Massage but don't touch?

[Master Cuddles]

I selected prostate and ball squeezing as areas I'm uncomfortable with.

A CMJ MA I fully trusted gave me my one and only prostate massage and it felt like my anus was on fire, like eating very spicy food the day before. I felt zero pleasure for the 5 or so minutes she massaged me with her finger. At least I tried it once and I now know it's not my thing.

As for my balls being squeezed, it hurts to have my nuts pressed together, as well as a woman's nails dig into my crotch area. It's the only area of my body I don't enjoy fingernails.

Wet fingers or licking my ears is also a turn off as well, but I do enjoy light nibbling though. Nipple squeezing, and especially biting anywhere, is also a turn off.

Everywhere else, having a woman use her fingernails to gently caress my skin, especially my back, is a major turn on!

 

[haplessinquiry]

I selected prostate and ball squeezing as areas I'm uncomfortable with.

A CMJ MA I fully trusted gave me my one and only prostate massage and it felt like my anus was on fire, like eating very spicy food the day before. I felt zero pleasure for the 5 or so minutes she massaged me with her finger. At least I tried it once and I now know it's not my thing.

I had a similar interaction with an MA who I agreed to try my first prostate massage with one day, many years ago. I couldn't walk straight for the next two weeks, due to the residual pain! I avoided prostate massage ever since afterwards. What I've found works for me instead of prostate massage is perineum massage, the area between the scrotum and anus. Fingers aren't penetrating anything at all here, and it's just adjacent to the prostate, so you only feel it on the prostate from outside.

However, that being said, I recently tried light prostate massage with Jasmine/"It's J", an indy MA. I told her since the beginning that I didn't want prostate, but I'm okay with the perineum. So we went along with that for several sessions, and then she suggested maybe I might like a little bit of light penetration. Since I've seen her enough times now to trust her, I agreed to it, and told her I'll let her know when its too far. So that's exactly what happened she only pushed as far as I was comfortable and no more. I think she's prepping me to accept full prostate massage one day.

 

[MarianneC]

It's kind of true, you gotta be so extremely careful about "how you stick it inside there" with the prostate stuff. I wasn't confident in my own ability to do it gently enough, so I wouldn't go there. I didn't like anybody trying that with me either, not my thing. So if I was worried about how painful it might be for me, I'm sure some guys also found it painful. However, I used to know several girls who were extremely turned on by it, they just loved doing prostate massage, like really loved it! They would be mildly disappointed if a guy turned them down for it. I think maybe some are so overwhelmingly enthusiastic about it that they try to force their fingers in before their subjects are sufficiently relaxed enough to accept the penetration. The same goes for guys who like to go in anally, a lot of them simply don't have enough patience to make it pain-free. In both cases, you have to have a partner who is experienced and can relax quickly, you can't do that with somebody who's never done it before.