Need some advice

[Rose]

second date

Take sometime to get to know her,she may of mentioned the BF because she is having second thoughts about him or she is using him as a kind of shield or protection-in case you try to get too close.
Patience is a virtue Ive heard so be patient---I realize this is terb,but if you really want to get to know someone postpone trying sex for a bit.
If this is only your second date, then if all goes well you may have a third

 

[incognito]

Or i could just be the filler between BF.

 

[incognito]

Well that was about the fastest date i've ever been in. I guess its safe to say that i'm in the friend zone. I suppose i lost my chances or that i never really had a chance to begin with. At least she had a free dinner.

 

[AnimalMagnetism]

Well that was about the fastest date i've ever been in. I guess its safe to say that i'm in the friend zone. I suppose i lost my chances or that i never really had a chance to begin with. At least she had a free dinner.

Look at the bright side, you've now had a second date. the other good news is friends can quickly become friends with benefits.

 

[rick dickulous]

My advice is to seduce her using the same techniques that women use to seduce other women. For example, your girl looks away, and you stare at her tits while she's not looking. She looks back, catches you, or just knows what you did, and you turn bashful, and your power is diminished. That's a dumb guy way to look at tits.

Here's how a woman would do it to another woman: she's talking to you and you position yourself straight on towards her, at 180 degrees, making full eye contact. As she speaks you respond to what she says with lots of little facial expressions. Then you look her straight in the eye, look down at her tits, linger there for a moment, then look her straight back in the eye and smile. An obvious signal that you think she has beautiful tits. She turns bashful and your power is increased.

Also, if she's talking to you and she closes her eyes and keeps on speaking while facing you, that is a signal that you should check out her tits, her ass, everything. When she opens her eyes again she will know by looking at you if you did it or not, so if you're interested in her then make sure that you do.

Now onto the main event. Just as men blow it when looking at a girl's tits, they also blow it when "making the move". If you presume either way: that you will either succeed or fail, then you are risking power that could be lost. The better strategy is to risk nothing, so nothing is all that you can lose.

Tell her that you think about her when she's not there, you think about how beautiful she is on the outside and on the inside. You think about holding her, and feeling her warmth. You say all this with lots of eye contact. Then you ask her: Do you know what I'm talking about? Do you want me to stop? Or do you want me to go on?

Now she can say either yes or no, but the only question she's answering is wether or not you should keep on talking. So your ego is not on the line, and is in no danger of being chopped back. If she says yes or no, your power is still strong. I learned this technique from a bi-girl, they are much better at this stuff than men.

 

[sarak]

Well as a girl, I don't like being second to anyone else. Last thing you need is to find out she is doing it to get her boyfriend jealous and use you. We do that becuase with all the things that men have to distract themselves with we have to sometimes play games to keep our guy close. I suggest you get her to try and be honest with you. If she really wants to be with you and not with the other guy then have her cut it off totally or that is not fair to you and any chance of building something special.