and or imagine .
In this game there is no ”should “ or “ should not”., as there is no law being broken but it is good to be prudent as there can be consequences for one’s actions.
Couldn't agree more.
Who is anyone to tell anyone else where they can or can't look?
If so, then why limit it to sexual appearance, why not include all sorts of other 'reasons' why you can't stare at a person?
No one is saying you CAN’T stare. They are saying that you shouldn’t. But just as you are free to stare if you want, others are free to think you are a creep for doing it.
Note there is a difference between staring and a glance.
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Lets be clear, stare to me means "continue to look:".
So when someone says that I 'shouldn't' stare at them, they are saying that it is somehow wrong that I do so.
Now, if a person , say, has a physical deformity, or even is exceptionally tall, short, etc, staring can make that person feel uncomfortable. They can't help why they look the way they do.
But when a person UNLIKE what i just mentioned, voluntarily acts significantly outside of those norms, (and clothing choice is an act), it is somewhat unusual. Lets say someone walked around with a hammer glued to his head. I perhaps might stare awhile, and make no apologies for doing so. it is interesting, unusual. We focus on the unusual when we come across it. It is no different than sitting on a bench, and observing a car accident.
Now, couple that unusualness with a case where the deviation from the norm ALSO clearly stimulates the sexual drive, and in fact to some extent SUPPLIES a sexual experience - after all, men PAY to see women in various states of undress at strip clubs! - then you are gong to get quite a few men who want to enjoy that stimulation more.
I believe most people know this.
So when someone says that I 'shouldn't' stare at them, they are saying that it is somehow wrong that I do so.
Now, if a person , say, has a physical deformity, or even is exceptionally tall, short, etc, staring can make that person feel uncomfortable. They can't help why they look the way they do.
But when a person UNLIKE what i just mentioned, voluntarily acts significantly outside of those norms, (and clothing choice is an act), it is somewhat unusual. Lets say someone walked around with a hammer glued to his head. I perhaps might stare awhile, and make no apologies for doing so. it is interesting, unusual. We focus on the unusual when we come across it. It is no different than sitting on a bench, and observing a car accident.
Now, couple that unusualness with a case where the deviation from the norm ALSO clearly stimulates the sexual drive, and in fact to some extent SUPPLIES a sexual experience - after all, men PAY to see women in various states of undress at strip clubs! - then you are gong to get quite a few men who want to enjoy that stimulation more.
I believe most people know this.
I don’t like wearing bras so 9/10 times when I go out in the summer my nipples show 
it doesn’t help that I have them pierced.
it doesn’t help that I have them pierced.
Again, stare all you want. Your choice. Others have the choice to call you a creep for it.
Staring to me is looking so hard and long that you make the person being looked at feel uncomfortable. If you can look without doing that, that is better but if you look long enough that they catch and look back and look away and then look back again or try to move out of your view, you are being a jerk.
