My wife shaved her pussy. Should I be worried?

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

wow, talk about low blows

Ya. Not exactly character building behaviour and I guess I can't be childish and say she started it.

I have to own up for what I said. I don't like being this way and I should be woman enough not to retaliate.

My apologies to both her and the board. .

Hun I care about my kid. I just recognize that a woman who spent years learning about childhood development is a huge asset to helping a child develop. And I am not arrogant enough to assume I will have better skills than she does. And between my mother, our nanny, hos father, and I he is getting more attention that most children will ever get. So your comments are observed, but set aside as you simply tring to gain pleasure from annoying others (as you indicated you enjoyed).

I did not put you on ignore because you were quiet after the horny guy went after you. No need to

Enough. I enjoy annoying you. Not others. Do not continue to put words in my mouth. I enjoyed annoying you because that is the only reason you are seemingly here. Is to annoy others and sometimes, someone needs to dish it back. That will not be me anymore so long as you keep your crap to yourself. Do not attempt to slam me again. I called a truce. I left you alone for a long time and you think it was cool to go after me for no reason. I will not stand for it.

My opinions on your care of your kid, I will keep to myself for the time being but you know what they are.

And horny guy was a bullshit troller who did a fine job of going after you as well, but he is not here anymore, so you might want to reconsider putting me on ignore if you can not control yourself and refrain from further comments to me. I have left with an apology even though you are not offering one up yourself for your cheap shots at me. That is fine. Par for the course with you. I will be more then happy to do the same and not comment to you either. If not, next time it will be a lot worse then some abortion comments. Ball is in your court.

 

[The Fruity Hare]

So, three years to the day of the original posting, what do we know?

The original poster who was in an almost sexless marriage, discovered that his wife was in fact having an affair. He accumulated evidence, filed for and completed his divorce. He appears to have moved on and reopened this thread to update other members.


Congratulations to you sir....


It now has little to do with that, but instead has become another battleground which is not going to resolve anything. Personally speaking, if I were happily married and traveling the world with untold wealth at my fingertips, TERB would be so far from my mind that I wouldn't feel the need to correct all wrongs being spoken here. The internet is a big place, you can get lost trying to be the internet policeman. It isn't worth it.

I will never understand the hold that TERB has on Caloki, but I don't feel the need to directly respond to his or her posts. Maybe just let the battle die off and let the OP know he did ok in the end.

 

[mrsCALoki]

So, three years to the day of the original posting, what do we know?

The original poster who was in an almost sexless marriage, discovered that his wife was in fact having an affair. He accumulated evidence, filed for and completed his divorce. He appears to have moved on and reopened this thread to update other members.


Congratulations to you sir....


It now has little to do with that, but instead has become another battleground which is not going to resolve anything. Personally speaking, if I were happily married and traveling the world with untold wealth at my fingertips, TERB would be so far from my mind that I wouldn't feel the need to correct all wrongs being spoken here. The internet is a big place, you can get lost trying to be the internet policeman. It isn't worth it.

I will never understand the hold that TERB has on Caloki, but I don't feel the need to directly respond to his or her posts. Maybe just let the battle die off and let the OP know he did ok in the end.

There is no where else on earth I can let my hair down and admit I did what I did. Very cathartic. Standing up for myself when attacked is also a relatively cathartic experience as well. And trawlers have a lots of free time for playing on the internet.

 

[Old Milwaukee]

Ya. Not exactly character building behaviour and I guess I can't be childish and say she started it.

I have to own up for what I said. I don't like being this way and I should be woman enough not to retaliate.

My apologies to both her and the board. .

well said, we can all get get carried away at times, good on ya to own up and apologize.

 

[out4fun]

So, three years to the day of the original posting, what do we know?

The original poster who was in an almost sexless marriage, discovered that his wife was in fact having an affair. He accumulated evidence, filed for and completed his divorce. He appears to have moved on and reopened this thread to update other members.


Congratulations to you sir....


It now has little to do with that, but instead has become another battleground which is not going to resolve anything. Personally speaking, if I were happily married and traveling the world with untold wealth at my fingertips, TERB would be so far from my mind that I wouldn't feel the need to correct all wrongs being spoken here. The internet is a big place, you can get lost trying to be the internet policeman. It isn't worth it.

I will never understand the hold that TERB has on Caloki, but I don't feel the need to directly respond to his or her posts. Maybe just let the battle die off and let the OP know he did ok in the end.

Thank you for being a voice of reason, and yes I have tried to move on. Its not easy, but its getting better.

 

[Captain Jean-Luc Picard]

I will never understand the hold that TERB has on Caloki, but I don't feel the need to directly respond to his or her posts. Maybe just let the battle die off and let the OP know he did ok in the end.

I'm willing to bet a lot of money this loki persona is just a troll job by some dude sitting in a basement somewhere.

 

[mrsCALoki]

I'm willing to bet a lot of money this loki persona is just a troll job by some dude sitting in a basement somewhere.

Oh oh I will take that bet. We can get a lawyer to hold both our bets and give the money to the winner

But lets make it worth my while. How about $100,000? What will you accept as proof? I would never provide it to you but I will to a responsible lawyer.

Oh and loser pays legal costs

 

[ColdHands]

Perhaps she wanted a change in her lifestyle or she want's to feel much more confident. Improving your beauty always boosts your confidence.

 

[The Fruity Hare]

Perhaps she wanted a change in her lifestyle or she want's to feel much more confident. Improving your beauty always boosts your confidence.

Did you read the thread?

She was shaving her pussy, for whom was she improving her beauty?

 

[Captain Jean-Luc Picard]

Oh oh I will take that bet. We can get a lawyer to hold both our bets and give the money to the winner

But lets make it worth my while. How about $100,000? What will you accept as proof? I would never provide it to you but I will to a responsible lawyer.

Oh and loser pays legal costs

Is your lawyer's name Lennay Kekua?

 

[mrsCALoki]

Is your lawyer's name Lennay Kekua?

Any lawyer recommended by the Upper Canada guys will be ok. This is simple, you put in your $100,000 if you are right you double it. Or if I do not match your funds etc at worse you get bragging rights to having humiliated me on Terb, proven your point, ad gotten rid of me. Simple. Easy.

Think of the glory! Now put up or shut up.



Want me to pick a lawyer?

 

[ColdHands]

Did you read the thread?

She was shaving her pussy, for whom was she improving her beauty?

Yes I read what the OP stated. For him probably. Have you not seen girls these days? It's a whole lot of competition out there. Feeling insecure is one of the hardest feelings to drive away, nothing wrong with trying to change your lifestyle by changing something different. And if you're referring to the multiple pages in this thread then no. I only read the OP statement.

 

[out4fun]

Yes I read what the OP stated. For him probably. Have you not seen girls these days? It's a whole lot of competition out there. Feeling insecure is one of the hardest feelings to drive away, nothing wrong with trying to change your lifestyle by changing something different. And if you're referring to the multiple pages in this thread then no. I only read the OP statement.

Thanks for taking a stab at it, but the answer came to light a little over a year ago.

 

[The Fruity Hare]

Yes I read what the OP stated. For him probably. Have you not seen girls these days? It's a whole lot of competition out there. Feeling insecure is one of the hardest feelings to drive away, nothing wrong with trying to change your lifestyle by changing something different. And if you're referring to the multiple pages in this thread then no. I only read the OP statement.

It's usually best not to comment unless you have most or all the information.

 

[alwayswantto]

Getting back to the OP, and the original thread. A wife suddenly shaving or waxing her pussy bare does not by itself mean anything else is going on. She may have seen a movie or read a book and wanted to see how it feels and looks. She may be going through a period of less confidence and wants to see if her husband notices. Now, if this action is shared with other behaviour changes, such as being home later than usual, suddenly starting to see her friends at odd hours, etc, then you should worry.

You do realize that it was over 3 years ago when the OP started this post? Since then, he found out she was cheating, filed for divorce and hired a hitman to kill her (ok, joking about the last part).

Out4fun - one piece of advice; stay single now!

 

[thesun]

Either way, it still stings when a partner cheats and it goes both ways. Hang in there out4fun.

Hopefully you and your ex wife will find some conclusion and happiness so you both can move on.

I always think a breakup is always difficult regardless of the situation. I think when we develop habits, bad or good ones, they are very diffiult to let go but inevitably you will break away from your habits.

 

[out4fun]

Either way, it still stings when a partner cheats and it goes both ways. Hang in there out4fun.

Hopefully you and your ex wife will find some conclusion and happiness so you both can move on.

I always think a breakup is always difficult regardless of the situation. I think when we develop habits, bad or good ones, they are very diffiult to let go but inevitably you will break away from your habits.

Well said, and thanks. You are right about the habits. A year later, an not a day goes by where something doesn't remind me of my wife. I guess after knowing her for more than 25 years, it shouldn't seem surprising. It's very hard to get her out of my mind, even though now, I would never consider a reconcilliation. I'm really working hard to try and put it behind me and move on, but when I know I'll be writing cheques to her twice a month for the next 10 years, it won't be easy.

 

[Smash]

I'll be writing cheques to her twice a month for the next 10 years, it won't be easy.

Ouch.. I think I'll stay single for awhile.
Keep ur head up bro

 

[mrsCALoki]

The only reason women will cheat on their men is when they feel ignored or insecure because of his actions. They blame him. It is always easier to reason this from their perspective. You didn't show her enough love and affection. It's all about the attention she wanted. She always wanted to be adored and treated like a goddess. IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM !!!

I suspect that is a very wise statement, but would add honesty . I am 28 and a lot of my childhood and school friends are/were married. It seems that the ones who are/were cheating and those who elected to get a divorce felt that way. They were not # 1 in their husbands behaviours, so they found that somewhere else. I have not yet figured out where children fit in. They are very important but in some ways are in competition for attention.

I have a suspicion but no evidence that it is the same on the man's side. I know mine wants to be #1.

In a weird way it is like housing. You can rent a hotel room and have no responsibilities at all except to pay per use. You can rent an apartment and need to clean and do dishes etc but have little if any vested investment, or you can buy a house and have to spend time on maintenance etc, but you have something of your own that improves in value year after year, unless you stop doing maintenance

 

[Hilfiger]

Right, the way to look at this is shit happens. Plenty of good women out there, and one shouldn't be afraid of a relationship, or even marriage once more.
I would never consider dating and marriage with a woman that does not have a job/career. I don't believe in the "stay at home to raise the kids" thing. There are nannies, daycare, and the parents are there too (and I mean both parents). When we are busy with our careers and family life, our minds are less likely to wander. With a career, either of the parties are also not looking out to be supported for the rest of their lives by someone else.