Massage but don't touch?

[MarianneC]

Having worked at mainly massage establishments over the years, I've seen quite a few guys who couldn't be touched on certain parts of their bodies. Touching them there would have caused them to jump out of their skin, so to speak. There were a few common places that a lot of guys didn't like being touched. But I wonder if these were actually common or just peculiar to just my clients? I want to "probe" the gentlemen of Ottawa for their own experiences. Even if you are not a massage enthusiast, you probably know your own body well enough to answer these.

There are two instances when this could happen. Sometimes some guys don't like being touched here during the massage/foreplay. The other time, it might be after orgasm. I'm not making a distinction inside the poll, but if this happened at either of these two times, or both, give the selection a click, but please do explain if it it's an issue before or after orgasm for you? You can choose an unlimited number of the choices, select all that apply to you. If you choose the "other" category, then definitely do explain it below, where it is for you.

 

[haplessinquiry]

Interesting poll, let me see if any of this applied to me or not?

Okay, so I selected the ass/prostate option, but it's really just the prostate that I don't like being touched at. I'm completely fine with the rest of the ass. I suppose you ran into a limit on the number of poll questions you can ask, so you had to combine a couple?

Also I selected the little head option, but I'm completely fine being touched there during foreplay, it was after orgasm that it becomes a no-touch area.

 

[MarianneC]

Okay, so I selected the ass/prostate option, but it's really just the prostate that I don't like being touched at. I'm completely fine with the rest of the ass. I suppose you ran into a limit on the number of poll questions you can ask, so you had to combine a couple?

Yes, exactly, couldn't be helped there's only a limited space for answers.

 

[Willie Layer]

I’m wide open baby.

 

[MaverickPunter]

Are you a rough girl?

 

[MarianneC]

Interesting so far, most guys are saying they don't mind being touched anywhere. I guess a bunch of tough guys, eh?

 

[MaverickPunter]

 

[DirtyMiind]

Not sure what it is, but just below my navel, slightly above my waist, there's a spot that when initially touched it causes me to jump/flinch for no reason at all. After that it's fine, unless I'm not expecting it. Even when my wife does it sometimes it happens. So odd.

 

[thedude35]

Not sure what it is, but just below my navel, slightly above my waist, there's a spot that when initially touched it causes me to jump/flinch for no reason at all. After that it's fine, unless I'm not expecting it. Even when my wife does it sometimes it happens. So odd.

I have a few places like this, mostly on my back. I have to be REALLY relaxed for it to not cause me to jump!

 

[randomott]

I was once ear-fingered during a shameful and drunken visit to 256 Bank back in the day. She actually stuck her finger in my ear and said "oh yeah bb" as I was cumming...I don't want to go through that again.

 

[JoeJag]

Well, what if you like being touched where it is sensitive? It may sound counter intuitive, but it is FUN (from experience, it happened to me by surprise and it was incredible!!)!

 

[MarianneC]

Well, what if you like being touched where it is sensitive? It may sound counter intuitive, but it is FUN (from experience, it happened to me by surprise and it was incredible!!)!

Well, then that would be an erogenous zone for you, not a no-go zone. Right?

 

[MarianneC]

I was once ear-fingered during a shameful and drunken visit to 256 Bank back in the day. She actually stuck her finger in my ear and said "oh yeah bb" as I was cumming...I don't want to go through that again.

Oh yes, totally forgot about that one. That used to be one of the most common problem spots for guys. Should've put it in the choices, but there's only a limited number of choices available. Guys either loved it or hated it. You don't normally think of ears as being sexual objects, but they can by themselves make some guys cum, I've seen it.

 

[MarianneC]

Oh yes, guys, if you're choosing the "some other sensitive place" option, please do explain it in the comments where yours is.

 

[MarianneC]

Not sure what it is, but just below my navel, slightly above my waist, there's a spot that when initially touched it causes me to jump/flinch for no reason at all. After that it's fine, unless I'm not expecting it. Even when my wife does it sometimes it happens. So odd.

Yeah, the whole stomach region is full of these erogenous and/or no-go zones. It's all over the place here, no single spot as far as I can tell. I even have a few of these.

 

[MarianneC]

I have a few places like this, mostly on my back. I have to be REALLY relaxed for it to not cause me to jump!

On your back? Then that must make getting massages difficult for you?

 

[thedude35]

On your back? Then that must make getting massages difficult for you?

Depends on the touch and the person. Using the palm or whole hand is fine. Smaller points of pressure, like fingers or knuckles, not so much! Similar to being tickled, I guess. And if the person giving the massage tends to pick up their hands and move them, rather than keep them on me, that's worse. It's like "surprise! I'm on your ticklish spot now". I have ticklish spots on my front, too, but when I can see where their hands are going it's not an issue, and most of those areas aren't really part of a massage anyway. When on my stomach, I can't see, obviously, so my body naturally tenses up in case they go right to a ticklish area.

Yeah, it can be a pain in the ass. But with the right practitioner, it's not an issue.

 

[Joe Blower]

other: ears/neck after I cum

 

[MarianneC]

other: ears/neck after I cum

Oh that is interesting, I've not seen or heard about that becoming overly sensitive post-orgasm, until now!

 

[Lovestoplease]

I really like to be touched all over, especially during a Massage, The rougher the better sometimes with Ladies with Experience. Not Necessarily Dom Sessions, but i do like a lady to who is comfortable in her skin enough to take charge and really make me bow to their needs or wants. Interesting Poll and thread, enjoyed reading it.
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