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Name 1 thing single men should do before marriage

jcpro

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Just say NO!
 
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superstar_88

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don't buy the cow
 
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Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...
Depends on where you are in life. We both had “nothing”. Since then I’ve worked hard and tripled my income. She’s making marginally more than she did and works even less (2 full days, 2 half days). She’s now taking about retiring (no working beyond 50).
Do they make an agreement for this situation? Will a judge tell her to work more? 😛
 

Robert Mugabe

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Depends on where you are in life. We both had “nothing”. Since then I’ve worked hard and tripled my income. She’s making marginally more than she did and works even less (2 full days, 2 half days). She’s now taking about retiring (no working beyond 50).
Do they make an agreement for this situation? Will a judge tell her to work more? 😛
You are kind of reinforcing my point.
 

Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...
My recommendation would be to evaluate her mother. If her mother is someone you don’t like, move on. Your future wife will most likely be similar. At best you’ll not like your MIL. It is not fair, but will keep you safe.
 
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Robert Mugabe

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Maybe I’m naive, but I thought a pre-nup only protects what you had going into marriage?
 
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hipjdog

If you feel the need to do something before the marriage to "get it out of your system"
it's going to be there during the marriage as well. If your mentality is you need to have
1 last wild night or something then you're doomed. Don't get married. It's clear you don't
actually want to.
 

whynot888

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In all seriousness, i think you should travel to various countries with your buddies...The fun you will have will be un-comparable if you were to do this afterwards.
 
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Samranchoi

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Put your balls in a vice and close it. Marry the wrong woman and you will know what the experience will feel like.
 

Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...

Goodoer

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GTA & Thereabouts...
In all seriousness, i think you should travel to various countries with your buddies...The fun you will have will be un-comparable if you were to do this afterwards.
Maybe... In my case, I was the last of my buddies to get married. They dated younger women who wanted to be married and have families... I dated older women that were career-driven and not as family oriented. They wanted to work and travel the world with family coming later... I married a younger chick and had kids... Now she doesn't want sex or to eat meat. She mediates and TikTok's all day planning how to limit work, travel the world and then retire early...

I'm saying the above for the purpose of highlighting how different things become in time... The person you're marrying will unlikely be the same as the person you're married to. I also think older women have themselves sorted out more as to what they want in life. In my experience, they were honest about it and that truth was actually helpful.
 
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