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incognito

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Not sure but it's awfully hot down here.
I don't know who else to ask so here goes.

Last weekend, i had the pleasure of going on (for lack of a better word) a date. I thought it went well enough, had dinner, then back to my place and smoked a joint and watched a movie and drove her home. Thats it. I thought to mytself that i might have blown my chance. Then i talked to her today and she agreed to go out again this weekend. Things are starting to look good.
Here's my problem. I've never been on a second date before, when do you make THE move for a kiss or something?
And here's the bigger problem, she has mentioned to me that she has a BF (ouch). Should i bring it up for discusion or let her tell me her story?
 
Biyfriend?

Sounds like she is having second thoughts about him. If he comes up in conversation act interedted but do not trash or defend him. Remember the question: Why do you think he does that?

As for a second date you play it by ear and be a gentleman. Yet an accidental touch or pat is not bad. Stay atuned to he response.
 
incognito said:
And here's the bigger problem, she has mentioned to me that she has a BF (ouch). Should i bring it up for discusion or let her tell me her story?
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if she expects you to be a good hangout friend or w/e while she keeps the bf, run for the hills my friend, f that its not worth it, if its friends with benefits though, thats a different story

just my 2 cents
 
Oil Please said:
You have never ever had a 2nd date before? Well we need to make sure we get what we want out of it. What we want is some fun. I would find out if she is with you to be a friend or is she looking for a Sideslam. Act like you have had "lots" of 2nd dates. Make sure she smokes a joint and then say, hey I love nothing more than eating pussy when im stoned. It WILL WORK!Trust me!
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Good one Oil...if it works great, you've got nothing to lose. If she freaks out, then let her go back to her BF.
 
Must have missed this thread. My apologies. My advice would be that if she has a boyfriend, and is already going out of her way to spend time with you then that obviously means she is interested. It all boils down to if you have the balls or not. In terms of the right time, there is never a right time or a wrong time. It all depends on whether you have the balls to make the move or not. If the chemsitry is there, the move can be made at any time. Considering that you mentioned you had smoked a joint with her, I suggest you make the move when your high. LOL I mean offer her a massage, or something like that to get the ball rolling. If all fails, wait till she leaves and call a SP...LOL Good luck buddy...:D
 
Resort to "Operation Whimpy Style"

Dear Terb,
She is definitely interested in you. Play the good hearted whimp,it never fails.
here's what u do!
- taker her to dinner. don't mention nothing about her boyfriend. make sure you listen to her in conversation. look into her eyes when she speaks. give her a least 2-3 compliments. ie. u look very cute, wow your eyes have an amazing blend, i never noticed how beautiful your eyelashes are. These compliments are telling her that u like her, but your not a pervert.
- after dinner, suggest a place for drinks and dance, not a loud place, and not a place where there are alot of vultures.In my younger days , the marriot on the airport (2 cans) was quiet. If u can after a couple of drinks, eye contact and really listen. bring up the bf. like, "so how's it going with the bf". let her vent and listen.
- get her on the dance floor for a slow dance. stay cool. about a min into dance put your hand on her back a gennnntly rub, and move alittle closer. just go with it, a do no pursue anything.
- now excuse yourself. in the can mouthwash, check for boogers etcc..
- its time to go.
- while walking to the care, tell her u had a really, really good time, she a good person- enlighten her.if shes all smiles, grab her hand a walk.
- Here come the whimpy, trust me it will work.
-escort her to the passenger door of the car, open the door for her, then say to her." Hold on a second!". lets call her linda.
- Say the following: Linda, i know u have a bf and i don't want to hurt or play mind games with u, but i really had a good time with u tonight and i like being and spending time with u. Reach out for a hand, grab it, and lean in for a kiss on the lips. while leaning in, if she looks puzzled, go for the cheek. if not go for it.after the kiss, my guess is yull be having a makeout session in the car.from here on ur on your own.
- if it doesn't develop, apoligize to her on the way home.
I know that this sounds goofy. But woman like whimps.
i hope this works out for u, let me know what happens.
 
Yes, play it by ear but be just a bit bolder with her. I wouldn't expect anything serious or long lasting since she has already indicated that she sees other guys.
Have fun and good luck!
 
I agree with Svend. Be cautous if you want a relationship with her as she may do the same thing to you as her BF.
 
Strongbeau said:
As the others have said - Be a gentleman, but make your move.
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Have to agree with Stongbeau and if your move works remember be a gentleman Let her know when your about to Cum she may not like (Cim) and dont just stick it in her Ass ask first she may not be into (Greek) and dont mention if this is how her boyfriend does it because you know he won't ask her about the way you do it.....LOL
 
greenii said:
Have to agree with Stongbeau and if your move works remember be a gentleman Let her know when your about to Cum she may not like (Cim) and dont just stick it in her Ass ask first she may not be into (Greek) and dont mention if this is how her boyfriend does it because you know he won't ask her about the way you do it.....LOL
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Lube her up real good if your going to put it in her ass!
 
Oil Please said:
Lube her up real good if your going to put it in her ass!
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... unless he likes it dry!


I think he should go on the second date and see where it goes. If they end up in a romantic relationship he should remember that she screwed around on her last bf and will probably do it to him as well. she is trash. a zebra can't change its stripes. once a cheater, always a cheater
 
Papi Chulo said:
... unless he likes it dry!


I think he should go on the second date and see where it goes. If they end up in a romantic relationship he should remember that she screwed around on her last bf and will probably do it to him as well. she is trash. a zebra can't change its stripes. once a cheater, always a cheater
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exactly- so...................................can we have her number?
 
GlavaMan said:
I agree with Svend. Be cautous if you want a relationship with her as she may do the same thing to you as her BF.
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GlavaMan said:
I think he should go on the second date and see where it goes. If they end up in a romantic relationship he should remember that she screwed around on her last bf and will probably do it to him as well. she is trash. a zebra can't change its stripes. once a cheater, always a cheater
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I was thinking the exact same thing.:D I could still get fucked in the end, and that may not be a good thing. I'll play it by ear and see what happens. Thanks to all of the help people.
 
GlavaMan said:
I agree with Svend. Be cautous if you want a relationship with her as she may do the same thing to you as her BF.
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Papi Chulo said:
I think he should go on the second date and see where it goes. If they end up in a romantic relationship he should remember that she screwed around on her last bf and will probably do it to him as well. she is trash. a zebra can't change its stripes. once a cheater, always a cheater
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I was thinking the exact same thing.:D I could still get fucked in the end, and that may not be a good thing. I'll play it by ear and see what happens. Thanks to all of the help people.
 
Met a bunch of girls with bf's which seemed to be a code for don't call me the next day. Took me a couple missed opportunities to figure that out and had good results.

Made the mistake? of dating one of them. Met her through a friend, got loaded, had some fun. Next day, told me she had a bf, got drunk had some fun. Then I became the BF, got drunk, had some fun for a few months (and she was fun). Then she cheated on me and we broke up. I still got together with her for a year or two, got drunk and had some fun. (she was fun)

Unless you think she's the love of your life, go for it.

btw. long weekend date's a good sign. Her bf might be out of town with the boys.
 
know a girl like this

I actually am friends with a chick who has a long distance bf and goes on dates with random dudes all the time. These guys buy her dinner, drinks, etc thinking they have a shot but all she wants is some company. I almost feel bad for these dudes when she tells me the stories. But of course I don't know if she does hook up with one of these random dudes every now and then to get her fix, we're not that close for her to tell me. Just make a move and try to take it to the next level or stop wasting your time.
 
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