My wife shaved her pussy. Should I be worried?
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a wise friend once told me (and i believe it is absolutely true as per my experience WOMEN WANT TO BE WANTED
Well I do. I think you might even expand that to "Humans want to be wanted" or "humans want to be wanted and appreciated"
Yes, I think its obvious that "she wanted to be wanted". I have 2 kids, and she wondered why I always had time for them. I have 3 companies, that I had to make time for. Ultimately, from her viewpoint,I didn't make enough time for her, on her own.
I will never say that it was a bad 25 years. If she didn't leave, I would still be trying to make it work.
I haven't lost hope on meeting a nice woman again someday- but I will never be a woman's sole source of financial support ever again.
I will never say that it was a bad 25 years. If she didn't leave, I would still be trying to make it work.
I haven't lost hope on meeting a nice woman again someday- but I will never be a woman's sole source of financial support ever again.
Just give her somewhere between 7 and 8 million right at the begining. That way she can leave whenever she wants, and you can be confident she is staying because she loves you. Simple.
wow, billions of people live on less than one dollar a day and THAT is your answer. what a terribly sick and entitled worldview.
Sorry hun, some people get given a little money by a lot of men, some people get given a a lot of money by one man. Who cares? You seem to like your men, I more than like mine. Who cares?
If you want to become insulting, I guess I can oblige
I really don't think its ever about the money in the begining anways, so I don't think this would save much hassle. When it's time to leave, she'll still feel entiled to more....and there's no gaurantee that she's hanging around because of love...she might just hang around because "there's more where that came from".
It was revealed as such in a thread several months ago, that has of course since been deleted. Loki must have been drunk when he posted that thread but the Mrs thing was confirmed to be a sad man asking for help, who then (sadly) deleted the thread in which he asked for help. Ah well, the internet!
I was half joking but the simple answer is that most women over a certain age do factor in men's ability to provide for them in the equation. Regardless of if they will be working or not. At one extreme the guy is a co-investor in life, at the other he is the sole provider.
Every man must wonder if he is desirable and attractive or if his income is. It is much worse when the girl was or is an SP. From her perspective she has to ask "Is he trying to buy me? does he respect me? Does he love me? Will he try and control me with money?" From his there are equally troubling questions "Does she love me for me? Will she abandon me if she sees a better sucker / if I lose my money / if she gets her hands on my money?"
They are just part of the package deal. In my limited experience of 1 man, the pre-nup was a disaster. I was trying to take nothing to prove I wanted him and he was trying to give me most of it to prove he was not trying to control me. We had some huge heated discussions over that. Over all no one walked away convinced.
LL sort of cut away the BS and transferred a rather big chunk of assets to me. Enough that I could live very comfortably for the rest of my life. Basically he set me free. And I settled in with him for ever. I knew he had given up the money card. And he knew I elected to be with him.
For us it worked. It was a huge gamble on his part. If he was wrong, he would have lost well over 10 % of his life time accumulated wealth. That is a lot for a guy in his late 50s. Risking that much for me made me fall even more deeply in love with him.
Also if we end it, in theory I walk with what is mine and he walks with what is his. Simple.
The real secret is communicating and growing together. I guess someone peeking into our place would think we are slightly updated old folks. I love sitting on the couch with him and having my feet rubbed. Most often he is using his PC to track trends and figure out a way to make money, and I am on this or one of the other forums. 21st century version of sitting, rocking, and watching the people go bye?
BUt we talk a lot, about everything. And that helps a lot. And we natter. God do we ever natter.
Do not give up on love, just accept it is the hardest job imaginable, and the most rewarding.
well I offered to take the bet, but he just shut up.
oddly many of the fine people on Terb cannot distinguish between fact and their little fantasies. It would have been so easy to set up and he could have bragged he was the man who outed me, assuming he won the bet
