I feel like my marriage is falling apart. My wife and I don't seem to have that spark as we once used to and its as if we are drifting apart further and further each day. We have a 4 year old boy and she's taking time to raise him as a stay home mom. This is something we agreed upon but our sex life is really bad and it feels like a chore after our son was born. She seems less interested in sex and Im always the one getting aroused. She's an amazing mother and I know it's hard for her as it's not easy taking care of our son and maintaining household but ever since the baby her sex drive has gone down the shit. And her breasts have changed drastically, she doesn't take off bra during little sex we get. I did talk to her about it but the conversation goes nowhere and she's always feeling tired. I myself feel drained on Sundays and afterwards when we did have sex, it was less spontaneous since she's always worried about him hearing us. Why you'd be worried about an infant hearing you moan, I don't know??? This inhibition is getting worse. We do fight sometimes but I feel like my marriage is nowhere it once was. To cut to the chase before I get way too personal, I think once in awhile seeing escort isn't so bad for me. Im going to be very new to this and as I'm typing, both my wife and son are asleep but I feel really horny. This could for now just help me release some tention. Any recommendations on escort, all protected and very secret would be much appreciated. Thank you and please don't think of me as a scum, I love my wife very much and I know she does too but if I could just feel something and get back to her with no strings attached, I think it will be all good. Just to get sex off my mind.
My marriage falling apart, any escort recommendations?
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Here's a straight-up advice that should help you out (outlet for your horny hormones) while giving you time to work on and save your marriage. Have you tried "self-service"? Get a lube or baby oil, a box of napkins, wait till wife and son are snoring off, bring out the laptop, type "porn", you will bedazzled with tons of beautiful babes in various states of undress and sexual fantasies...enjoy. Safe (STI risk-free), cheap, you don't need to sneak out during lunch time at work or buy a burner phone, and best of all, you "get off a load" without wife batting an eye.
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Thinking, What type of provider are you looking for?:
-age
-body type
-incall or outcall
-geographic area
-age
-body type
-incall or outcall
-geographic area
Thinking, an escort will not solve your marital problems. We may be more empathetic than the norm bt not train psychologist. Im really sorry you are going in this hard time.
If you do decide to see an escort, I would suggest to see an indy (yeah okay im one so my opinion may not matter) and book more than one hour. Yes people on this board wills ay book 30 minutes whatever.
Unless you are looking to fuck a 20 years old blonde and try to do all the acronyms in the shortest periods of time...go for indy.
A lot (if not all) have twitter nowadays. You can see the personality of a person, from what they stand for, their silly pet pics, new pics etc.
Also if you only relay on this board yeah maybe say what you like physically. a 45 years old black lady or a 22 years old blonde with enhance breasts may be totally different
If you do decide to see an escort, I would suggest to see an indy (yeah okay im one so my opinion may not matter) and book more than one hour. Yes people on this board wills ay book 30 minutes whatever.
Unless you are looking to fuck a 20 years old blonde and try to do all the acronyms in the shortest periods of time...go for indy.
A lot (if not all) have twitter nowadays. You can see the personality of a person, from what they stand for, their silly pet pics, new pics etc.
Also if you only relay on this board yeah maybe say what you like physically. a 45 years old black lady or a 22 years old blonde with enhance breasts may be totally different
Jerking off doesn't help me unfortunately. Im looking for something much more rejuvenating. You mentioned burner phones, how do I get one? As a pay as you go type?
Thanks. I don't mind anywhere from 25 to 35. Too young and I may feel uncomfortable. I like slim, average body type. Blonde or brunette doesn't matter to me. Incall meaning I go to her? Than I prefer that. I can't host at my house Christ! I can drive but I live out in Kanata so not too far.
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Yes Pay as you go is a burner phone. You can get prepaid phones at any electronics retailer. Fido, Virgin Mobile, Freedom Mobile, Chatr and Koodo have prepaid plans and pay as you go. You can also download texting apps on your phone like, text now(you can encrypt your texts) and textplus.
Thanks Malika, I think the best escort for me would be someone who is open and expressive. My first time I feel I would be very nervous but I'll give it a shot. I'm not happy about this at all but rather just do it and put allot of thought into it. I fear if my wife ever finds out I don't know what I'd do! Are any providers cool with keeping it very professional? I know it's sad, but I can do?
Ok awesome. I am a fido customer myself, I'll look into it tomorrow. Are these apps available on Android free or do I pay a premium?
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Is downtown too far for you? Most of the independent providers that I know have their incalls downtown. I know that BLE agency (Body Language Entertainment) has their incalls in Kanata. http://www.ble-list.com/index.php?page=schedule
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Some well-reviewed independent providers that I suggest to you:
Whitney 613-707-2377:
Link: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...mber_whitney_sexy_blonde_613_707_2377-3548774
Terb: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?583548-BP-Whitney
Charlotte 613-417-2686 (she has red hair if don't mind):
Link: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe..._sexy_naughty_wild_red_head_charlotte-3556250
Terb: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?580629-Charlotte-BP
Whitney 613-707-2377:
Link: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...mber_whitney_sexy_blonde_613_707_2377-3548774
Terb: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?583548-BP-Whitney
Charlotte 613-417-2686 (she has red hair if don't mind):
Link: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe..._sexy_naughty_wild_red_head_charlotte-3556250
Terb: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?580629-Charlotte-BP
Talk to your wife, explain the situation as you see it, things will definitely be different from her perspective. Suggest joint counselling, right or wrong the problem is in your head, a counsellor is better able to fix it than an escort.
See an escort if you only want to get your rocks off, but the guilt will kill you IMHO.
See an escort if you only want to get your rocks off, but the guilt will kill you IMHO.
An SP, or even a good MA, may provide you with temporary physical relief, but will not go any distance in fixing what is wrong with your relationship with your wife. I'm not Dear Abby and hesitate to offer advice. However, I am a single gent who has gone through a very similar experience. If matters are not improving within 4 years after your wife gave birth, they are unlikely to do so unless both of you (and it sounds like especially she) requires counselling and unless she first comes around to redeveloping an appetite for sex. In any case, and especially after my ex hit menopause, matters only continued to deteriorate. You might consider speaking with your family doctor, if you have confidence in their abilities to offer references to counselors. I personally found my best solution to be a good lawyer and am most happily UNmarried and now free to spend time with any lady I choose.
If you do decide to see providers, DO NOT focus on one (or even a small number) and come to depend on them as a replacement for affection from your wife. Maintain perspective...these lovely ladies provide "quantifiably compensated companionship" and relief. Many of the good ones are great listeners, some even have backgrounds in psychology, and their services can be therapeutic. However, always remember that it is their choice (and yours) to end the provide-client relationship any time either party chooses.
Best of luck!
If you do decide to see providers, DO NOT focus on one (or even a small number) and come to depend on them as a replacement for affection from your wife. Maintain perspective...these lovely ladies provide "quantifiably compensated companionship" and relief. Many of the good ones are great listeners, some even have backgrounds in psychology, and their services can be therapeutic. However, always remember that it is their choice (and yours) to end the provide-client relationship any time either party chooses.
Best of luck!
It is very natural for women, after they have had a baby, especially a first born, to lose interest in sex. Their job, in an evolutionary sense, is to care for the infant, not the mate. It sounds like you are sensitive and caring enough. Perhaps you can coach one another through this and make your relationship even stronger than before. Careful putting too much emphasis on sex. Just my two cents worth, from an older guy who has been through it.
What are you doing to help improve your situation for you and your wife?
You say she won't take her bra off, do you think that maybe she is feeling low about herself, about her body? How is she suppose to get in the mood for you when she doesn't feel sexy? Have you given her time off from the SAM routine? Have you spent some time, money and effort into a date night or weekend get-a-way she would enjoy?
The way to a woman's vagina is through her heart. Maybe start there.
You say she won't take her bra off, do you think that maybe she is feeling low about herself, about her body? How is she suppose to get in the mood for you when she doesn't feel sexy? Have you given her time off from the SAM routine? Have you spent some time, money and effort into a date night or weekend get-a-way she would enjoy?
The way to a woman's vagina is through her heart. Maybe start there.
Okay, so I'm not the ideal person to respond to this, but been there....done that.... When my sex life started to twindle, whether it be age or sex drive or my wife not caring about her body anymore, the one thing i thought about is the kids and that she is a great mom and separating would devastate them. I'm not mean or malicious toward her, i understand it happens.
So I took up hobbying as a way to keep me happy and not come home frustrated and take it out on my wife.
it used to be once a month, but now more like twice a month, or more as I do travel a lot and prefer to do it on the road (out of town!). I am mostly an MA kind of guy, as I like the quality massages and then its kinda like the taboo RMT that goes to far scenario. The hour (or two) that I spend with my favorite MA is a good time for to relax, get my rocks off and enjoy a nice time with a beautiful woman.
I come home happy and all is good. My wife and I do have sex every now and then, have a great relationship now and the kids are happy....
For me....hobbying SAVED my marriage!
Hawk.
So I took up hobbying as a way to keep me happy and not come home frustrated and take it out on my wife.
it used to be once a month, but now more like twice a month, or more as I do travel a lot and prefer to do it on the road (out of town!). I am mostly an MA kind of guy, as I like the quality massages and then its kinda like the taboo RMT that goes to far scenario. The hour (or two) that I spend with my favorite MA is a good time for to relax, get my rocks off and enjoy a nice time with a beautiful woman.
I come home happy and all is good. My wife and I do have sex every now and then, have a great relationship now and the kids are happy....
For me....hobbying SAVED my marriage!
Hawk.
