Meeting Someone at 50 Years Old. Different Than 25

[roadhog]

Poorboy...before you advance any more with her, Google Michael Latner. See how bad things can get. You mentioned you have a lot to lose and it appears you`re going to do just that.

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[jeff2]

feelings are the worse way to pick a woman since they are your feelings and not how she feels about you. one problem with people is that they assume the other person is feeling the way they are which is far from the truth. feelings flutter and change quickly. this is typically the honeymoon period.

money equals security and opportunity. its a resource that should be guarded at all cost considering the legal issues that arise in relationship that is splitting.

Yes, men are more emotional than women and believe in a lot of fantasies. Women come with a built in software package that says "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine".
They do a fantastic job of loving children though.

 

[GGGDickson]

The Millionaire, His Ex-Girlfriend, and the Family Court Judge | C2C Journal

Family law in Canada has changed over the decades. C2C Journal looks at the arguably one-sided state of divorce law that has evolved in Canada

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Thanks for that roadhog. This is one reason my lawyer and accountants do not want me to have 'real' relationships. Over the years my lawyer has required my providers to sign NDAs and if we move from hourly dates to longer term dates it is money for services including the fantasy fulfillment. I have learned after it cost me a number of cars, a house, even setting up businesses for providers. Yet I have never had to go to court as they would have to explain how as a sex provider they were entitled to more.

My first lady in Toronto back in the 1980's might have fit the model but after a number of years she went back to her common law husband and we walked away. I came to agreement with her and her common law husband to covered her mortgage, car, utilities, clothes, her monthly allowance for them and their two children but it was clear our arrangement resulted in her being my 'companion' on weekends. In our time together her common law husband came and went but Kimberly and kept the situation going. I even took her on vacations with her children.

Another lady in the 1990's was an escort from Vancouver who had two children and was living in her mothers basement. Our situation grew to the point I agreed to buy a house for her in Montreal and put her two boys in private school as well as get her a car and paid for a male escort to take of her needs while I traveled. As I had my businesses in Europe at that time. Yet my lawyer kept me clean with agreements in place to protect me from these ladies being paid 'companions'.

I have spent a lot on paid companions and although it is not 'love' I get to have the emotional connection feel like it is. If not members of my $100,000 club would have got a lot more out of me. Thank god for service providers.

I think I will take my lawyer out a nice dinner and thank him. LOL

 

[xix]

Another lady in the 1990's was an escort from Vancouver who had two children and was living in her mothers basement. Our situation grew to the point I agreed to buy a house for her in Montreal and put her two boys in private school ..............

I think I will take my lawyer out a nice dinner and thank him. LOL

I am curious how did the kids do after going to private school? No college/University? some college? full university? and do they have great jobs?

 

[GGGDickson]

I am curious how did the kids do after going to private school? No college/University? some college? full university? and do they have great jobs?

Funny thing I had left on one of my long trips returning weeks later only to find a man sitting in the living room. It was her EX. I approached her in the kitchen and she informed me that he was living in Hong Kong and had come back to Canada when customs took his passport because he had not paid his alimony to Lana. He went to her mother in Vancouver where she was living when I met her only to find Lana had joined me in Montreal in the house I had bought. Her mother told him that she and the boys were living in Montreal in a nice house. He found out where she was, came to Montreal and cried to her that he wanted to see the boys.

He had no where to stay so she let him stay at the house I had bought. I got pissed and told her to kick him out he was a dead beat father who had two kids with another woman in Hong Kong who he married. She told me she could not kick him out in front of the boys.

I left never to see her again. In a matter of months he had convinced her to mortgage the house to the max. He took the money and she had sign off for him to get his passport back using the money from the house to settled the alimony issue. He then skipped town to go back to Hong Kong. She had no way to pay the new mortgage and she lost the house. She then sold the Honda CRV to pay for her to move back to Vancouver. The last I heard she was living in her mothers basement. Her mother called me asking me to take her back. She spent all the money I had given her as her monthly fee for over the five years. She had maxed the credit cards I had given her until I paid them off and cancelled them.

I only paid for the two years of private school for the boys. It was back from 2006 to 2011. I have no idea how they did and nor do I have a desire to know. My lawyer was pissed and wanted to go after her but it was not something I thought was worth pursuing. She had nothing I wanted or needed. I had a great six years. It was a blast. I was thankful her EX came back as he broke the illusion cracking the fantasy. I have not bought another provider a house since then. It was the ultimate fantasy where I had a "Home." I had a number of places and still do but as an orphan I never had a home. So I got to live out my ultimate fantasy. Having a home and a family. Nothing last forever. No such thing as love only the money transfer. In the end not my finest moment but I enjoy the 6 years and remember the times I had with her although I lost a lot of the adventures with Lana.

 

[xix]

Wow, beautiful experience in a way. Yeah mother have no shame when it come to their personal benefit when she called you to take her back.
IF you want a paid family then go to Japan an buy one for a week. Conan did for 2 days I think. Make sure they speak English.

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It's stories like yours that people don't believe me and why I choose single life. I am not selfish. It's just my karma in this life.