My marriage falling apart, any escort recommendations?
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Having gone through a similar situation before, where I did cheat, fessed up and she kept me (we are weirdly honest with each other), we did try to work on the relationship. I am going to suggest listen to these to two podcasts together.
https://longestshortesttime.com/podcast-48-the-parents-guide-to-doin-it
https://longestshortesttime.com/the-parents-guide-to-doing-it-2/
Both have good perspectives and options. If you're only listening to one, do the second one first, especially if she isn't super open minded. Have a discussion, and see where it goes. After that, then decide what to do.
https://longestshortesttime.com/podcast-48-the-parents-guide-to-doin-it
https://longestshortesttime.com/the-parents-guide-to-doing-it-2/
Both have good perspectives and options. If you're only listening to one, do the second one first, especially if she isn't super open minded. Have a discussion, and see where it goes. After that, then decide what to do.
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OnTheWayOut
I usually butt my nose in on a lot of threads, this one I was able to avoid. Until now. Reason is I suck at marriage, been there done that many times. I'm the last guy anyone should listen to for marriage advice. If you're gonna dip your willy then I'm all for it. A good bang always seems to clear my head, not to mention my wallet.
Im not married or the same age as some of the gents here that posted their advice on the topic. But I just read through everything and everyone gave some solid advice. Shoutout to all you guys telling this man not to do it, and writing long responses.
Seems like everyone is really passionate on this topic.
Seems like everyone is really passionate on this topic.
Hey Blackpanther ....If your advice don t work on her????? I was in the same situation 22 years ago, i was 28 years old in top shape and i was very horny with my wife but it did nt work. After the 2 kids she want to fuck 1 or 2 time per month. I had to make a move but i was still in love with her. i had 3 choices..... Divorce, have a mistress or have fun with escort. After 22 years i dont regret but but you need mental toughness and be very organised.
Mental toughness definately, organized definately. Can't be weak in either, else shit hits the ceiling. And sometimes just have to explain why you smell like some other women's pussy.
So many ways to play this, in the end do what feels right. It is possible that it's not fixable. If you didn't have a child I would say get the hell outta there. Does your wife make any effort to take care of herself? Does she eat well and exercise? Perhaps, you can play a sport with her or something like that. Tell her you heard about this new healthy eating trend and you want to try it, if she doesn't take any interest than she's likely a loss cause. On serious thought, breasts implants?
It may come to the sake of the kid, that the only way you can keep the marriage going is by having a side piece, I mean if she won't put any effort in at all to be physically attractive, you can't do it on your own. Is she a feminist?
It may come to the sake of the kid, that the only way you can keep the marriage going is by having a side piece, I mean if she won't put any effort in at all to be physically attractive, you can't do it on your own. Is she a feminist?
If you do it, tell no one. Funny story, well, not really: I gave in and told a good buddy of mine...things go to shit, he tells my wife, we get divorced.
On the plus side, I did have some fun.
Now to the funny part of the story...that was 5 years ago. I've only seen 2 providers since and can count on one hand how many times I've seen each one.
Before getting caught, it was nothing to me to see 5, 6 or more...weekly. It was a regular thing to see more than one a day.
Really make sure you want to do this before venturing out there. As rewarding as it can be, it can also shatter lives
On the plus side, I did have some fun.
Now to the funny part of the story...that was 5 years ago. I've only seen 2 providers since and can count on one hand how many times I've seen each one.
Before getting caught, it was nothing to me to see 5, 6 or more...weekly. It was a regular thing to see more than one a day.
Really make sure you want to do this before venturing out there. As rewarding as it can be, it can also shatter lives
At one point, he "was" a good buddy...for obvious reasons, and others, it kinda went south.
Yep good advice not to tell anyone. This story adds to the pile of trusted "friends" stories I have heard from not only the clients but the SPs....that once the shit hits the fan, trust is put in jeopardy...maybe an argument, maybe a dude wants to bone the guys wife so he tells her figuring she'll break w the hubbie, even ladies being outed by good trusted friends to get back at them over a slight....Thus keep in mind gents...even though things seem good now, one status change can be leveraged upon you in an awful way. If ya really feel ya gotta tell someone....then here is the place. We'll love and forgive you for it lol...
Honestly, I would seek a therapist first to air out any feelings you have before running to a SP.
Oddly enough, the way I sought out my current therapist was from an SP's advice. Said advice did cost me $400 though. (Very long and painful story.)
Here's hoping I can save you some cash.
Oddly enough, the way I sought out my current therapist was from an SP's advice. Said advice did cost me $400 though. (Very long and painful story.)
Here's hoping I can save you some cash.
Curiously! I can confirm he was on a spree for a while back then. Then all of a sudden, shit got serious, and poof... Radio silence for a while.
Hey bootyloving, how are things?
Keeping everything low key now. I still see my favorite MA once a month or so but, that's it. After a while, you kind of get bored with all this.
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Consider what you will be faced with if your marriage goes. Dating isn't any more fun now than it was when you were 20. Considerably less so. You'll meet lots of ladies who have been on the other side of your coin. B I T T E R is the keyword there.
If you think an escort will brighten up your life, be careful. If you stick to recommendations from people here, you will probably have a good experience. Do not stray into the SP listings and let your little head drag you at random. Listen to suggestions here. In your situation, mine would be Monique Matheson. Lots of reviews here. She may be older than you have in mind, however.
Beware this, however: Every guy I know of who strayed caused he felt frustrated with his marriage or long term relationship ended up drowning in guilt. Not after the first recreational f*ck, but within weeks. One guy called me from his driveway, sitting in the car crying in the rain at 10 pm, as he realized he wouldn't be able to look his wife in the face anymore. A week before he was strutting around saying he felt 20 years younger. And generally women know when you've done this sort of thing. Trust me, even if you believe she is ignoring you, she will pick up on it.
If you just want a rocks-off experience sneak off to Pigale during the day shift (open season, little/no monitoring of champagne rooms) and look for Miaia (Maya). Tall, blonde, usually sexy lingerie, killer bod, very French, pornstar attitude and mouth (tongue action) -- and most importantly, not a scammer (doesn't use 'stripper math' in charging for time spent).
Consider what you will be faced with if your marriage goes. Dating isn't any more fun now than it was when you were 20. Considerably less so. You'll meet lots of ladies who have been on the other side of your coin. B I T T E R is the keyword there.
If you think an escort will brighten up your life, be careful. If you stick to recommendations from people here, you will probably have a good experience. Do not stray into the SP listings and let your little head drag you at random. Listen to suggestions here. In your situation, mine would be Monique Matheson. Lots of reviews here. She may be older than you have in mind, however.
Beware this, however: Every guy I know of who strayed caused he felt frustrated with his marriage or long term relationship ended up drowning in guilt. Not after the first recreational f*ck, but within weeks. One guy called me from his driveway, sitting in the car crying in the rain at 10 pm, as he realized he wouldn't be able to look his wife in the face anymore. A week before he was strutting around saying he felt 20 years younger. And generally women know when you've done this sort of thing. Trust me, even if you believe she is ignoring you, she will pick up on it.
If you just want a rocks-off experience sneak off to Pigale during the day shift (open season, little/no monitoring of champagne rooms) and look for Miaia (Maya). Tall, blonde, usually sexy lingerie, killer bod, very French, pornstar attitude and mouth (tongue action) -- and most importantly, not a scammer (doesn't use 'stripper math' in charging for time spent).
Call one of the better known agencies
pic a girl that appeals to your type
make an appointment just like seeing your doctor except not cover by OHIP
so you need to pay cash.......and enjoy
you dont have worry about booking a room you can take shower
and out in half an hour ....you can have some amazing fun
pic a girl that appeals to your type
make an appointment just like seeing your doctor except not cover by OHIP
so you need to pay cash.......and enjoy
you dont have worry about booking a room you can take shower
and out in half an hour ....you can have some amazing fun
Gee, we haven't had a post from Thinking since shortly after he started this novelty thread back in early July. Just curious, is the marriage still falling part, or has it fallen. What joy or grief has Thinking experienced after taking all our advice? Who was his 'first lady', if he did chose to find company? How did it go? No reviews? ....just thinking... don't leave us hanging!!!
