Name 1 thing single men should do before marriage

[Adam_hadam]

1. Fuck her mother.

2. Convert your assets into gold and bury it.

3. Fuck the bridesmaids.

4. Get a vasectomy.

I would agree especially #3 but I would hold off on #4.

 

[whynot888]

Maybe... In my case, I was the last of my buddies to get married. They dated younger women who wanted to be married and have families... I dated older women that were career-driven and not as family oriented. They wanted to work and travel the world with family coming later... I married a younger chick and had kids... Now she doesn't want sex or to eat meat. She mediates and TikTok's all day planning how to limit work, travel the world and then retire early...

I'm saying the above for the purpose of highlighting how different things become in time... The person you're marrying will unlikely be the same as the person you're married to. I also think older women have themselves sorted out more as to what they want in life. In my experience, they were honest about it and that truth was actually helpful.

I feel for you, you sound miserable.

 

[fall]

im curious to hear what you think you guys should've done

Have sext with so many different women that he will get sick of "diversity" and had no desire for sex on the side.

 

[Goodoer]

Have sext with so many different women that he will get sick of "diversity" and had no desire for sex on the side.

I think the only thing that can prevent sex on the side is an engaging and loving relationship (i.e. a satisfying relationship).

 

[Goodoer]

I feel for you, you sound miserable.

Lolz. Thanks. It is tough to do so well, yet so poorly at the same time. Keeping up stable appearances for my kids, family and coworkers is a challenge. I play a lot of hockey which will free up my mind, but COVID has really kicked the shit out of that avenue for peace.

 

[anon1]

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