I can’t explain that one.Ok. I understand the black community thing. What white girls excuses.
You would have to ask them.
I can’t explain that one.Ok. I understand the black community thing. What white girls excuses.
Let's take these from the many SP's perspective and experiences.I can’t explain that one.
You would have to ask them.
In HK, they don't beat around the bush, there are some girls who just put No Foreigners, Huge Cock on their doorAlthough an experience metric you can use, it's the same type of metrics that some of these girls use to reduce their bad experiences.
If you look further, you will see black SP saying no Blacks. Why?
There are Viet girls (in BC) that doesn't want to see other Viet men. Not because they hate Viet, they know the community is well networked and don't want to bump into people who would recognize them.
There are many reasons they blanket ban, but if you really want to see them, talk to them as an individual and ask them. We can break through these defenses. It's what it is.
Sadly I’m pretty sure a list of any colour skin man could be made for this. I don’t think only white men have murdered SW.The threat is not black or brown men guys.
Same hereFrom what I understand an SP I used to see said she didn’t see Indian or brown guys because 9 times out of 10 they smell even after shower or are don’t respect boundaries and try to skimp on rates. Her words not mine. So it’s not just a safety standpoint but a personal tolerance and deciding whether money is worth the hassle.
For all the 6 black males that live in Kingston, Ontario, The SPs in that region have put you on notice.
Speaking only for myself as you requested...Let's take these from the many SP's perspective and experiences.
Let's be an open discussion and find the truth, instead of pretending to see the world from Rosie colour glasses
Why do SP posts "no Blacks" and sometimes "No Middle Eastern" and now "No Indian".
Try to see it from their sex life experiences.
Sometimes it's just the size.
Sometimes it's the general nature and their correlation with their associated experience
Sometimes its a personal preference. But often, the personal preference is guided by prior experiences.
Let's take a deep dive once and for all. Let the ladies speak. And please only speak for yourselves, not for others.
Kitty you you articulated this perfectlySpeaking only for myself as you requested...
I see people of all races, all genders (or non-binary), all ages 19+, all abilities, all weights and builds, and so on...
If I am going to make this profession about MY personal sexual preferences including race or skin colour, I may as well request a photo of each potential client as well to see if I am attracted to them too.
This isn't Tinder.
Is sexwork WORK or is it inherently different from other types of work where discrimination is not acceptable?
It's a very complicated question and there is no one right answer as there are too many variables.
We don't know other sexworkers' reasons for race limits; sometimes trauma or small communities ARE valid reasons.
Then there are reasons based off of racial stereotypes and this is when I consider race restrictions to be wrong and discriminatory.
I don't think I said that actually.Sadly I’m pretty sure a list of any colour skin man could be made for this. I don’t think only white men have murdered SW.
I don’t want this to sound as though I am criticizing your post, or another providers business. But I do find the stamina argument a little interesting.And b) stamina, someone posted about banging away for 40 mins on a hh booking and while stamina varies greatly between men (not race per se) I personally from my experience would say it happens more with black men than others. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for a good session but I like a connection and spending the ENTIRE 30 mins straight f@ucking can be exhausting. I also believe that not everyone is beholden their particular races stereotypes so I don't exclude anyone based on past experiences. I personally can't justify BL possible wonderful clients because of what has happened with others of the same race.
Zero critism taken. I always encourage questions, conversation and different points of view.I don’t want this to sound as though I am criticizing your post, or another providers business. But I do find the stamina argument a little interesting.
It’s just my personal belief that it is entirely the providers responsibility to maintain the flow of their booking, and if a clients stamina during the timeframe they have booked is becoming an issue, it should be the providers responsibility to control the flow of the session and either remind the client that they have only booked X amount of time.
Or adopt a policy, as many other providers have, that lets the client know X amount of time is reserved for showering, socializing, fucking, and then tidying up after the fun.
Typically, if a client is only booking a 30 minute session, those sessions are usually going to be 90% fucking… that timeframe does not realistically allow for anything else, especially if you want to socialize with the client. And those 30 minute bookings are usually only going to attract the type of client that wants to spend a generous amount of time having sex.
Just my personal opinion but i feel that a provider should be prepared for that type of session if they’re offering 30 min bookings. 30 mins straight of sex isn’t unreasonable imo. But with the time limitation of only booking 30 minutes, I get why it can be an issue.
I think it’s another discussion altogether if the issue isn’t necessarily with stamina, but rather with how hard they are going for those 30 minutes. But in those cases, I think it is still up to providers to enforce some boundaries and tell the client to slow it down a little and perhaps guide them into some more sensual sex and foreplay.
Well first off you mispronounced thank you lol.I think the best way to determine the reasons why is to straight up ask those providers that put that in their ad. There are enough ads like that that one can expect some to answer. The responses here are at most hearsay and the actual SPs that are chiming in are not ones to include such in their ads.
Unfortunately, those two cultures frequently engage in negotiations. They rarely succeed after the initial exchange. However, I have generous clients who are Indian and Black.Every time I hear an escort complain about a client it’s either a black or an indian.