Mothers That Don't Cook

[Lyra Hamilton]

Its not becoming of a woman to be equal to a man by behaving like a man. I feel equal to a man by enjoying my self as a woman.
A woman who has a power suit on as a life style has issues on womanhood just like a man that cooks every meal for he's family has issues with hes manhood.

Truly knowing how to belong and be in your own sex is a sad and frustrating 21 century challenge ;/

 

[mrsCALoki]

ummm not quite. If the father wants to be primary caregiver to his child the mother can't just say "no"... good luck with that! If your marriage breaks up and LL wanted custody of your child.... well... and given your history and his seemingly endless connections and resources... I wonder who would win?

Well in our case it would be a bit difficult to argue for child support. And I cannot imagine anything other than joint custody. That seems to be the norm now days.

But in most situations, I am guessing the man makes enough more than the woman for child support to kick in even if they have joint custody. I could be wrong. Never thought about it much.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Its not becoming of a woman to be equal to a man by behaving like a man. I feel equal to a man by enjoying my self as a woman.
A woman who has a power suit on as a life style has issues on womanhood just like a man that cooks every meal for he's family has issues with hes manhood.

Truly knowing how to belong and be in your own sex is a sad and frustrating 21 century challenge ;/

That is so very very true.

 

[**Sophie**]

Well in our case it would be a bit difficult to argue for child support. And I cannot imagine anything other than joint custody. That seems to be the norm now days.

But in most situations, I am guessing the man makes enough more than the woman for child support to kick in even if they have joint custody. I could be wrong. Never thought about it much.

Whomever the child primarily resides with, will be eligible for the child support, child tax benefits, etc. The child support amount is based on the annual income of the payor.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Some business in the states will not ship goods ( let you order ) if your credit card does not have a US a billing address even if the goods are being shipped to a US address . For example , Rapala USA and Fleet Farm , Home Depot USA . Hence the need for a US billing address.


Many will let you order and will ship to any US address even if you use a Canadian Credit card but not all . That's the problem . I need to get a US credit card that shows a US billing address but really that bill will come to my home address .


Looks like I'll have to check with Bank of Montreal and see if I can get one of those credit cards . Real billing to my home address but address of record will be my US address

I buy gas in the states with my Canadian Tire Master Card and never had to punch in any codes , postal or zip code . Are you saying that now a Canadian Credit card is no good in the US . Nobody in Canada with a Canadian address has a zip code in the US .

Only if you pay at the pump. Possibly only if the station has a prepay policy. You can always walk in and do it the old way.

By the way, the way you do it if first get the US Card, then call in and you want to change the address used to verify POS. The bank cannot do step # 2

 

[mrsCALoki]

Whomever the child primarily resides with, will be eligible for the child support, child tax benefits, etc. The child support amount is based on the annual income of the payor.

Ok I will be getting child support I guess. Seems silly the little guy is better off than most. OK so with joint custody, a week at each house, do you still do child support stuff?

 

[**Sophie**]

Ok I will be getting child support I guess. Seems silly the little guy is better off than most. OK so with joint custody, a week at each house, do you still do child support stuff?

Depends if you decide to settle out of court and have your own amicable agreement on whether child support is needed. Most of the time, child support is still paid for things like, clothing, dental, eye examinations, school etc.

 

[mrsCALoki]

I thought you grew up in the UK . . . They use Post Codes, Postal Codes is a Canadian term.

LOL if you have no idea what you are talking about, why on earth would you open your mouth and sound like an idiot?

Do a search on UK Postal Codes or UK Postcodes. Both terms are used. Postcode is the local thing, but you are instructed to put the Postal Code on for appropriate mail.

Anyone in UK knows what a postal code is.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Depends if you decide to settle out of court and have your own amicable agreement on whether child support is needed. Most of the time, child support is still paid for things like, clothing, dental, eye examinations, school etc.

LOL way to silly for me. I think I will just stay happily married.

 

[simon482]

i got lucky with my ex. we split and managed to stay nice for the kids. i pay support for them and see them as often as i want whenever i want and never have to call first. i just show up and grab them. i loved and do love cooking for them. i just always enjoyed cooking. i crank up the music and get after it.

 

[**Sophie**]

i got lucky with my ex. we split and managed to stay nice for the kids. i pay support for them and see them as often as i want whenever i want and never have to call first. i just show up and grab them. i loved and do love cooking for them. i just always enjoyed cooking. i crank up the music and get after it.

You have to stay nice for the kids, otherwise it won't work. The kids thank you both Good job Simon! You sound like a very loving and caring father

 

[simon482]

You have to stay nice for the kids, otherwise it won't work. The kids thank you both Good job Simon! You sound like a very loving and caring father

the first few (24) months i was evil and ignorant to her and she earned it. i never said shit about her behind her back though and i never said anything i was afraid to say to her face. when it came to the kids though we both wanted to make sure the kids knew both parents love them and were always there no matter what. we are in a good spot now though, we got drunk one night and got all the shit out in the open and sorted it all out. now when i go me and her sit and talk for a bit then i pretend i am leaving and the kids come running out and assault me and tell me i have to take them.

took them for their first ride in the big truck on sunday. the boy loved it, the girl was scared lol.

 

[**Sophie**]

the first few (24) months i was evil and ignorant to her and she earned it. i never said shit about her behind her back though and i never said anything i was afraid to say to her face. when it came to the kids though we both wanted to make sure the kids knew both parents love them and were always there no matter what. we are in a good spot now though, we got drunk one night and got all the shit out in the open and sorted it all out. now when i go me and her sit and talk for a bit then i pretend i am leaving and the kids come running out and assault me and tell me i have to take them.

took them for their first ride in the big truck on sunday. the boy loved it, the girl was scared lol.

Like father, like son lol.

 

[simon482]

Like father, like son lol.

he might love it but i sure as fuck hope he doesn't get into it.