Need help: Knocked a girl up, need to know my rights
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digdoo said:
Even if she basically STEALS your sperm.... courts will fuck you. If the woman does this & refuses to reconsider the only things you can do in that case is pay up or physically fix the problem yourself before it gets to court.
Sucks.... but other than meekly giving in to the courts there are few options open for a man to defend himself with.
All you need to understand in ANY situation is that under the law in Canada MEN ARE ALWAYS AT FAULT & ALWAYS PAY..... NO MATTER WHAT.
I'll bet that if someone were to Kidnap you, Beat you, Extract your sperm by Force & implant it into a woman our Courts would STILL force you to pay with the justification that it is in "the best interests of the child"......
So to avoid becoming a victim or a monster to protect your assets after the fact there is a simple way to deal with that...
I don't let the condom out of my sight & I dispose of it myself in a way I'm 1000% sure that no swimmers are recoverable. That way I have absolutely ZERO worries. If the lady asks politely explain your concerns & that you making sure 100% for peace of mind is nothing personal...
If you''re firm, polite & respectful & don't give someone the slightest opportunity to screw you over & you'll find yourself way more at ease with everyone. You'll find that taking the necessary precautions to protect yourself will bring a peace of mind that will make any encounter that much better for everyone.
I don't think sperm can live very long once they are exposed to the air. You seem kind of extreme to me.
Gentlemen,
You are responsible for your sperm - even once they have left your body. Do not let your sperm out of your sight. If you don't want children, not now, not ever, get a vasectomy. If you may want children one day, be careful. Use condoms - even if she says she's on the pill. Dispose of the condom yourself. Go to the washroom, turn the thing inside out and wash it out before putting it in the waste basket. If you ejaculate in her mouth, don't let her out of your sight until she swallows. If she spits, clean it up. If you ejaculate on her face, breasts, abdomen, ass, or anywhere else - clean it up.
This is how I and my girlfriend (now wife) became parents. We were fucking missionary style, with a condom. One of our sex games was to role play - we were pretending to be doing porn (no there was no camera). I pulled out, removed the condom, and ejaculated on her bush. She hadn't reached orgasm yet and began vigourously masturbating. A few weeks later the pregnancy test came back positive. This wasn't "planned" on her part, we had the child, we're still together, and our lives have been enriched by this child. The story is merely to illustrate the point that an internal ejaculation is not required to impregnate a woman.
If a woman really wants to trap a guy, she doesn't need to get him to fuck her bareback. All she needs to do is suck him off, then run to the washroom, spit in a cup, and then use a syringe to shoot it up her vagina. Even if a guy comes on her breasts, she can excuse herself to "clean up" and insert the still potent sperm. Even if she cleans you up after a hand job, the little buggers could be put to their life-giving use. Just because you didn't give her a vaginal creampie doesn't mean you're safe. Be prudent.
You are responsible for your sperm - even once they have left your body. Do not let your sperm out of your sight. If you don't want children, not now, not ever, get a vasectomy. If you may want children one day, be careful. Use condoms - even if she says she's on the pill. Dispose of the condom yourself. Go to the washroom, turn the thing inside out and wash it out before putting it in the waste basket. If you ejaculate in her mouth, don't let her out of your sight until she swallows. If she spits, clean it up. If you ejaculate on her face, breasts, abdomen, ass, or anywhere else - clean it up.
This is how I and my girlfriend (now wife) became parents. We were fucking missionary style, with a condom. One of our sex games was to role play - we were pretending to be doing porn (no there was no camera). I pulled out, removed the condom, and ejaculated on her bush. She hadn't reached orgasm yet and began vigourously masturbating. A few weeks later the pregnancy test came back positive. This wasn't "planned" on her part, we had the child, we're still together, and our lives have been enriched by this child. The story is merely to illustrate the point that an internal ejaculation is not required to impregnate a woman.
If a woman really wants to trap a guy, she doesn't need to get him to fuck her bareback. All she needs to do is suck him off, then run to the washroom, spit in a cup, and then use a syringe to shoot it up her vagina. Even if a guy comes on her breasts, she can excuse herself to "clean up" and insert the still potent sperm. Even if she cleans you up after a hand job, the little buggers could be put to their life-giving use. Just because you didn't give her a vaginal creampie doesn't mean you're safe. Be prudent.
They don't need to live long, just long enough. Generally, the best chances for a pregnancy occur when the man ejaculates deep in the vagina. Couples trying to conceive are often counselled to have sex every other day. This allows not only the man's sperm count to recover, but also increases the velocity of the money shot. For those of you who whack off (isn't that everyone), you will likely notice that if you do not ejaculate for several days, your next ejaculation will be more likely to "shoot out" of your dick. If, on the other hand, you had several orgasms recently, the semen may just dribble out. The deep "shots" are more likely to impregnate the woman.lolathelovely said:
However, sperm can "swim up" the vagina and reach the egg all on their own, even after being exposed to air. The chances are much lower, but it does happen. I've never knowingly met a woman devious enough to recuperate sperm from a condom or from her mouth in order to get pregnant, but it can happen.
I would think an escort who did this would have a bigger problem trying to find the father of the child than anything else.digdoo said:
and regarding 'all those'... Yep, I'm sure there are a ton of them. Nothing like having safe sex with an escort then her shooting herself full of the goo of some stranger.
a 1 player said:I would think an escort who did this would have a bigger problem trying to find the father of the child than anything else.
and regarding 'all those'... Yep, I'm sure there are a ton of them. Nothing like having safe sex with an escort then her shooting herself full of the goo of some stranger.
'Cept in the wisdom of out omnipotent family court system...... the second she's popped out your bastard you're not a stranger.... you're FAMILY & she, the kid & the courts OWN YOU for about 20 years.
Always bet to keep in mind that in the event a bastard shows up... you are %100 fucked..... So make %10000 sure it never happens.
I was chatting online with an SP and asked her about unexpected pregnancy as per MTT. Her response was that she herself is on the pill, which is her first line of defence. The condom she makes clients wear is the first line of defence against STD's, and a backup second line of defence against pregnacy. If the condom were ever to break, or if she had drunk sex without a condom, the morning after pill is a third line of defence against unwanted pregnancy. In her opinion, if MTT's lady friend was not on the pill, and had sex without a condom, and didn't seek out the morning after pill, and is over 30, then the girl either has a room temp IQ, or else wanted to get pregnant - probably the later. She also thought MTT's opinion that the girl picked him since he had deep pockets and could afford child support is a reasonable assumption. That said, at the end of the day, it doesn't matter if the girl was setting him up as far as child support laws in Ontario work, so the girl's motivation is beside the point. The girl has the choice to decide if she ends the pregnancy or not. MTT IF he is the biological father has the choice to never see or contact her or the child ever if he so choses - IF he is the father and IF she applies for support, he could send his monthly payments to the govt who would send them to her. Support only kicks in if the mother requests it. She may or may not request it (as a another poster mentioned).
Yet another thread I've created which has garnered many thousands of page views. Thanks for the cheque, Fred. All the rest of you, please drive through.
Mao Tse Tongue said:Yet another thread I've created which has garnered many thousands of page views. Thanks for the cheque, Fred. All the rest of you, please drive through.
easy solution...move to colombia for good, just dont tell her, or do the paternity test, is for your own good, she might not even approve since there is anotehr guy, but for peace of mind, best option
