Zero critism taken. I always encourage questions, conversation and different points of view.I don’t want this to sound as though I am criticizing your post, or another providers business. But I do find the stamina argument a little interesting.
It’s just my personal belief that it is entirely the providers responsibility to maintain the flow of their booking, and if a clients stamina during the timeframe they have booked is becoming an issue, it should be the providers responsibility to control the flow of the session and either remind the client that they have only booked X amount of time.
Or adopt a policy, as many other providers have, that lets the client know X amount of time is reserved for showering, socializing, fucking, and then tidying up after the fun.
Typically, if a client is only booking a 30 minute session, those sessions are usually going to be 90% fucking… that timeframe does not realistically allow for anything else, especially if you want to socialize with the client. And those 30 minute bookings are usually only going to attract the type of client that wants to spend a generous amount of time having sex.
Just my personal opinion but i feel that a provider should be prepared for that type of session if they’re offering 30 min bookings. 30 mins straight of sex isn’t unreasonable imo. But with the time limitation of only booking 30 minutes, I get why it can be an issue.
I think it’s another discussion altogether if the issue isn’t necessarily with stamina, but rather with how hard they are going for those 30 minutes. But in those cases, I think it is still up to providers to enforce some boundaries and tell the client to slow it down a little and perhaps guide them into some more sensual sex and foreplay.
I do maintain the flow of my appointments and I will definitely give a "5 min warning" if the session is creeping up to the time available. I also offer alternative enthusiastic (and often creative lol) options for getting the deed done if reaching completion with sex doesn't seem like it's going to happen.
I commented vis-à-vis the person who asked for SP's experiences to get more perspective on the topic at hand and mine is that black men more than others tend to need more time at a more vigorous pace to finish.
Just throwing in my 2 cents as someone who doesn't restrict black men to "get to the bottom" (as said in another comment) of the complexity behind other SP's decisions to do so.