Yeah. That is me too. Put in the time, into my own business and now things are smooth. It was a little rocky in adjusting to COVID but even that worked out better then expected.Self employment is the biggest liberator. But it takes a certain aptitude so not many involved. 18 hour days/7 days a week for two years to build my business twenty years ago. Business runs itself. Company vehicle, etc. Good disposable income.
I am also somewhat frugal. My phone is a few years old, my car is bought outright and never off the lot and always a few years old. Like the other poster, drive it to ground.